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There was a time when I was employed full-time, I managed my investments & I co-owned a full-time business at the same time. Meanwhile, he also was employed, also operated his own business full-time & co-owned our full-time business at the same time. To many people, that sounded overwhelming. We planned & organized so well that we didn't feel overwhelmed.
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@DeeDeeDeVour well I cannot say I have been that successful but I am still set to inherit mad cash so we are even lol
I’m dating someone who owns 2 high stress businesses. It’s awful, would not recommend. Zero time.
You only in it for the money
@Fuentes Absolutely not. I haven't gotten more than a drink and a couple of burgers lol. The time we spend together is watching sunsets, working on things together, doing things money can't buy. I hate having money spent on me when I'm dating someone, it's cheap compared to time spent. I broke up with a long term partner because all he could provide me was money and not time and it drove me insane. I didn't want his money, I wanted him. This guy knows better - he's not going to invest money in me if I'm not investing my own time in him and in getting to know him. We do what we can. I like my alone time and have just as busy of a life as he does, I can just be more flexible.
I was just joking it's all good haha
Depends on what its for. Credit card or student loan debt? lol I have a co-worker who does something similar... (mmmm that little young tender), almost broke off her engagement because of her schedule.
Yeah, I'm working 60 to 80 hour weeks at my one job... Without extra pay.If she can do that AND get more pay for it, get out of the way. I'm gonna give it a go with her. Lol
Of course! A persons jobs doesn't interfere with their personality or our connection if I like a girl and deem her worthy to date haha. A more determining factor would be based on what kind of jobs are they, that she works lol. But a girl working two jobs more so along the lines impress me. Shows she's determined and hard working, and got ambition to live well you know.
I work 2 jobs. 1 full time and 1 part time. Average around 50-60 hours a week between them. So I could maybe date someone with a similar work schedule. But maybe once we are together for a while we could even cut back to just 1 job each. Which would free up sometime.
Good question - I would want to know the context (the why) they need two jobs and what their spending was like but honestly things like that would be on the red flag radar once aby relationship got serious.
Depends on the person and why she is doing it. There is a difference between ambition and sickness. LOL
My dad my brothers and someone else in my family have had gfs and wives that were just fine with there boyfriend having two jobs and why would I be upset about having a girlfriend with 2 jobs we need money
It's hard to start relationships with someone that doesn't have time, if she does it because of money and not career you might have some hope by supporting her and so she can quit one of them.
I preferred she only stick with one job but its her life so if she works two jobs then I'll still stay with her and I'll make sure she don't have to do that much work around the house.
no cuz how can they have time to spend with you when they only have 4 hours a day to get basic clithes food an other things done you be watching them do most that instead of quality time together or you would be doing half there home stuff for them
Yes and I would also help them with getting money so they dont have to do it all even though you dont get to see them a lot
My boyfriend works 2 full time jobs. It sucks because I barely get to see him
No, that is too much if one is full time and another part time one. I'd think she was too greedy and valued money too much over other things in life.
Yea but the down side is 2 jobs means more guys for her to get close with during her shifts so it could potentially be a problem
I am with someone that can work up to 60 hours per week but she loves her work and I have no problem with that. We often think the time apart just makes our realtionship even stronger.
My husband is a chef his hours are like this and I'm with him.
Yes narrows down the time for bickering however you have to put in extra effort in romance department
If I love her enough. I don't think her amount of jobs should interfere with my love for her. The only issue would be if she overworks herself just to make more money to spend on herself.
Damned if you do Damned if you don't. Y'all don't want a man who doesn't work, and y'all don't want a man who works to provide. Y'all don't know what you want
I mean that’s what I’m doing right now. XD i wouldn’t mind if they were too
Actually my boyfriend and I are together and I do work 2 jobs
I dunno. Probably not. Because unless i need to i don't plan on doing that anymore. And my guess is it would bother her rhat she works more. And to be honest it would bother me.
As long he’s not a workaholic have time for each other.
It would depend on why, how long, and if she's got any free time that meshes with mine.
ya I've worked up to 90 hours in a week before, it takes a dedicated person to be able to do that, which I think is a good quality in a person.
I would, especially considering that I work 3 jobs and am in the military. So I'm hoping girls are okay with that.
Absolutely. Shows he has drive and ambition. can't fault him for his hustle and grind
Hmm dunno, that's a lot of time away. Maybe? Depending on how well we get along together?
I guess if they could still make time for me then yeah
I would , a good work ethic speaks volumes about some one.
Probablyyyyy not. I mean, some people just aren't good at having social lives, and that's generally because they work and work and work
Yes I have.I love ambition men.
Nope. I like to spend time with my SO
I wish I could help them reduce the workload
Be hard to do prob not
Boy I hope so
Sure, why not?
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