At what point in a relationship do you believe a transgender person should reveal that they are trans? (Page 2)

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On the first date? after a few dates? never?

loveslongnails · Answer

BEFORE the first date !!! Seriously - you think this should be a surprise for the 4th or 5th date? What the fuck !!

cth96190 · Answer

The first second is when the awful truth should be revealed. Reaching into a panty and finding dangly bits is grounds for justifiable homocide.

genericname85 · Answer

right on the first date and it should say on their dating site profile. everything else would be a unfair waste of someones time.

just_a_potato · Answer

Right at the beginning? That isn't something you should be delaying telling someone you are planning to have a relationship with

morimeme1 · Answer

Before the first date, if the person is not fine with that then meeting you will not change that, you will both have just wasted that time.

Grobmate · Answer

From the initial interaction. Honesty up front. How is this even a question?

Philyouup · Answer

I think it’s only fair to be upfront. It’s deceitful other wise. But I understand why it would be a hard thing to do. But at least if you are upfront , the person you tell and stays is probably there because they like you.

HardRepublican · Answer

Immediately, and that relationship will most likely end. It's not fair to either party. Be honest and if the other person likes it they will stay. But let's be real here, straight men like women, and straight women like men. Those are just facts.

Anonymous · Answer

GOD is above the dome

TRANS HUMANISM IS BAN BY GOD
just like it was before the flood of Noah

Genesis 6:12
And God looked upon the earth, and, behold, it was corrupt; for all FLESH had corrupted his way upon the earth

STOP CORRUPTING YOUR FLESH
eventually people will mix with animals
and they will do evil just like before

sockandshoes · Answer

from the get-go. not just for their dates but for their own safety as well.

slatyb · Answer

Before the first date. Like it or not, many people are not willing to have a relationship with a transgender person.

Emay71 · Answer

I think they should wear that on their sleeve, so as to not confuse anyone midway through a possible relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you would have to use discernment with the individual. For example: with someone who was very religious it would be very frantic for you and them to find out later in the relationship. I’d say it’s better to let them know early on.

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

Right away, hiding things gets you no where good, being honest from the first day is the right thing to do.

bi_tiger · Answer

Whenever they feel comfortable revealing that information. You decide when you come out and to whom! That is your power as a human being.

ciitruskiwi · Answer

As soon as the relationship starts becoming serious. You might not go past the first date so I don't see why it should be disclosed on the first date.

Emmalouise03 · Answer

They should tell them right away, before going on a date the other person has a fucking right to know the truth, not everyone is into trans and might get disturbed and u dont wanna do that

PinkieClouds · Answer

Maybe at the second or third date. Anyway , before becoming intimate.  I would like to know before kissing even if the attraction is very good.

curiousnorway · Answer

Before the first date. It's important to know in advance because of it can make problems when it comes to becoming parents.

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

I think during the first or second meeting. If they have met online, it should be disclosed before any meeting in real life happens.

Anonymous · Answer

Do it very soon. Just cause a lot of men want a biological woman. I mean, most men are crazy turned on by trans women with dick, but they still want a biological woman, so they can use them to get biological children. That’s just the way it is.

evansmal · Answer

Whenever they feel comfortable. If you wouldn't date someone because they were trans you're 100% an asshole.

Anonymous · Answer

They are in packs mixed in with girl prostitutes in other countries, also Hawaii. 60 Minutes did a show how, johns get confused when picking them up. They find a lot of dead transvestites. Sad story. Id say, when you smile at a straight guy.

Superior-Solomon · Answer

Honestly slide it in there around the first date then I can decide if I care or not

Kurαȷ · Answer

Preferably, right in their bio on the dating app. In person, I think it is obvious enough that it doesn't need to be disclosed.

Coryn-of-the-year · Answer

I think it should definitely be a premise to any date.
I'm afraid that I would call everything off. My religious beliefs influence my dating life a great deal.
I would really try to be kind, but firm in my request.

The1person · Answer

First or second (before things get too serious) if they wouldn't say then it really isn't a healthy relationship

Romeo0071234 · Answer

Even before it starts.. why make someone think your are something you're not.. be up front and tell them. That's like lying about anything else... like saying you're single if you're not just to make someone date you.

UncleRooster · Answer

Before a relationship even begins. A person deserves to know whom they are dating.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Before the relationship even begins.  They should wear a scarlet "T."

Reaperbot666 · Answer

the sooner the better. best not to lead people on. into false hope. unless your trying to get even with them for something that is.

smiledoll · Answer

First date got to be open about that the other person would feel so betrayed if it was something that said way later

True_Moonwalker · Answer

I believe everyone deserves to be in love and feel loved no matter what gender you may be as long as you are healthy and a good person then gender doesn't necessarily matter. The heart does

Zezzara · Answer

Asap as in as you catch feelings. You would be lying about your past which a huge violation of trust in any point of a relationship.

worldscolide · Answer

Immediately so I can cut my losses and leave... No bad reaction beyond thanking them for their time, and then blocking them on phone and all social media..

ConfusedGuy96 · Answer

Usually you can tell straight away if someone's transgender or not. But just to be sure you should tell them immediatly because for some people it can be a shock and a deal breaker when they found out the person is trans.

Leavesbound · Answer

Prior to first date, Preferably prior to the other person having the chance to ask them out.

Appetite · Answer

I'd be fine with if they let me know at the first date.

pomequeen · Answer

Whenever, they want to and they don't have to if they don't want to.

Massageman · Answer

In the very beginning to save everyone time, bother, perhaps grief, etc.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

First date Preferably before. If not when the clothes come off you can’t be mad if I walk away. Fast.

ecfresh · Answer

I would expect them to bring up the topic before the first date. That avoids any deception.

Creepazoid · Answer

First conversation "Hey I'm Kayla born as Kyle nice to meet you." "Hey I'm Matt born as Maddie pleasure meeting you too."

Guanfei · Answer

Right at the start. I don't care what trans think, a man is a man, and a woman is a woman, no matter what they think they are. And I don't want to date a man, even if he has boobs.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

In my opinion it's better to be open about it from the start, because some people can be a little off-put by it, but if they're the right person that won't matter to them.

Pink2000 · Answer

Immediately !! Keeping a secret like that is dangerous.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Immediately, the fact that some of them think its okay not to just shows how mentally ill they are

MoccasinHoller · Answer

The part where I suspect they are and kick theme square between the legs with my steel toe boots on. To confirm my suspicion.

Wowgirl30q · Answer

I think people literally get killed because of stuff like this it's dangerous and wrong to hide something that serious

Smegskull · Answer

Probably date 2 around the same time the "do you want kids?" conversation happens.

AmourHoney · Answer

Before they even start a relationship, the second they a meet a person they’re interested in.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

At the very fucking begining, unless they are truly shitty people.

bolverk · Answer

I'd prefer to know sooner rather than later, before the first date preferably.

RHK36 · Answer

When you first start talking to the point that you're thinking about dating them.

Oram52 · Answer

Immediately, right at the beginning. Person has the right to know.

doomguy1994 · Answer

First communication with the person. " hi im "" and I have a dick, should be how you introduce yourself, seriously... Not joking

MrBurke · Answer

I need to know Immediately if they are or are not  if I found out the person who passes quite well as a chick is actually a dude or vice versa I would simply break up with them

alexelijahc · Answer

Personally i believe you should let them know early on. I've known friends who've hid it from their past partners and it got ugly quick due to the partner's feeling lied to. Le

DeathRowKingPin · Answer

Day one they got nothing to hide Right? It can get someone killed happen before. Why not make it a point to put it out there so the person don’t get hurt finding out not only did you lie but your fake

JKingOff · Answer

Yeah. Just an FYI before anything gets started would be nice. I make exceptions if they are post-op.

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