Online guy disappeared, what do I do?

[xxmoonlightxx]

I'm getting tired of being ghosted. Every guy I talk to recently has ghosted me. Literally no one is taking anything seriously. I recently matched with a guy who I've been talking to for 5 days straight. He has not asked for my number yet and has now stopped all communication. It's hitting my self esteem really bad. No one wants to take the time to get to know me. Should I unmatch with him or send him another message another day?

Just forget about it. Never take online dating seriously.

Wait he may be busy today

[bimmy5000]

Gotta say with online dating it's truly a crapshoot. Guy is probably talking to other girls too, he has to. With online dating its insanely hard to get likes, harder to match, and if he's
lucky enough to get a couple matches he really has to work fast to figure out who to impress and click with before the girl decides no or another guy got her attention.

Either that, or if they are ghosting you, it might be you. As in maybe the convos are dry or you are showing something they might not like or they are realizing they not into you.

[xxmoonlightxx]

My convos are nice.
I ask questions about them and about their day.
I add emojis. I don't know I don't feel I'm distasteful

[bimmy5000]

Hmmm you could try sending one more message, but if you get nothing then it is unfortunately another notch in the failure column, unmatch and then try again. It sucks but keep at it, you'll find the right one, you just gonna end up with a lot if turds on the way.

[Anonymous]

Not sure why you would even consider taking online dating seriously. I don’t understand you women you complain about online dating constantly yet you all do continue to go on them instead of trying in real life

[xxmoonlightxx]

I'm too shy in real life and I rarely go anywhere to meet anyone

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay well then you are going to have to either just deal with or be single forever. Guys on dating apps are either desperate because nobody wants them and people don’t want them for a reason or guys who just simply don’t give a fuck and just want to fuck

[xxmoonlightxx]

I'm starting to notice that with even the guys I met in the past from dating. None have ended well and they only want sex or not even try. Meh.

[Whitewolf24]

He's probably talking to other girls. Happens all the time on Tinder don't take it to heart. There's a thousand guys out there, don't let one jerk from Tinder effect your self esteem.

[Crazed777]

I would never ghost you sweetie