When a girl is cold.. do you give a girl your jacket just to be a gentleman with no romantic feelings involved or do you usually give it to a girl that you're interested in?
Just wondering :]
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In my culture (I am Ukrainian) it is a standard thing to do. Noone would be surprised if at the wedding the husband lends his jacket to a female guest. Men care for women, it is just the way it is. It is in my genes, I do it automatically, without even thinking.
To be honest, I am having a bit of problem adjusting to North American culture. I am not used to seeing girls/women standing in the bus and men not letting them have their seat. In my culture that would be frowned down upon. I always give my seat whenever a girl is standing and some find it offensive, because that hurts their "equality." Call me whatever you want, but when helping a mother carry a stroller up the stairs makes you a creep, then something is just wrong.
Just the other day I was standing at the bus stop and it was pouring rain. The girl next to me didn't have a rainproof coat on so I placed my umbrella over her. She asked me why I did that, and just couldn't understand why would I, voluntarily, choose to get soaked just to make sure her, some random girl "I probably don't even care about", stays dry.
I am sorry, but I just can't let a girl stand out in the rain or freeze without a coat.
Just my 2 cents.15
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