I really need advice? Ugh what do I do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend whenever we go to Walmart he goes to the same cashier. she's young and is Indian. He saw her walk in to her shift he blantenly checked her out as we were walking in the store (we've seen her there before). and he said "oh look there's the Indian chick" then he's like "let's go to her". I didn't think anything of it till now. He ALWAYS goes to her when we go there. A few weeks later my boyfriend sends a video of a naked chick to me dancing for NO reason. It hurt me, and told him that then he says "I've got worse on my phone". I dont know what to do.. advice? I know I'm stupid, but this is my first real relationship. he also follows half naked chicks accounts online, and I asked him about it he said "well they follow me first, so I say why the hell not and follow them back". I know it sounds stupid but this is my first real relationship, and I dont know if this is what guys do? Or do I deserve better? Will I ever find it? Not sure.. but I need help. Thanks in advanced.

[eggsaladsupreme]

Your boyfriend is one of those creepy horn dog guys who can't keep his dick down enough to think. As for advice. This is who he is. I don't know if that means you should leave him before it creates problems or ride it out. That's up to you. If you stay with him, stand up for how you feel rather than laying low just to ignore who he is and keep things peaceful.

[Asker]

I know.
He never really had sex with me, but I'm glad I didn't waste my v card on him. I truly love him.. he was addicted tonporn and I'm sure of it. I wanna leave him and find better, but I don't know if there's better out there..

[eggsaladsupreme]

"was addicted to porn" is more realistically "still addicted to porn". The only way he would've corrected that is if he had the self-restraint to do it himself, self-motivated. Or, if he cared about you enough to make healthier decisions. Don't take this the wrong way. But if he's flirting with some Indian cashier, he doesn't respect you enough to give up porn because you complained about it. There's definitely better out there