What makes nice guys unattractive? (Page 2)

[jayjaymarz1189]

Maybe you are really really nice so you get friendzoned and they think of you as a friend.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Being a nice guy is a great thing and most women desire a nice guy, but they also desire spice and nice guys tend to lack spice in terms of zero aggression and no naughtiness and women don't like that man.

Women like best of both worlds.

[hise-DepartmenT]

Many men who appear nice are seen as mundane and just don't have a wide variety of lifestyle entertainments other than golf, the gym and a few times walking together. Many women want men who loves more activities.

[sheflips]

- being dumb
- having mediocre goals or no goals
- man whore
- bad hygiene

[ChristianFriis]

Nice guys don't get their panties moist, douches do, because douches are confident.

[sunshine97_]

Nice guys too can get panties wet, if they too can exude genuine confidence.

[ChristianFriis]

That's unlikely. Confidence comes from victories, victories come from fighting and competing, which nice guys shy away from either because they know they can't win or because they believe what they've been told about male aggression and competitiveness being toxic.

[sunshine97_]

I agree that confidence can come from victories (acknowledging them too, which is very crucial to gaining confidence) but I don't think victories necessarily come from just fighting alone. It can come from achieving goals and managing to help others around. I'm saying this from experience, as I'm currently liking a nice guy at the moment.

[ChristianFriis]

Achieving goals generally means competing with others as well, and if you rely on helping others to boost your confidence you'll just end up being exploited.

[Ninene]

Nice guys can be stupid and naive
Kind guys are just right
Dont be nice, Be kind

[Anonymous]

Nice guys don't get their juices flowing because they are predictable, devoid of tension and conflict, and do not feed the needs of the female ego.

[Redrocket69]

Yup... they all feel like they need to win over some guy that couldn't catch feelings for women until meeting her because that makes her SO important and a special snowflake.

[Nerdking]

Women are so used to douche bags playing around with them they dont know how to see when a Man is being gentle and respectful to them.

[ovi2boss]

Nothing going on in their lifes, no plans, no fun activities , etc
Looks
Poverty
Socially mute or talk less

[r2yr007]

Because some girls are masochists, although tbh some nice guys pretend to be nice.

[Asker]

Yeah I know the type

[r2yr007]

But yeah don't worry, because you will find someone who appreciates your kindness someday.

[Asker]

Thanks I appreciate that

[Anonymous]

Let's face it. People these days LOVE drama, nice guys don't have much drama in them, being gossipy and annoying is much more preferred than having manners and avoiding drama

[dominic_drago]

There's nothing significant about being nice. You should be nice.

[Shutupman]

Because they are physically unnatractive.

[MusicMayhem]

Explains why I'm 29 and never had a girlfriend, yep.

[Shutupman]

@MusicMayhem sorry to hear man.

[MusicMayhem]

F***ing stings seeing people in relationships all around, taking them for granted, then having the nerve to tell me they aren't that great so don't worry about it.

[Shutupman]

@MusicMayhem not every relationship is great granted many people have em for the wrong reasons. But a good relationship is pretty great. I'd say don't give up. Keep putting yourself out there.

[steveguitar]

That makes no sense

[MusicMayhem]

@Shutupman they aren't but at the very least they have company. At least feel they are somewhat desired by someone. I've been trying for over 3 years and 50+ dates, did a dating, attraction and confidence course, go cold approaching 20-30 women a week but I'm wondering if it's even worth it, it just makes me feel worse not getting any success.

[Unit1]

@MusicMayhem at least being physically unattractive is a very viable scapegoat. (face, body shape, not being muscular)
Since being physically unattractive isn't as easy or even possible as changing clothes or applying make up.

But the victim mentality of being short is a self fulfilling prophecy of never getting a girlfriend. At least so has been my experience so far with those guys, who say, that they are short.

[Unit1]

Aaah. I meant to say being physically unattractive isn't as easy or even possible to change as changing clothes or applying make up.

[Unit1]

@MusicMayhem

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[MusicMayhem]

@Unit1 Haha

[Anonymous]

women like sin
thats why

get that through your head
and if you think im wrong go test it

[whyamionhereugh]

There’s no resistance. It’s too easy.

[iamshan]

Don't worry world is changing.

[BlueDream]

When they are pussies.

[Theone11231886]

No bs you're ability to give a fuck

[IrishAyy]

Good Answer. Not giving a fuck pulls more pussy than cars muscles money and all the other bullshit you think works.

[Theone11231886]

@IrishAyy I like your style

[dogfish]

if the girls don't like your looks

[Asker]

I mean in general I know other guys in my situation that actually are good looking guys

[dogfish]

then they won't be unattractive to girls. being nice won't affect their desirability

[FluffyBee]

They're clingy and shy

[Gabaj98x]

If the guy is too clingy or starts being annoying