One man asked her 3 times on a date even though she turned him down the first two times - now they’re married.
“A man will pursue her until he gets her.”
... Guys is this true? 🤔
Yes! Unfortunately, but at the same time fortunately, a man will do anything to get the girl he wants. Guys don't usually make a big deal out of things if you haven't noticed, and when it comes to something that is a big deal to us, we won't let it go. I mean after a while though, if the girl is clearly not interested, we just come to an understanding that the person is simply not the one for us.
Going into the extremes of us doing anything:
When we connect with someone emotionally, our entire shell becomes and open door for only that one person we are falling for. You walk in and you see everything. We allow you so deeply into ourselves that you end up feeling like you know us more than ourselves, and because of that, we trust and and therefore care for you more than anything. At this point in our lives, we have found one of the most important things that is important to us. Our most prized possession would be you. Because we care for you that much, we would try our best to do as much as we can for you, and when we can't, it makes us upset, because things like helping you through your problems or making you happy becomes a big thing for us. So we then try to do everything we can to make you smile and happy because we'd do anything for your happiness and well-being
Not me. I'll politely ask you out. If you say no, then I guess we're not going out. I think it's pathetic to ask more than once unless something has changed since the last time, leading you to believe you might get a different answer. Otherwise... it's just pathetic. I remember watching Fresh Prince and thinking the same thing when I was like 9 years old.
What am I going to try to "wear her down"? To "convince her"? to "beg and plead"? I mean really... I don't want to go out with someone who only agreed to go out with me because I wore her down. That's pathetic as hell. She said no. So she doesn't want to go out with me. GETTING her to go out with me isn't the hope in that situation. The hope is for her to WANT to go out with you. I just don't understand why so many guys don't understand that. I guess they think they're so lovable that you're bound to fall for them over time? maybe? I donno what those idiots think.
I certainly know a guy who. Is doing everything possible to go out with a girl I know. And all I can say is she's nuts not to go out with him. She tells me she thinks he's to good for her. I keep telling her there's nothing wrong with him. I've tried telling her that just because you go on a date dosn't mean you are going to marry him its just a night out where you can have a good time. Give it a chance
Thanks for the mho
Sexy Trojan Paris enticed away gorgeous Helen, wife of the great Spartan King Menelaus, sparking one of Ancient mythology's great wars. Thanks in large part to Aphrodite's juvenile promise to sack Paris the hottest girl in the Ancient Greek world even though she was already married. One moral of the story? For the feeling of love (or lust) some might be willing to see the rest of the world burn.
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Absolutely not! A real man has standards and he doesn't compromise!
True.
It sucks that there is neither structure on how to be a man, nor any true consensus on what it means to be one is some of these developed countries.
But to answer the question, no he won't absolutely do anything, but he will risk it all and bet on himself to rescue her or be there for her. He'll do anything that is fundamentally ok with who he is that he believes will benefit her.
Amazing answer. Thank you.
Thank you, I appreciate that
No,
I wouldn't do anything for a woman I wanted,
I wouldn't do anything for the woman I marry.
1stly 2 men fighting over a woman is retarded neither has a real say in who she picks this is pure validation for her, and you can and many have gone to jail for playing this stupid mating game.
Persistence is good, I'm very confused where the mine is between that and creepiness.
I heard a guy once say how important is was to atudy your woman. And have you capture her heart how important it is to keep studying her. You never fully graduate.
I don't think its true for everyone, I am not the one to chase woman to get dates. I just live my life the way I want and do the things that I like to do. if a woman loves 90% of the things that I like and dislike then I will be more inclined to pursue her. I really believe you shouldn't waste your time on someone that not willing to make a equal effort. it goes the same with dating and meeting people. Avoid Moochers , Gold diggers, Narcissistic people, self center people. If your values are the same and needs and dreams then go for it. I have heard that some woman will resist a guy only because they feel that they are not there type then the more they get to know the guy the more they find that they want them. if things don't stay lively then why would you stay around?
Hell no. I think this was why I was born introverted... So I wouldn't care about being single. I'm not about to bend over backwards for someone I don't know, and isn't in my life. Sure she looks good on paper, but what exactly does she offer me now and what can she offer in the future?
Nope. If I let her know I'm interested and she keeps playing hard to get I will move on because she isn't worth my time. If you want to go out then let's go out. There's no point to those childish games. If other guys want to play, they are free to do so. I value my time.
No it's not true at all. Maybe it used to be true when I was 14 and clueless but you learn quickly that if you do stuff for the girl you like you're just gonna be the guy she asks to do shit for her. So maybe if we didn't feel like we were gonna be used we'd do more. I stopped chasing and doing stuff for women a long time ago. Maybe I'll do more for a girl I like again some day but not atm.
There is not black and white answer for this. It would depend on the interactions between them. I think that if he feels he may have a chance, due to signs he is reading from her (wrong or not), he will try again. If the signs are not there, he won't. Only a turd will continue to try when the signs clearly say she doesn't want to.
“A man will pursue her until he gets her.”
Disagree. That sounds really stalkerish. Like, she said "no" two times and a guy still keeps persisting. I'm pretty sure these are the "creepy and annoying" guys that all the little gaglettes complain about on here. Plus, ya know, restraining orders and all would make pursuing her more challenging. But hey, according to some girls, guys like challenges, and she ended up marrying him, so who knows anymore.
Some definitely will. What men should understand is that persistence is charming but it can be over-bearing if he continues. Women like me say no and we don't change our mind no matter how many times we're asked.
It depends:
If the girl try to play "important" and hard to get, it is a big turn off... I will walk away very fast.
If the girl actually is not interested and actually is hard to get by nature, I will try harder.
I don't care about players
Yes and no. Some things are not worth getting the girl. Like i want a caring and sweet girl and if she disrespects me as a test to see if i accept it i will walk because i will never disrespect myself and that just means she isn't the perfect girl for me and idc about her anymore.
Not true at all. It is true that men will chase bit not for long. That would be a waist of time given the qualities he has to offer. And once in a relationship a man will only put up with so much till moving on.
A “man” that slobbers on a woman’s ankles for the flap treat is not a man. You seem excited about the prospects of having a lot of attention by these non-men. Would you really want one of these so called men? NO don’t agree…
A man with no self respect will. If she's not interested he should have the balls to move on with life. Those fantasy stories you hear, women string men along and the men who play those games are weak.
If she says no, or is childish enough to play the 'no doesn't mean no' game, I move on with my life.
Asking someone on a date 3 times when she already says no on the first time is just pathetic and shows you're annoying af and don't understand what "no" means. This dude was just lucky. A real man can accept that a girl doesn't want him.
And from going to clubs with a female friends I know how disturbing men can be when they just don't stop pursuing you... Guys like that are the reason girls lie about having a boyfriend all the time... because otherwise guys won't get it.
No, if I see like in your example she will say not o my request, just to play hard to get or jus bc I asked not in away her imaginary prince should, I would just stop bothering as at this stage she acting like slum princess, what will happen later, I have no time for those BS games...
Yes, I would do a lot for woman I like, but when she steps over the line it is no way she will be able to get back very soon.
Most women like persistents. But some men feel it's beneath them to pursue a woman despite the fact we are attracted to it. So the persistent ones usually ends up with the girl.
I getcha. Àinitely have to read the situation right. Like if she's turning you down do to not feeling like she has the time to give or is she just not attracted to you.
Well yes and no. Because the women I want wouldn't want me to do that.
I wouldn't let her fuck other dudes. If she is the kind of women who wants to be with other men when she is in a relationship she is not the women I want.
Naa not really, if i get turned down I will try again obviously but if I keep getting turned down then I'll just move on, life is too short to waste time on someone that just simply doesn't want you, it sucks yeah but it reality
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