Kind of seems like you're just looking for money, like if I tell her I make 5 figures, should I consider the date a loss and if I say I make 6 figures does that mean I'll make it to date 2?
Yes it is its not very nice to ask that if a girl only wants me for my money she can forget it is that why l am still a single guy and l dont even care about money and l am very independent l have everything but no loving
Hmm, I see that you're still under the age of 18. You have time to mature... The fact is that some women don't put money as priority. I want the things which a millionaire cannot buy: affection, trust, partnership, concern, passion, love, non-financial support, companionship, mentorship, etc.
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Kind of seems like you're just looking for money, like if I tell her I make 5 figures, should I consider the date a loss and if I say I make 6 figures does that mean I'll make it to date 2?
Yes cause to me they come off as a gold digger at least to me.
Can I be your sugar baby?
Yes it is its not very nice to ask that if a girl only wants me for my money she can forget it is that why l am still a single guy and l dont even care about money and l am very independent l have everything but no loving
yeah
i mean, if you ask what they do as a job, then you can get an idea of how much they make by their job role
It would be weird and imposing
Yes. It's none of either person's business how much they make - at least until they marry.
Yes it is.
If they ask say you make nothing to test their reaction. It is always interesting.
Not on the first date. But asking of financial status is necessary.
I don't even give anyone ideas of how much i make. Usually to my friends online because we get paid here less here compared first world countries.
Yes and no. It's inappropriate for the first few dates but if it gets to talking about current employment or career then I think it can be addressed
I have been asked. My response "None of your business".
A date, yes. If you are planning to move in together or marry, it is necessary.
Expect women to do this cause thats mainly what they are interested in hypergamy is the name they only want the top 85% very picky
Hmm, I see that you're still under the age of 18. You have time to mature... The fact is that some women don't put money as priority. I want the things which a millionaire cannot buy: affection, trust, partnership, concern, passion, love, non-financial support, companionship, mentorship, etc.
@StarsInTheEyes lol SOME women ya 15% the other 85 likely do
Alright... that sounds better. Thanks!
I apologize for mocking you
That would put me right off. I would fet up and walk away. I would think golddigger
For a minute there I was like "why dafuq would an eight grader care how much you make"
Wouldn’t be an immediate dealbreaker but with other gold digger signs I’d probably bail
If you've been dating a while no. Financial security is important.
Only if you're rich yourself, otherwise you'll sound like a golddigger. Or if you ask out of some professional interest
Girls will say no, but deep down she still wants to know if you make more than her, or are rich
Honestly it’s weird
I think that would be inappropriate, yes.