Why do guys fall in love with me so fast?

[riverplate7]

I have had multiple guys tell me trough out my life and even more recently after having only hung out a couple times or known each other a very short time that they are in love with me. They get obsessive (i dont necessarily mean in a bad way) but they become obsessed with me and having me and being around me very quickly.

I dont know what im doing to provoke such feelings. Anyone care to analyze and help me figure it out?

[passinby]

Attraction, appeal, and etc. are so complex that many are not really understood. Without actually knowing someone it is impossible to even guess. I have been attracted to the most unlikely and below average women in my life and I can't fully understand why. They have/had something mental or chemical and looks had absolutely nothing to do with it because they had none but they turned me on.

[AriesMale]

This is my assumption but your probably a catch, and they see that.
Most have that movie mentality of sweeping her off her feet, and keeping the emotional rollercoaster on full throttle. Such a girl is rare and they want to put you on lockdown before some other schmo does, basically it’s a race.

[riverplate7]

Interesting... makes sense i haven’t had a lot of relationships and I haven’t been in one for a while. I guess people just out here looking to tie me down, do what nobody could

[AriesMale]

I would know I was doing the same for a girl. Then it ended badly when I went too into her, and she ended up flaking on me.
Trust me when I say that if your not interested make it crystal clear, that your freinds only or define boundaries. For guys simple and clear is the way to go or else they overthink and believe your subtly flirting. I’d suggest watching a vid on clear signs for being in the freind zone and putting all of them on him.

[riverplate7]

Trust me I’m very blunt and always make it clear. I have no desire to waist anyone’s time. But these guys will here me say that and still insist that they are in live with me

[AriesMale]

Hah 🤣 just keep repeating, your like a brother to me. Everyday, every time you meet, every time your in front of someone, while with freinds, class, etc.

If he doesn’t feel weirded out then just run 🏃🏻‍♀️

[riverplate7]

Lmaoooo that’s funny. Reminds me of Joe dirt

[jennifer_bloom]

Intelligence, modesty and mystery attract people

[Logorithim]

Well, you're obviously making a great impression, which suggests that you're attractive, friendly and fun to be around.

[Exterminatore]

Sounds like desperate and clingy guys. They really need to slow way down and take their time.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I actually know nothing about you, maybe you're damn cute, have a sweet smile, are too friendly with guys, you can be reslly passionate, can talk deeply about feelings?

[riverplate7]

for someone who "doesn't know me" that might be pretty accurate

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Yea because I sometimes fell into that trap. When girls are really friendly and nice (to everyone) and smile a lot guys see that as if she is intetested

[riverplate7]

I don't know if i would be considered to friendly tho. it seems that even just saying "excuse me" to get by someone is considered leading someone on these days

[Grond21]

Based on what I have seen, you remind me of my sister in law. She always got along well with guys. And always had a number of them interested in her.

[bananathunder]

[riverplate7]

Lol that was funny

[bananathunder]

Lol right

[s2firestar]

Well, I'd help gladly. But I will need a looot of details.

[riverplate7]

what do you need to know?

[s2firestar]

Send a PM. Let's talk

[Anonymous]

I would assume you’ve got a slim body type and that leans more toward an endearing kind of attraction. If you’re also inviting and warm in personality then it can be enticing.

[Arne123123]

Probably just want to have sex, and think that's what you want to hear for it to happen.

[MiamiMadness]

You're too sexy for your own good?

[riverplate7]

ok but being sexy won't win a guys heart. Sexual attraction does not equal love.

[MiamiMadness]

I was being sarcastic. A lot of guys are just really thirsty or maybe you have a good personality too and guys are falling for who? It's hard to say without knowing you

[riverplate7]

i guess your right

[Cookie8888]

#humblebrag

[riverplate7]

sure... whatever. thats not the point tho. i seriously just dont understand it. I had always been taught that men are lesss likely to invest emotionally if at all. And when they do its after a lot of time. And from what I've been experiencing that is not the case at all.

[Anonymous]

You're bluffing.

[riverplate7]

im really not. I have no reason to boast to a bunch of strangers. i just literally do no understand because this goes against what i have always been taught about men

[Opinion Owner]

Well your physical appearance/personality can be a blessing and a curse at the same time

[riverplate7]

how do you mean?