What was it like your first time letting someone get to second base with you (or vice versa)?

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I really had two times. The first time felt kind of rushed and he didn’t spend a lot time on my boobs before he started trying to get my pants down. The second time was much slower and more relaxed. After we got over the initial awkwardness and he figured out what to do, it felt really nice.

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

We were watching the movie '500 Days of Summer'. A depressing breakup movie.

Yes. I was a virgin but a year older. She was not a virgin. She let me touch her boobs. I was shocked because I had never seen boobs in real life before. Also confused because they were a flat pear shape... and small... Then she took off my shirt. I was more scared than excited because I was in love with her. I kissed her jeans near her crotch area and asked if I could go down on her. She stopped me confused. Super awkward. I felt dumb and humiliated. She dumped me the next day.

TadCurious · Accepted Answer

It was amazing. Of course I'd been fascinated by boobs since the 5th grade, when my classmates started to develop. So when I was 14 I was at a party and this girl (Lisa) who was a year older and I paired off. But I was really shy sitting next to her and after way too much awkwardness on my part, she just turned to face me, took my face between both her hands and kissed me. And then she put my hand on her breasts. Omg it was magical and she saved me from my hesitancy. I REALLY loved the way her breasts felt.

J_Claire · Accepted Answer

The first time I gave was actually kind of scary. The scent and taste were fine, it was the lack of oxygen that was shocking. She kept trying to pull my face in deeper and I couldn’t breathe even through my nose. Not every time is like that but it was a scary first time. And the first time I received was... awkward. She was fantastic at everything except one thing. She kept making contact with her teeth which hurt. I actually didn’t even cum that night which was more embarrassing than anything I had ever experienced before

SydneySentinel · Accepted Answer

🙈🙈 not going to lie... I had to google what each base was because I only knew 1st base and homerun... lol

The first time i experienced 2nd base was nice. Neither of us really knew what we were doing and that's okay-- we just knew if felt good. He spent a good amount of time there.

Nice222 · Answer

The first time was when I was 14. I was at my girlfriends house watching a rented movie (VHS tape) lol. I was sitting on the couch and she was laying down with her head on my lap. I felt awkward because I had no where to put my arm or hand without touching her. Finally when she realized I was uncomfortable she grabbed my hand and said put it here and place my hand on her breast over her shirt. I was shocked but loved it. After awhile I asked her if I could put my hand there with her shirt up. She said sure and lifted her shirt my hand was on her bra. Then after awhile she took her bra off and I was playing with her boobs. Felt like heaven. That was as far as I went that night and for a long time.

Apple1996 · Answer

I acutally experienced 2nd base before 1st. Me and my boyfriend at the time would meet up in the hallway everyday at a certain time and one day he took me behind the staircase and started shoving his hands in my pants to play with my ass and then eventually went under my bra. We were only 12 so that's probably why it didn't lead to anything and why he didn't kiss me lol

TCredo · Answer

Pretty wild - happened in "the pits" behind middle school... was a grassy open space with depression like pits where middle schools would hang out for makeout sessions and stuff... it's weird how the mind remembers certain things decades later but I could not get her bra undone so she had to help and then I just remember fumbling around feeling her up not knowing what I was doing other than I made it to 2nd base lol :)

Elliegirl · Answer

It was really nice. Like many of my other firsts, it started with a make out session. He was really sweet and asked me if he could touch my boobs before he did. He was gentle with them and it felt so good having him massage my breasts as we kissed.

rex1636 · Answer

the first I was when I was fourteen. It felt amazing. I felt a rush or sensation of eroticism run through my entire body. I remember the feeling be so powerful. Afterwards we never really talked about but I was probably awkward that first time at well.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I really believe my problem was dealing with Girls who
were immature / mentally ill. so yes we never got to real sex
there was too much depression in the first relationship and
the second relationship she wanted to force me to have sex
so lot things went on in both relationships. So second base
with me never happened.

Jerre · Answer

I was only 13 and the girl next door, age 15, jacked me off. First time I ever knew what cum was and how it got out of my body. The next week, she fucked me. First time I ever played with tits and got excited about it. I was big (cock) for my age and soon she brought her girl friends over. I hit a homerun with all of them. Think there were 4 girls in all.

BuckWild · Answer

I apologize in advance for my naivety. How do you define second base?

KatherineJ · Answer

He seemed like he was in a big hurry to get into my panties. If he would have slowed down, he might have.

Orangeandturquoise · Answer

My first time 2nd base was next to a castle in the town I used to go to high-school in. It was fantastic. Seeing and touching boobs for the first time

NickiB · Answer

I was so nervous. I felt like i was going to throw up. I was like this so strange. And was like is this what it feels like to breastfeed?😂😂

TheDarkNighty · Answer

Good at first then she said something that made me feel repulsive and I didn’t want to continue, she said she wants a hug so I hugged her like a friend and then we left the apartment.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

the first time she kind of grabbed it. i didn't have a choice. the second girl whipped it out and started sucking and so i kind of went with it. i was a bit shit back then so i wasn't the aggressor

Frankiealaplaaja · Answer

It was absolutely fantastic. Breathtaking, thrilling etc. etc.
I don't think she really knew what she was doing, because after a bit she nearly tore it. So I said "OW! That hurts" I corrected her. After that, it was great.

bananathunder · Answer

was fun... i was really young and there were other people around so it wasn't the most romantic, but it was a lot of fun

wingattebaby16 · Answer

it was truly amazing.. i was 12yo and we were in the shower together... I actually got an O or two from him touching me then sucking on me... wow...

blkgold33 · Answer

First base I was ok but I was really really young. While second actually wasn't that exciting/good for me

Bad_Man55 · Answer

1st time was awkward trying to determine if she wanted or would allow me to go there but once that was over it became more relaxed and enjoyable

TheRealQuestion2 · Answer

Lol, both instances were incredible and exhilarating!

DanOh2018 · Answer

It honestly didn't seem like much of milestone. I was too nervous to take it further. It was my first relationship after having been abused as a child and I ended up freezing LoL

Leito24 · Answer

Men who don't spend enough time are so stupid! Sex is an art, a show. Not a shop center

JesseJayNeak · Answer

It was the same for me too. The first one was rushed, the other two were more chill

COMMODOREII · Answer

I liked it a lot. Watching her lick and suck on my nipples. It excited me more once she started biting. 😎

poneglyphs · Answer

I haven't been to second base with anyone before. :^(

Goodmisssunshine · Answer

The first time he sucked my boobs for a good while and I stroked him meanwhile.

TheDawnOfTime · Answer

It was pretty awkward at first. She didn't really know how to handle my penis but it was good enough.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

2nd base? There are bases in sex? So baseball and sex are related?

Steve37 · Answer

It was really awesome! It was intimate and erotic and all I thought about for the next week.

zaharaa · Answer

I was really into it and sort of followed his lead

Jjpayne · Answer

Have not got there yet but it sure sounds nice :)

CoolLovingmybf · Answer

Sex never happened and second base never happened

zagor · Answer

Not even sure what the bases are.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

What's second base?

Dogmommy5 · Answer

It was scary and kinda exciting

Sensitiveintuition · Answer

Awful.

Smf1989 · Answer

Have not got on second yet 😭😪😓

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