The top 20% men get 100% of the women cause those men are top so women who want the best things and best people would automatically be attracted
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Probably safer to say that the top 20% of guys get something like 80% of the most desirable women. Not of 80% of ALL women. But let's face it, when people are bitching about the best guys getting "ALL" the girls what they really mean is all the girls that are desirable. Because the guys complaining aren't interested in just any woman either.
It may not be as one sided as that but women do generally have way standards higher than the average man.
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Depends what you mean by "get". If you mean have sex with them, then yes. If you're talking about marriage and long term committed relationships, then no.
I don't know about those percentages, but I do think a small group of guys gets a disproportionate amount of sex. I would say the top 5% of guys gets more women in a year than the bottom 50% gets in a decade.
Probably something slightly more scientific than "what they've seen". No one gives a shit what you've seen. Like every other person on the planet, you see what you expect to see. To imply otherwise is arrogant. That's why we have people who know how to be objective called "academics" who do research on this type of thing. And if you'd like I could give you some sources form some people who actually know what the fuck they're talking about that show that, at the very least, women have higher standards than men.
@SpearsAndStones aww, i stirred you up pretty bad didn't I? Sweetie, if you have a problem with free speech, go and live in a cave where you can surround yourself with all of the "academic" studies that help to feed your fragile ego. and what i see is true. sometimes a series of observations that provide consistent patterns and results is considered objective. that's how the "academics" conduct most of their results. how many fat, bald men haven't you seen with hot, thin women?
I think that's a stretch and only applies in the early dating game. Women in their 20s to early 30s often like the "it" man or the eye candy guy but after that they often go for the guy who provides security
I don't completely reject the idea, the modern dating status quo is getting ridiculous sometimes, and people themselves have their head in their asses.
This sounds a lot like a bastardisation of that okcupid article that said that women find 80% of men on the site as having below average looks but thats not the same thing so no i dont.
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The top 20% men get 100% of the women cause those men are top so women who want the best things and best people would automatically be attracted
Probably safer to say that the top 20% of guys get something like 80% of the most desirable women. Not of 80% of ALL women. But let's face it, when people are bitching about the best guys getting "ALL" the girls what they really mean is all the girls that are desirable. Because the guys complaining aren't interested in just any woman either.
I think the bottom 5% whine a lot because rich supermodels won't go for overweight guys working minimum wage jobs.
It's actually said to be the reverse that 80% of women chase the 20% men. Especially in online dating.
Sort of.
It may not be as one sided as that but women do generally have way standards higher than the average man.
Depends what you mean by "get". If you mean have sex with them, then yes. If you're talking about marriage and long term committed relationships, then no.
I don't know about those percentages, but I do think a small group of guys gets a disproportionate amount of sex. I would say the top 5% of guys gets more women in a year than the bottom 50% gets in a decade.
What happened to that 60% of women who aren't - apparently- paired up? Bigamy?
I think you’ve misused the statistic. It’s supposed to be that women consider 80% of men to be below average.
You’ve strawmanned by reinterpreting what the numbers pertain to.
No, im simply asking about what's said by others.
No because he won‘t have a woman who would let him have another woman.
If you mean he can choose any woman and 80% of women will take it, no again.
oh please. most couples i see are average-looking. usually the women are hotter than the men, so i don't know where you pulled that statistic from.
Probably something slightly more scientific than "what they've seen". No one gives a shit what you've seen. Like every other person on the planet, you see what you expect to see. To imply otherwise is arrogant. That's why we have people who know how to be objective called "academics" who do research on this type of thing. And if you'd like I could give you some sources form some people who actually know what the fuck they're talking about that show that, at the very least, women have higher standards than men.
@SpearsAndStones aww, i stirred you up pretty bad didn't I? Sweetie, if you have a problem with free speech, go and live in a cave where you can surround yourself with all of the "academic" studies that help to feed your fragile ego. and what i see is true. sometimes a series of observations that provide consistent patterns and results is considered objective. that's how the "academics" conduct most of their results. how many fat, bald men haven't you seen with hot, thin women?
That would be so humiliating. I’d want to be as good looking as my partner
@AJC997 you are actually quite good looking. better than a lot of guys i've seen on here posting pictures about how "hot" they are.
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Aw thank you. I’m working on gaining confidence in myself
@AJC997 you're welcome :)
No 80% is quite high that means there's guys that are like an 8 or 9 with chicks who are like a 3
No. I think the top 20% of men are far too busy to accomplish that.
I think that's a stretch and only applies in the early dating game. Women in their 20s to early 30s often like the "it" man or the eye candy guy but after that they often go for the guy who provides security
The bold 20% get 80% of hookups I'd say. The other 80% are too much like "nice guys" so it's their own fault.
I don't completely reject the idea, the modern dating status quo is getting ridiculous sometimes, and people themselves have their head in their asses.
This sounds a lot like a bastardisation of that okcupid article that said that women find 80% of men on the site as having below average looks but thats not the same thing so no i dont.
the theory is that 80% of women find 80% of men to be unattractive. Thus only finding the top 20% attractive
These 20% does not have sex with 80% of the female population.
Statistically they could get up to 100% of the women.
Yes, they do. Most of the women here don't agree, but how is it that men are at a disadvantage in dating compared to women?