Yesterday he had off work and asked me what I was doing. I said I was running a U-Haul and moving a bunch of crap (I am in the middle of a move and he knows this.) I also mentioned being nervous about driving a uhaul. He said “that’s nice good luck. You’ll be fine.” I did not ask for his help but he did not offer. He texted me last night to see how my day went and I told him that I was sore from completing the entire move. He said good work and congratulations on moving.
I’m supposed to go over there tonight and I just texted him I threw my back out moving and I would not be coming over as I don’t feel up to sex. He was like that’s too bad, come over anyway I just want to see you.
I feel like this is dump worthy. I feel like I’ve really not cared about here. Am I overreacting? Am I being unreasonable?
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Is it possible that he was concerned that by offering to help, he would be sending a message that he thinks you are not capable of doing something like that on your own?
Personally, I would have offered to help. The last time i was on that situation, I had been on three or four dates with the lady. I volunteered to help her move and it took two days to accomplish. I scored major points with her!