He might just be busy and having other things going on than texting you 24/7 you want a guy who's independent and stuff don't you. Not one of those codependent stalker types? Your time together is a much stronger indicator of interest then any text can ever be. It's a lot easier to lie and be fake via text if you really want to. I would say tone down the pressure a bit so you don't overwhelm him and go spend your time doing stuff you like instead so he doesn't start thinking that you are clingy/not independent
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Chemistry in person is much more important than text communication when you're apart.
This exact thing happened with me in January!! It was amazing the first 6 weeks, but he ended up not wanting an exclusive relationship. You need to be upfront in the beginning like 2 weeks in, he may be talking to other girls, most likely since you met on an app. He may have different intentions. Trust me, the guy had me feeling like for just a second he may be the one. I was so fooled lol
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Not everyone is into texting.
Great chemistry doesn't equate investment in a person.
Just acknowledge that u don't know what's up yet but u are open to figuring it out. Usually people's true intentions are revealed within 3-6month and defined even lies plus fuck ups are revealed within this period. If u get past 3month and it doesn't feel like he is investing till 6months, then u know where u stand.
Beware at the moment cos how do u know he is thinking of u when u are not together?Honestly I think that all this communication technology fucks relationships up more than anything. People have expectations, he didn't text me he's always on his phone, I see that he's active.
Oh man people have to calm the fuck downIts fine, I do this. Spend most of my energy when we're together. Text because it can be nice, but just to keep things continuous. Misunderstandings are easy, so I try to keep it simple and often practical.
Dating app = fail
all that texting = fail
bothered by having to initiate = fail
your expectation for him to 'reach out' = fail
Thinking you're crazy = fail
Gee, you're battin' a thousand eh?
Let the relationship develop and quit worrying about texting. You can't forge a relationship with anyone by texting. There's no emotion, zero body language, so you miss out on at least half of what's being communicated. Which leads to misunderstanding and confusion, and then doubt and silly questions like this.Overthinking, but not crazy or clingy. As long as you're happy when you're together, it shouldn't matter how often or how less you text.
That tends to happen. Don't worry about it. No need to text all the time. Many people use texting just to set meet ups and that's it.
Give it a time u both are perfectly behaving naturally and normally. Don't force your thoughts too much... Let it go... U will find things on track as per ur wish.
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