Because A: were moving away from traditional gender roles and B: men no longer make up almost 99% of the work force. Back in the olden days, most women didn't work to earn money, so it was up to men to pay for dates since most women were unable too. Also back than one income was enough to support a family compared to today where it takes multiple incomes to support a family hence the need for both men and women to pay for dates.
Equality Act 2010 States that no gender superior than the other. Which means paying for women means they're less capable for paying for themselves. Now we shouldn't discriminate against women as it's unlawful 😁😉
I would pay for the dates, but I'm 50. It's undoubtedly due to their new expectation of equality of the sexes. Note that young women are now making more money on average than young men.
These days its all about equality and equal income. Which means equal pay. If i initiated the date i don't mind paying after all its me asking her out.
I believe it's because boys are no longer being raised to be men. Call it feminism, PC culture, or liberalism, this is one of the results. Me, I pay for the first date, usually for the first 3.
I just said the same thing. these whiney young boys were not shown properly how to be a man because they had a lack of a male role model in their lives. They are being raised by the single strong mother that has to make seem seemless so baby boy can grow up coddled and not notice there is no daddy on the scene to show them the ropes of how to be a man. The end result is what we are reviewing on this post of those that are 18 to 21 - don't have enough experience yet to even have a seat at the table to have an opinion.
@SirRexington No one is forcing you to pay. And if she doesn't cover the next time then she isn't a keeper. Unless she has no money in which case I'm happy to pay.
I had an ex that earned more than me and she thought I should always pay... fuck that!
Life's not fair is a bullshit argument. It's our job as a society to make it more fair for ourselves and others.
And what does you "having to have children" have to do with anything? No one HAS to have children. And more importantly, we choose when we want to have children, or at least should.
Because women earn just as much as men these days, especially under 25.
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Why should the guy pay? Today guys and girls have as much or as little money, so paying for dates should either be split or as they get to know each other better, they could take turns paying.
Oh look, another woman trying to shame men into buying them shit. Dating should be Dutch until she proves she's worth spending money on. Otherwise it's a waste of money.
@nubianqueen704 what? I've barely used this website in the past few months. But if it makes you feel better okay. People with money don't spend it on broke women who have entitled attitudes
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cause women wanted to be equal. you can't be equal and expect him to pay. it's either one or the other.
I would guess a lot of guys feel as though they get screwed over. Solution: Cheap/free dates.
Exactly go on a walk
No free food for you
Pay for your own fucking food
I paid when I took a homeless man to dinner.
Right or a hooker
I am not a hooker! Sex doesn't interest me.
Not you silly
Well, I'm just saying he couldn't afford to pay. It wasn't a date but it's the closest I've had in a long time.
Because A: were moving away from traditional gender roles and B: men no longer make up almost 99% of the work force. Back in the olden days, most women didn't work to earn money, so it was up to men to pay for dates since most women were unable too. Also back than one income was enough to support a family compared to today where it takes multiple incomes to support a family hence the need for both men and women to pay for dates.
Equality Act 2010
States that no gender superior than the other. Which means paying for women means they're less capable for paying for themselves. Now we shouldn't discriminate against women as it's unlawful 😁😉
@valualty
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Pride isn't built up by paying for you. Considering it as pride, you should be glad you got asked out on a date in the first place.
Because they're not obliged to
Or they know how to spot a golddigger
Or they meet women who are so desperate to impress that they buy for the guy instead
I would pay for the dates, but I'm 50. It's undoubtedly due to their new expectation of equality of the sexes. Note that young women are now making more money on average than young men.
These days its all about equality and equal income. Which means equal pay. If i initiated the date i don't mind paying after all its me asking her out.
You are a gold drigger who needs a man to do anything for you
A big turn off
I believe it's because boys are no longer being raised to be men. Call it feminism, PC culture, or liberalism, this is one of the results.
Me, I pay for the first date, usually for the first 3.
Love the last update.
I just said the same thing. these whiney young boys were not shown properly how to be a man because they had a lack of a male role model in their lives. They are being raised by the single strong mother that has to make seem seemless so baby boy can grow up coddled and not notice there is no daddy on the scene to show them the ropes of how to be a man. The end result is what we are reviewing on this post of those that are 18 to 21 - don't have enough experience yet to even have a seat at the table to have an opinion.
If you ask the guy out do you think you should pay?
And when you are in a relationship do you think you should take turns paying?
It isn't pride... its that people are equal
Right, equal. That's why we are the only ones paying. Because we're equal...
@SirRexington No one is forcing you to pay. And if she doesn't cover the next time then she isn't a keeper. Unless she has no money in which case I'm happy to pay.
I had an ex that earned more than me and she thought I should always pay... fuck that!
I think at least she could pay for my food and i pay for hers.
@SirRexington Whats the point of swapping? I pay for your burger and you pay for my steak. In that case why not pay for your own meal.
I never ask a guy out or like I said 1/4 of time
When you do ask a guy out... do you pay?
That's part of the problem though. Not only are we expected to pay but we are expected to do all of the initiating.
I've never ask a guy out nor would I ever
@SirRexington yes it's called being a man we have to have children. Life's not fair
Life's not fair is a bullshit argument. It's our job as a society to make it more fair for ourselves and others.
And what does you "having to have children" have to do with anything? No one HAS to have children. And more importantly, we choose when we want to have children, or at least should.
And what does being a man have to do with this?
Yes and over 90% of work related deaths are men, the world is definitely not symmetrical.
Are you willing to pick up the check on the second date?
I do after 2 or 3 dates give I'm a break yes. I also spoil my guys they want for nothing
That's great that you spoil him. People should spoil each other.
Is he paying for 2/3 or 3/4 of every meal forever?
If he is paying more than you do... are you spoiling more than he does?
Or is that the price he just has to pay for being the male in a male female relationship?
Especially if having babies hasn't been established?
Pretty much yeah
Yes to paying most of the meals or yes to spoiling him more than he does?
Or both?
I'm likely down if its both... IF our finances are good.
But if it is just me paying... probably not.
Women wanted equality.
"If I wanted to pay for a man I would just get a male prostitute."
What does this say about women who expect men to pay?
Because women earn just as much as men these days, especially under 25.
Why should the guy pay? Today guys and girls have as much or as little money, so paying for dates should either be split or as they get to know each other better, they could take turns paying.
Oh look, another woman trying to shame men into buying them shit. Dating should be Dutch until she proves she's worth spending money on. Otherwise it's a waste of money.
Oh look, another broke loser wondering why he single?π€·ββοΈ
@nubianqueen704 I have a girl, but thanks. I'm not the one that needs free meals unlike you π
If you did you wouldn't be on gag all day like you've been.. come up with a better lie
@nubianqueen704 what? I've barely used this website in the past few months. But if it makes you feel better okay. People with money don't spend it on broke women who have entitled attitudes
I think the argument of a guy not paying for a date is something found here in G@G more so than in "the real world"
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Feminism has destroyed men's pride, self-confidence and sense of responsibility to themselves, their families and their lovers. This generation is replete with effeminate incels and fuckboys. There are no gentlemen left.
I always pay, no matter if itβs on a date with a girl or if Iβm having lunch with buddies.
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