My boyfriend wants to do inside?

[Anonymous]

I am not on birth control because side effects hit me really bad. And its not a secret, my boyfriend knows it.
But still when we r having sex he asks if he can do it inside.
I never allow and he never actually does it, but he ALWAYS ASKS. He is not a trashy type of guy, reputation matters to him.

When I asked him why he was doing that, he just said he tried to 'give it a shot'.

We talk about future or joke about getting old tgthr but weve been going out for 3 months now and its too early to be serious about.

On top of that he has a very mobile job. He travels all the time, the last month we only spent one weekend tgthr.

How do I deal with it? I really like him and want the best out of it. Can anyone guess his real intention?

[Screenwriter]

It's not about "intention", it's about sex and pleasure. He wants sex inside you because that feels better. He's not thinking about the possible consequences, impregnating you, just about how he'll feel in that moment. You need to have a serious talk with him about constantly pressuring you to have sex. If he wants to wear a condom and you want to use birth control film that melts or foam, then you could possibly do this. But if he wants to have unprotected sex, he needs to stop asking or you need to stop seeing him. Clarify this in your mind and in his! After 3 months he is no more considering being serious than a hole in the head.

[Asker]

Thanks for your sincere answer.
We talked about it and he said he wants a kid.

But since he is always on business trips, i think it is impossible in this stage. I told him its too early to consider wedding and everything and he agreed but he is still asking and say he wants to gamble.
I like him, cuz he is really fun and gentle but ya

[Screenwriter]

I'd worry about his wanting to "gamble," it feels reckless. If you want to stay with him, get to know him over many months. He's still a new person in your life.

[sejla]

Ask him what he would do if you got pregnant?

I mean you could use spermicide and a female condom but female condoms are cumbersome and he isn't going to get the effect of what he wants probably. The only other options is spermicide with a diaphragm.

sounds like a really bad idea unless you are confident you can raise a child with this person

[Anonymous]

"Can anyone guess his real intention?" Seriously , like he is some villain , inside just feels better thats all and in the moment you dont really think bout everything like what that will do cuz thats how we are programmed , now his real intentions maybe , being stuck with you for the rest of his life?

[markscott]

Keep telling him no. And maybe tell him to stop asking. He is hoping that at some point, he will find your resolve weak, and you will let him in bare. The problem for you is partly, that at some point, if he keeps asking, you will be weak at some point, and give in, and get pregnant.

[WalterRadio]

Unless he is using a condom, you CAN get pregnant.

It feels a lot better without a condom inside. He probably isn't in a financial position where he would lose a lot if you got pregnant.

[October808]

He wants to cum inside you regardless if you get pregnant. He travels a lot for his business? He'l;l probably run for the hills if you get pregnant. He does not have noble intentions.

[Asker]

I met so many of his friends and he even brought me to his office parties. He volunteers for social works a lot, he is well known in his community. He is not someone just can run away. If he was doing this to everybody, prolly he will be already a father of seven children.
Thanks for the answer, im just saying we are quite official.

[reptocarl]

He want to know what it feels like. It really is the best feeling

[Asker]

And the consequence is extremely heavy and painful

[reptocarl]

Definitely. Have you considered an IUD?

[GuildLegend435]

this is very risky. you'd best get on birth control or make sure he's got a condom on!!

[GloriaMc]

If he really wants to do that shot regardless with the outcome he should do the right thing first but then again it's all up to both of you

[FunkyMonkee]

Have you ever heard of rubbers? That way, he can cum in you and you won't get preggers.

[Thatsamazing]

Let him cum in your ass or swallow him instead-- same intense amazing feeling, zero chance of babies, because fuck that.

[jizzyjay]

I've had some girl that didt care, even if not on birth control. She was fine with plan b. I was not fine with her putting her body through that so I just pulled out.

[Anonymous]

I was a good guy and I knocked up my girlfriend. I wanted her to have an abortion and she said no over and over again. Then she had a miscarriage. A bad experience for all. Don’t do it.

[Rcw720]

Well some people dont like to stop, but the only thing he could do is get you a plan B if that's what he wants and y'all aren't ready for kids.

[COMMODOREII]

He wants to cum inside. But if he keeps bothering you about it he is not respecting the boundaries.

[Anonymous]

It’s feels good just letting go inside you but it’s risky if he does it during ovulation you’ll get pregnant

[Asker]

I know. He is working in medical field so he knows better than anyone.

[Asker]

I just dont knwo why he is so reckless.

[Opinion Owner]

During that moment just before climax guys don’t care about consequences because it feels so good

[Therisinghero12]

Hard to tell his intentions, but definitely a bad idea to do something like that.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Only married couples having sex are legit. All other sex is total shit.