Receiving a text a few minutes after the end of the first date: needy or endearing? (Page 2)

OlderAndWiser · 2019-06-05T11:27:50Z

You had a first date and it went very well. He/she looked like his/her pictures online. He/she was on time for the date. Both of you quickly relaxed and enjoyed the conversation. There were no awkward pauses and he/she actually appeared to know how to use their brain. You felt physically attracted to him/her and the prospect of a developing relationship feels rather exciting. At the end of the date, you kissed. . . on the lips; it wasn't a sloppy tonsil examination but it was passionate. You definitely want to see him/her again and you are happy to finally feel this way after a string of mediocre or bad first dates. You watched him or her get in their car and drive away. Now what? Are you thinking about how many days to wait before you call him/her, or maybe text? When do you do that? Under these circumstances, some very sane and rational people. . . (me) . . . would send a text as soon as I get home. No, I wouldn't say anything about "can't wait to see her nipples!" I might send a text that says, "I sincerely had a GREAT time tonight and I hope you felt the same way. I'd love to see you again soon, so I'll call tomorrow or Monday to talk and hopefully schedule another date. Sweet dreams!" What do you think if you receive a text like this? Is it clingy or desperate? Is it too much, too soon? Or is it simply candid, transparent, and flattering?

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Iron_Man Follow
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I think it would be a really nice gesture to text somebody after the date. Its not needy at all

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I would surely love to receive a text, the sooner the better :)

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Yes , a text from her saying that she had enjoyed the date can increase one's confidence and also show signs that you are in the right path

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It's fun to go through the ultra-cling stage.

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A bit desperate asking 'when is the second date'

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- BlackRoseFairy
  
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  The picture is a funny example, not the actual description. Read what he wrote...
  
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- Agem123
  
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  Oh, my bad. Calm your tits
  
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- VIVANT
  
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  lol you guys are funny 😁
  
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- SpunkNugget
  
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  If you think that's funny you should get outside more.
  
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- VIVANT
  
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  @SpunkNugget
  
  That’s not really the point.
  
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Seems reasonable

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It'll just seem she's nervous. No problem.

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both

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