For online dating: guys, do you pick the girl up or meet her somewhere for the 1st date? (Page 2)
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Is it a stranger or someone from online? If so, best to meet somewhere. Whatever she is comfortable with, have done both.
In a public place provided I had face chat with them before by webcam so I am familiar with them enough. I don't do blind dates.
Online dating often begins with just meeting up somewhere. Sure, there have been a few exceptions, but overwhelmingly, you both just meet somewhere.
Here's why... If the date goes down poorly... You dont want her feeling trapped.
I would meet her somewhere public that I know as I don't drive and fear being mugged
Meet some where you want them comfortable around you showing up at thier house could start a date with discomfort since she dosent know if your crazy
i don’t do online dating, i definitely need to work on approaching ladies more in person in real life
i need to work on my confidence and shyness
same here
Good luck man
I just find it weird that someone would give away their home address like that, now on the second date yes, I'll pick her up
If she is comfortable with me knowing where she lives then I'll pick her up. If she is more cautious with her home address then I'll meet her somewhere.
I meet them somewhere usually close to their area so they don't have to come close to mine.
Where ever there is less risk of false allegations.
i would try to make it convenient for her.. so however she wants it, it is fine by me..
I've never been on a date, but I'd probably meet her somewhere
Meet. This way if things do not go well there is no awkward drive home.
Meet somewhere. She has right to keep her address private.
Meet somewhere, isn't it a bit awkward to be in a strange dudes car?
It all depends on the person if u already know her u pick her up if not u meed in a restaurant or a bar something
I always meet them somewhere because they would never feel comfortable picking them up at their home
I would meet in public first. Safer.
Depends on what she is more comfortable with
Like I've usually picked them up