I agree with most posts here; he is simply controlling. I am conservative in that I believe in courting and waiting till marriage for sex. These are based on my Christian values and not dated human norms.
Long story short - it's not a match. Never hurts to try though, i dated a non match for a few months, learnt a lot and still remain friends. But it didn't work
I don't believe the superior thing but I can tell you one thing. I cannot stand femenists because that is a twisted opinion not equality. Sounds like you two are vastly different.
I would totally break up. He sounds way too close minded in my opinion. Like imagine this: You come home from a very long day at work. What is the first thing he would do? Exactly, ask you to cook even tho you are totally tired.
Ok then Axl, go make me a fuckin sammich bitch. Then afterwards, clean the kitchen, do my laundry and meet me upstairs after so babies can be made... I don't think you'd like to be told this. by the way, im bi bitch ass. Gay isn't an insult. It's not 1930 anymore. Whataya gonna do about it?
Sounds like you already have your answer... I personally would never date someone like that. He's not only conservative, he's also controlling and manipulative. Run.
If you are accepting him on his situation right now and you agree to live with it go a head & be with him but do not hope to change someone that you want. If he changed its a plus point if not so you have to make your own decisions
Well u need to discuss with ur partner about ur needs and tell him about the frequent word of affirmation.. and slowly let him understand that having a family means shared chores.. not simply I do all the female things lol
He sounds like a good guy and maybe its not that he thinks men are superior to women maybe he just doesn't like the extreme types of feminists out there.
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If thats not how you wanna live, he's probably not gonna compromise. (Btw feminism is pro equality)
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I agree with most posts here; he is simply controlling. I am conservative in that I believe in courting and waiting till marriage for sex. These are based on my Christian values and not dated human norms.
Long story short - it's not a match. Never hurts to try though, i dated a non match for a few months, learnt a lot and still remain friends. But it didn't work
I don't believe the superior thing but I can tell you one thing. I cannot stand femenists because that is a twisted opinion not equality. Sounds like you two are vastly different.
Key word "too" implying too much, so if he won't bend for you as much as you would for him or more find your self a better man.
I can tell you this he probably won't change. So if your unhappy with things the way they are not it more than likely won't get much better
I would totally break up. He sounds way too close minded in my opinion. Like imagine this: You come home from a very long day at work. What is the first thing he would do? Exactly, ask you to cook even tho you are totally tired.
You found the perfect dude. Do you wish for a progressive gat hipster vegan who sends you photos with guys banging his ass or a real person?
wtf 😜
Ok then Axl, go make me a fuckin sammich bitch. Then afterwards, clean the kitchen, do my laundry and meet me upstairs after so babies can be made... I don't think you'd like to be told this. by the way, im bi bitch ass. Gay isn't an insult. It's not 1930 anymore. Whataya gonna do about it?
@errorgoodnameunfound yes dude! U tell him
@KimmyWhimmy OOPSY, Too damn late! I don't see him anymore. Fire must melted him away. 🌈🔥 Not only did he melt, he got his ass haikued! :D
If the gap is too large between your views, I'm afraid it cannot work long term.
Sounds like you already have your answer... I personally would never date someone like that. He's not only conservative, he's also controlling and manipulative. Run.
You should leave, he is a controlling monster who thinks he's own women
Ur not matching together and it would be worst after married so better u broke up with him
Seems like u 2 are too differnt for a relationship too work but this seems obvious lol
If you want to continue you'll likely be expected to conform to his way of thinking- if you don't want to, you may want to look elsewhere
If you are accepting him on his situation right now and you agree to live with it go a head & be with him but do not hope to change someone that you want. If he changed its a plus point if not so you have to make your own decisions
Well u need to discuss with ur partner about ur needs and tell him about the frequent word of affirmation.. and slowly let him understand that having a family means shared chores.. not simply I do all the female things lol
Hi. What did you like about him? I guess if you still love him talk things out.
It is of course your decision, but I would not want to live with that. I don't like that he is trying to change you.
He sounds like a good guy and maybe its not that he thinks men are superior to women maybe he just doesn't like the extreme types of feminists out there.
If thats not how you wanna live, he's probably not gonna compromise. (Btw feminism is pro equality)