Is one sexual partner possible?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend are a fairly new relationship. Both young as well 19 and 18. We've been together for about a little over a year she's my first sexual partner as I am hers. We are both very serious and both fixated on the mindset of "dating to marry". She's already moved in with me. We do everything together as a married couple would besides the fact we aren't married. Though some would consider it fast to move in with your partner so early (she moved in two months ago and it's been amazing) I feel it's the right speedbas does she, neither side feels it's rushed and we feel it natural to live together and experience things. Being very young we both have lots to experience together. I'm currently in the military and have a job in construction as well. As she has a job and us both not having kids or nothing of the sort we are very stabile in financial areas we have nothing to complain about in that department. The sexual chemistry is great as well. We both enjoy each other deeply. We are both eachothers best friend. It seems perfect, we both have talked about marriage as well. We're figuring to wait a little longer but we're both very committed to eachother. My only question is, based on the given information is it possible we can be each other's only sexual partner for life? Lifetime mutual monogamy if you will, is that possible?

[Lizzzzz288283]

I mean it’s not a one size fits all situation. You are in control of how many sexual partners you want/will have. I don’t really know how we’re supposed to answer this question, it’s kinda something that you have to do/figure out for yourself. I don’t really know what to say?

[Asker]

I mean in general. Do you think a lifetime mutual monogamy relationship is possible

[Lizzzzz288283]

Personally I’m a downer type of person and the age y’all are it seems a little difficult. They say the younger you get married/are in the relationship, the way higher % of breakups/divorce. then again there are always those outlier cases 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Lizzzzz288283]

I’m also 19, and at this point I don’t feel like I even have my life together at all. Not enough to look at a guy and say yeah so you’re going to be my only body forever for the rest of my life. Everyone is different though

[Asker]

I'm a pessimist as well, she hates it. It's also a reason we've been waiting for marriage as well. To make sure In a couple years we're still compatible when we're older. As to not fully rush. Thank you for your input!

[Asker]

I personally like challenge to spice something up. It's been going well so far we do have jobs. If I do choose to drop college altogether the military isn't a bad choice of career either. May not be the most materialistic of relationships but as long as we get by fine and we're happy I'd say that the game of life is being won. Nothing to do anyways but be happy

[KrakenAttackin]

Buddy, a quick lesson about women. A woman (any woman) can turn on a dime when it comes to relationships. Your women might be the best, super nice, sexy, friendly, loving --- one day she could totally change her mind, seemingly for no reason, and end up fucking and moving in with some other guy. No kidding, women can and will completely flip who they are in a second if it suits them.

If the Alpha your girl has been chasing for years (check her Facebook/Snapchat profile, he is in there for sure) if he decides to call for her, she will move out and dump you in a second.

The point is, don't even think about marriage. You have NOTHING to gain from getting married, nothing at all. Just enjoy your time with your girl until it ends.

[Anonymous]

I know a guy who started dating his wife when they were 14. They've only ever dated each other and have only ever had sex with one another. They are currently 29 years old and have been married for seven years. As far as I know, they are both happy in the relationship, aside from lighthearted, playful jabs. If they can do that, there's no reason you can't. It's unusual, but not impossible.

[Asker]

Thank you, that's just the kind of reply I was hoping for. We don't have any serious issues so I see why not either. No reason to let pessimism kill something before anything happens. Thank you

[CreativeMumble]

Of course, it's possible. It all depends on what you guys choose.
I have a great friend who married her first boyfriend as well, they're both each others' first. They have been married for 3,5 years and been together for 7... or 8 years, just had their first baby.

[honeybunSs]

It sounds like you guys have a great relationship. One sexual partner seems possible.

[Asker]

Hopefully so, heartbreak is never fun to experience. Thank you

[Espresso-Grande]

If you stay together and remain loyal to one another, then yes, it's possible.

[Drumlin2001]

Possible? Sure. Likely? Statistically no. But it's up to you two, you need to communicate openly and honestly and you'll have a chance. Being away in military will test your relationship.

[iambae]

You need to marry this woman asap otherwise it's a waste bro.

[Anonymous]

Yes it is possible.

[Dinklex3]

Of course?
Lol.

[Anonymous]

In todays society, it’s rare but possible.

[Anonymous]

my guess is, you had to talk to her first