Honestly for me? Consider myself decent-ish. I'm just too unexperienced for my age so I have no idea how to even flirt, nevermind having the guts to actually walk up to someone and ask em out. FeelsBadMan.
Because no relationship is perfect and your loved one will never fulfill all your needs. Most of us are looking for perfection and when it gets harder, most of us are thinking that it could be better elsewhere.
brutalization of social norms leads to collective indifference. I'm meanwhile so tired to start a honey sweet convo that turns after 20-30 sentences in passive-aggressive blaming and generalization.
Yes but that is because society has been steered in that direction for too long.
It's going to take men and women, mentally and emotionally mature enough to recognize what has been shoved down our throats for too long, and then do something about it. Change the conversations ourselves. We can do it, but it's a hard road, and I think feelings on both sides will be hurt along the way.
Because they can’t communicate properly. I don’t know how many people I know who can’t communicate properly. I think it’s social media. by the way, same issue with my grandmother so it ain’t just age.
i dont know about girls , but i think the reason why there are so many single guys , it is because of internet porn accessing it is as easy as blinking own eyes
I think one of the biggest issues is the economy. When you're working overtime or trying to juggle 2 or 3 jobs in order to get by, it really takes away from a person's availability for dating.
Many people that I know work this hard. I don't mean a typical college student or recent graduate that is still living with parents. I mean people that support themselves financially and live independently.
Most people are either overly picky or don’t see a compelling reason to get involved in anything long term (i. e. the disadvantages outweigh the advantages).
A lot of nice and cool af single people ik have either been hurt too much in the past or they're just not interested anymore or they're still stuck in the past.
Because women are hypergasmists and refuse to date lower than the bar they set. But then they blame men as a gender for not living up to that standard.
Women are doing better and better while men are stagnated, women are actively choosing to limit their dating pool and complain. Their standards don't consider the current economy, women run on pure emotion
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Because decent and moral people are so rare these days that it is very difficult for a decent person to find another decent person. Wherever you go you find people who are beautiful on the outside but ugly or empty inside.
I think a lot of people are overlooked because they are introverted and people don't get to know them and they have trouble meeting people, that or simply just plain bad luck in the dating world.
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Because they are decent, so they want other decent people
I think they look at the modern dating scene and realize that they simply want no part of it.
I think the top two reasons are they aren't aggressive enough and are too picky.
Honestly for me? Consider myself decent-ish. I'm just too unexperienced for my age so I have no idea how to even flirt, nevermind having the guts to actually walk up to someone and ask em out. FeelsBadMan.
I think a lot of people don't want to be single but don't have a way to express their feelings. A lot of people are really insecure nowadays.
I'm not 100 percent on this but my opinion is that were quite a bit more picky these days than in the past !
Because the media space sells experiences and encounters and not relationships. And decent people prefer relationships (and getting gooey)
Because no relationship is perfect and your loved one will never fulfill all your needs. Most of us are looking for perfection and when it gets harder, most of us are thinking that it could be better elsewhere.
brutalization of social norms leads to collective indifference.
I'm meanwhile so tired to start a honey sweet convo that turns after 20-30 sentences in passive-aggressive blaming and generalization.
Yes but that is because society has been steered in that direction for too long.
It's going to take men and women, mentally and emotionally mature enough to recognize what has been shoved down our throats for too long, and then do something about it.
Change the conversations ourselves.
We can do it, but it's a hard road, and I think feelings on both sides will be hurt along the way.
But, truth needs to be told by everyone invloved.
Because they can’t communicate properly. I don’t know how many people I know who can’t communicate properly. I think it’s social media. by the way, same issue with my grandmother so it ain’t just age.
i dont know about girls , but i think the reason why there are so many single guys , it is because of internet porn
accessing it is as easy as blinking own eyes
I think one of the biggest issues is the economy. When you're working overtime or trying to juggle 2 or 3 jobs in order to get by, it really takes away from a person's availability for dating.
How many women actually work this hard? Answer: Very few. Working yourself to death is the realm of men.
Many people that I know work this hard. I don't mean a typical college student or recent graduate that is still living with parents. I mean people that support themselves financially and live independently.
People want exciting times and adventure so they choose risky or bad people. It adds an extra thrill to things to have an element of danger.
Most people are either overly picky or don’t see a compelling reason to get involved in anything long term (i. e. the disadvantages outweigh the advantages).
A lot of nice and cool af single people ik have either been hurt too much in the past or they're just not interested anymore or they're still stuck in the past.
Because so many shitty people have left a bad taste in their mouth
Facts dude
Yeah the next one can thank the last one for me being an asshole
I am a nice guy and I feel girls don’t appreciate me
Because women are hypergasmists and refuse to date lower than the bar they set. But then they blame men as a gender for not living up to that standard.
Women are doing better and better while men are stagnated, women are actively choosing to limit their dating pool and complain. Their standards don't consider the current economy, women run on pure emotion
Because decent and moral people are so rare these days that it is very difficult for a decent person to find another decent person. Wherever you go you find people who are beautiful on the outside but ugly or empty inside.
Because Door Dash doesn't deliver boyfriends 😅
No, but they deliver practically everything else! Maybe one day...
Mmmmm chocolate cake 🤤🤤🤤
At least we can rely on that!!!
I'm just waiting for Coach to comment asking for some cake too...
Lmao!
I think a lot of people are overlooked because they are introverted and people don't get to know them and they have trouble meeting people, that or simply just plain bad luck in the dating world.