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Is it ageist and shallow if I refuse to date older men and I find them unnatractive? (Page 3)
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if someone can't take a no, then you should tell them to fuck off. date who you want for whatever reasons you chose
"I can't tell you anything about myself because I'm private"
And give no explanation other than that.
It's your personal preference. It isn't right to like someone or have feelings for them and refuse to date them based on their age, but there isn't a requirement you be available either.
You have a right to your preferences.
Also, thank you for showing that "creepy" often just means "I'm not interested."
It's fine. Different people have different preferences. Nothing wrong with who you are or are not interested in.
It's a waste of time to think about it, that's for sure.
You're just one person in a planet of billions, no cares if you only like younger, older, taller, shorter, whatever guys.
That's your preference it's got nothing to do with any ism's
No I am the way around. I am not interested in women older than me.
You can't force attraction.
No, who you date is a personal preference. You don't have an obligation to date any particular age, race, body type or gender.
No. You’re attracted to whoever, date whomever. But keep in mind some psyche issues could be at play.
It's fine. You're allowed to have your preferences.
At your age EVERYTHING is creepy. Y'all should tattoo it on your forearm or something.
Shallow, no. Ageist, ya kinda. I find your perspective littered with contradictions though.
Of course I think you are and I'm offended.
I' m also a bit biased and 48 years old.. lol
She wants someone close to her own age that's it. At least you admit your opinion is based on your own age.
@Porcelaine. I forgot to add, I wasn't the least bit serious. No i wasn't offended. I also hope i didn't disrespect or offend anyone
Seemed liked said jokingly but so many older men taking offence I wasn't sure
@Porcelaine My bad. I'll be more careful in the future
No more than I am for refusing to date fat girls because I find them unattractive.
You should go for what you like.. after all you're the one that's going to be with them..
You're just a kid who needs to grow up more and you got a lot more maturing to do because it's quite obvious you aren't ready to be in an adult relationship at your age and immaturity level
Well, it's just your preference. 31 is not a creepy number. I'm 24 and my recent boyfriend was 36.
It feels creepy when you prefer someone same age.
Yeah, got it
No its not ageist, you have a certain type of people that you feel attracted to and he (31 year old) doesn't fall in that.