So I was wondering do you think we crave the love we can't have more because you know you and the person you love can't be together it makes the love even more stronger, deeper and painful.
For example if Romero and Juliet were aloud to be together with no problems do you think they'd would have still loved each other as much as they did.
Do you think forbidden love makes the love for each other stronger?
What Guys Said 27
"So I was wondering do you think we crave the love we can't have more because you know you and the person you love can't be together it makes the love even more stronger, deeper and painful. "
Conceptually, I think that is true, at least to a great extent. Yes.
I think love can be more exciting when it's forbidden.
But no, I don;t think love becomes stronger when it's forbidden.
If anything, it probably becomes weaker over time, because most people will crave the safety and stability of a relationship that isn't forbidden.1
We people are naturally rebellious so yeah I think so1
Forbidden love makes it stronger definitely!1
I think the taboo nature of forbidden love does make it stronger yeah :)1
Yes love will always be able to find way even if the situation has changed it wom’t Effect how strong it is.0
It's just an emotional "challenge accepted"
Because your told no or you know it's wrong, as a youth you want it more because you were told no or no your not supposed to.
A very deflating result.1
Forbidden love tends to make it stronger, in general.0
Yeah we crave stuff we can't have more.. just when u take a simple example when u textinga guy and the guy doesn't text you sometimes on time, puts in those time gaps on purpose, and tht pisses you off cuz u wanna text him, then u realize how much u actually wanna text him0
For the person who loves the other person maybe it can , they understand the other person's value1
They'd have banged a quick one out but then again they'd have reconsidered things differently in different conditions. An arabic proverb says "All that is taboo is wanted." It rhymes in arabic. Anyway, true love survives being taboo but with great effort, but taboo love can make it seem like true love just because it fuels the imagination.1
Not at all. Forbidden love seems great just in teenager's sitcoms. Real life is much more complex than lust and cravings for unnecessary little drama in life.0
Yep, ig so. I am really attracted to white girls but am not allowed to date one because of my parents. In that case ig the love might be stronger! Then again, I haven't dated anyone ever in my life so I wouldn't know 😕0
yeah i think so0
I don't know about love. But the sex can be kinky.0
I think that always sound glamorous and rebellious. But in reality it just adds more problems and stress to a relationship. And usually does not work out.0
It just makes the taboo stronger but eventually like all things it will pass and love becomes a full time job. Love is a job0
Off course. I've always felt a different thrill having sex with girls of other races or races that forbid it big time in their culture0
It makes the situation feel more invigorating ad exciting. So it's more lustful than love.0
It's this kind of love that makes it strongest0
What kinda relationship are you in? @Alice23980
That depends. If you're referring to old-young people romance or incestuous romance or interracial romance or the classic Romeo and Juliet romance.
Some will view it in disgust but between you and your lover... and if really is true love. It doesn't matter what other people say.0
What Girls Said 13
Oh my... Yes definitely yes!
But really... I would like my heart to stop, aching...
i think it makes the desire stronger I don't know if it makes the love stronger.3
No. When you really think about it, it is nothing but selfishness because they 'felt' something and wanted what they wanted. And did what they wanted to do which got one or two of their family members killed besides them killing yourself for them. How is that love?
"So I was wondering do you think we crave the love we can't have more because you know you and the person you love can't be together it makes the love even more stronger, deeper and painful." Again, this is the definition of selfishness. Not love. Love doesn't work that way. Especially mature love. They had no reason to be together except by what they felt. It doesn't work in real life.1
Romeo and Juliet is one of the most misunderstood plays of all time. It wasn't a romance it was a tragedy. The whole play takes place in a matter of days and Romeo starts the play off in "love" with someone else. They weren't in love, they were in lust. Forbidden fruit so to speak doesn't make love stronger it may make it more exciting for a short time. Hardship can bring people together but it can just as easily tear them apart.4
I don't think it makes their love stronger. But "fighting" to make a relationship survive through all adversities in life proves their love for each other IS already strong. It's evidence of their strength of character as individuals too. Because the relationship wouldn't survive if only one person was fighting for it
I judge the strength of someone's love and loyalty when they or we are faced with adversities in life.0
it depends really. but im gonna say yes for this one. i guess with forbidden love you really test your love for the other person by facing obstacles etc. whereas with unforbidden love there is no need to fight for what you want so you really do not know your limits and how far you are willing to go for one person.0
It's more the image of love than real love. You can't have it so you imagine how it will be like but once you have it then you don't desire it anymore or are disappointed because you're imagining such amazing things.3
Yes, I agree with you.0
certainly not. you can love someone very much without the relationship being forbidden... and sometimes, people mistaken "forbidden love" for a fling or lust, but it does not necessarily mean that its something serious1
Yes, in the beginning of the relationship. But as time goes on it may get played out.0
Yes! It does because it gives the partners more excitement!0
I'm in love with a guy who broke up with me because of the age gap, he said maybe when we're older lol but not being able to love him definitely makes it stronger on my part0
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