Dating Should you go on a second date if you don't feel the SPARK? (Page 3) coachTanthonyInfluencer Follow Master Age: 53 Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 23 Should you go on a second date if you don't feel the SPARK? Post Opinion 95 Opinion Like Share Follow 5 likes
SarahsSummer Follow Master Age: 33 , mho 41% +1 y 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. sure, Unless he was just plain rude, one or the other or both may just have had a bad day on that first date. 0 0 Reply
Screenwriter Follow Guru Age: 67 , mho 66% +1 y 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. If something is interesting, but there's no fireworks, it just might take a few more encounters. I'd go round a date or two more. 0 0 Reply
BlacklightShade Follow Yoda Age: 30 , mho 35% +1 y Not unless the money was good. 1 3 Reply coachTanthony New +1 y Ha Ha Ha Reply Alfie_Solomons New +1 y please go read my take Reply coachTanthony New +1 y @Alfie_Solomons what does that even mean? Reply
shimmeryns Follow Yoda Age: 31 +1 y I voted no. If I don't feel spark, I don't think I will ever. It's better to decline going on second date than trying too hard to find that "spark". 0 0 Reply
TacosRAwesome Follow Master Age: 34 +1 y 5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes if I'm enjoying their company but I'm not yet sure whether I want to jump their dick. No if I'm not enjoying their company and definitely don't want their dick. 0 0 Reply
_SOARER_ Follow Xper 6 Age: 28 +1 y This is such a lie that keeps permeating Love, relationships, etc are built over time! there won't be a miraculous spark for most people 0 4 Reply coachTanthony +1 y How dare you Sir downplay the “spark” shame on you! Reply _SOARER_ +1 y Haha, sorry. But its true."The Spark" only happen Reply _SOARER_ +1 y * in fairytales. Also sparks can make fires that burn out. Reply coachTanthony +1 y Don't ruin the SPARK for everyone! I still sit on Santa's lap just to get that spark every year! Don't take that away from me! Reply
yasqueen212 Follow Xper 2 Age: 27 +1 y It really depends, usually there isn’t a spark on the first date. It takes a few dates to get there 2 0 Reply
lyssagirl Follow Xper 5 Age: 32 , mho 54% +1 y I dont see the point if im not attracted im not attracted. N i mean any attraction not just physical 0 0 Reply
ThisDudeHere Follow Master Age: 29 , mho 33% +1 y 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Isn't the whole point of dating to find out if you would want to go on a second date? 0 0 Reply
Therisinghero12 Follow Explorer Age: 27 +1 y 551 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't know about everyone else, but as long as I have fun on it and we get along well then I'll pretty much 100% be willing to go on a second date. 1 0 Reply
Darkchylde_420 Follow Xper 2 Age: 41 +1 y If it wasn't a total wash you might should give them another chance. 0 0 Reply
trishhhxx Follow Xper 4 Age: 23 +1 y why do people say "two cents" am I the only one that doesn't get it 0 2 Reply CocoFairyGang +1 y I don't know either 🤷 Reply Gary888818 +1 y It means they're throwing in their advice even if it isn't worth much. "Two cents" emphasizing it's not worth much. Reply
backintown Follow Xper 4 Age: 38 +1 y Sometimes just having some around to chat with is nice when your options are limited. 0 0 Reply
Cybernizer Follow Xper 6 Age: 23 +1 y I'd give another chance, maybe one or both of us were not in the right mood. 0 0 Reply
hansukota Follow Xper 7 Age: 22 +1 y I believe u need to give a person 3 dates, just so u know how u truly feel 0 0 Reply
potater66 Follow Xper 4 Age: 27 +1 y It depends on if I was distracted or tired making it hard to decide 0 0 Reply
S8nBam Follow Xper 4 Age: 37 +1 y Not everyone is confident. I believe in trying everything twice. The first is no experience. The second is the real flavour 0 0 Reply
Gedaria Follow Master Age: 58 +1 y Yes you never know you could more relaxed and enjoy it... 0 0 Reply
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sure, Unless he was just plain rude, one or the other or both may just have had a bad day on that first date.
If something is interesting, but there's no fireworks, it just might take a few more encounters. I'd go round a date or two more.
Not unless the money was good.
Ha Ha Ha
please go read my take
@Alfie_Solomons what does that even mean?
I voted no. If I don't feel spark, I don't think I will ever. It's better to decline going on second date than trying too hard to find that "spark".
Yes if I'm enjoying their company but I'm not yet sure whether I want to jump their dick. No if I'm not enjoying their company and definitely don't want their dick.
This is such a lie that keeps permeating
Love, relationships, etc are built over time!
there won't be a miraculous spark for most people
How dare you Sir downplay the “spark” shame on you!
Haha, sorry. But its true.
"The Spark" only happen
* in fairytales.
Also sparks can make fires that burn out.
Don't ruin the SPARK for everyone! I still sit on Santa's lap just to get that spark every year! Don't take that away from me!
It really depends, usually there isn’t a spark on the first date. It takes a few dates to get there
I dont see the point if im not attracted im not attracted. N i mean any attraction not just physical
Isn't the whole point of dating to find out if you would want to go on a second date?
I don't know about everyone else, but as long as I have fun on it and we get along well then I'll pretty much 100% be willing to go on a second date.
If it wasn't a total wash you might should give them another chance.
why do people say "two cents" am I the only one that doesn't get it
I don't know either 🤷
It means they're throwing in their advice even if it isn't worth much. "Two cents" emphasizing it's not worth much.
Sometimes just having some around to chat with is nice when your options are limited.
I'd give another chance, maybe one or both of us were not in the right mood.
I believe u need to give a person 3 dates, just so u know how u truly feel
It depends on if I was distracted or tired making it hard to decide
Not everyone is confident. I believe in trying everything twice. The first is no experience. The second is the real flavour
Yes. People generally fall in love within 3-5 dates apparently.
Yes you never know you could more relaxed and enjoy it...
Sometimes it takes a minute for the spark to ignite.