Why Seniors go after freshman and how is dating when your tall?

[Anonymous]

I am going to go into highschool soon. I am scared. I heard senior guys go after freshman girls and I don’t know why

. I am also rlly tall. I am 5’11” and I am scared I am going to be the huge girl who never gets a boyfriend. I have a good body and I know I do because everyone compliments me on it but I don’t feel pretty. I am surrounded by pretty people all the time and I dont feel liek one.

I am “popular” at the time but one of my best friends is WAY cooler than me so we will separate in HS. I just need advice. Ik this is lame but I am actually worried about all of this.

I don’t think i’ll get a boyfriend is highschool bc of my height. Also

how intense are seniors to freshman in public and private HS.

[EmbraceThePain]

Seniors would go after freshman because they’re perceived as easier to talk to and get with romantically as compared to women/girls their age. These seniors might think that they have an advantage because they think the younger freshman will be more flattered and more attracted to older upperclassman. I don’t think your height will be an issue, just don’t think about it too much. There’s more beyond high school than just getting a boyfriend, so if you just try to enjoy your time, make friends, and learn something, you’ll be much better after the 4 years are over. There’s always college right after, so high school isn’t the end all be all. I know at your age you’re nervous and think it’s the entire world, but it’s not. Relax and enjoy your time

[humanearth]

Don't sweat it. I going to talk like a dad because I am a dad and my daughter went though the same thing and here is what I told her.
If one of them older boys come up to and make you feel uncomfortable and stuff. Kick him in the balls then knee him in the face. You make them know that not to fuck with you.

Daughter went to school and never had a problem with them. I don't know if my advice helped her. But she stopped worrying after I told her that. I think she just needed the conference that if she needed to handle herself she could with my support.

[cavmanier]

Guys simply tend to be attracted to girls younger than them. That never changes lol. I'm sure there will be guys attracted to your height. You're obviously tall and won't attract every guy but maybe a third or half of guys do like tall girls so you'll be okay.

[Anonymous]

Seniors who want to be pedophiles, will go after freshmen. They become 18, and you're only 14. That's pedophilia