I have a thing for attractive blonde haired guys with deep ocean blue eyes?

[SueAnon84]

as a black haired Asian woman, do you think I'd have a chance to date a guy with those features again? :)

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Could someone please tell me how to disable automatic or Computer generated MHOs!

[soleil2666]

I think EVERYBODY has a thing for those, not just you. Whether they feel the same is a question - but I'd suspect they do (as in, also have a thing for blue eyed blonde women).
And the thing with that is everyone is trying to abuse those (and me, to some extent) into HAVING to be available for ANYONE to date us. Which is bs since whom you date is a personal preference based on whom you like when you are not under any threats.

[SueAnon84]

I wouldn't threat anyone to date me so what do you mean exactly? !

[cavmanier]

Those guys are kind of uncommon but I don't see why you can't end up with one. You should keep trying. I know that I'm generally more attracted to Asian girls features or looks and click with them more mentally and values wise (on average) so I'm pretty sure I'll end up with one too. Some of us have our own niche so keep working at it.

[SueAnon84]

Thanks I will! ... I almost married one actually like I said in my other replies to this question! The thing is, he already had baggage in the form of a divorce and a child so it was hard for me! ... I need a person that understands me and is mature and loving! And if I can find one with a nice personality and a forgiving one then hey!

[cavmanier]

You sound like you have such basic standards lol. I hope you find all those things. It can't be that hard right? Did you realize him being divorced and have any kid bothered you late into your relationship? I would think that you would know that's a problem from the beginning.

[SueAnon84]

"You sound like you have such basic standards lol" Actually those AREN'T basic standards! At leas for me! I have yet to meet a white guy (let alone ANY guy) that genuinely possess those qualities! ... To me, I think ultimately, true love (not just love where it's selfish and you want to get something out of it), is unconditional. ... I DID know that my ex had those BUT I was lonely and horny, and yes, I admit, I was being selfish... If I truly didn't want to get with someone who already had experienced that stuff before me enough to make me extrememly jealous, then either I should have worked on it together with him or moved on... It took calling the police many times, me yelling at him and even physically assaulting him!, him pushing me to the ground... to realize that it just wasn't going to work!

[SueAnon84]

You know despite all of that, leaving him was one of the hardest things I had to do. Because I had already loved him and we spent a lot of time together. Mind you this was an 18 month relationship (half being close physically, half of it long-distance!).

[cavmanier]

You've never met one guy that that understands you, is mature, loving, has a nice personality and is forgiving? Okay, all of these together aren't easy to find in a woman either 😂 They are important though.

Did you two fight and get violent because you were jealous of his ex wife? Clearly those two had problems which lead to them not working out though.

[RealityCheck4Youu]

Tell the truth. You're self-hating and White worshipping. You want Whiter looking offspring, that's why you chase after White men, especially with blond hair and blue eyes. Newsflash, your kids will never have those features and will look fully Asian like you and will never be White. Your bloodline is Asian and always will be Asian. Stop the self-hate and marry an Asian guy.

[RealityCheck4Ya]

No, she really shouldn't. White guys with blond hair and blue eyes like and want White women of the same race as them. She should find an Asian guy of the same race as her and leave White men with blond hair and blue eyes alone to be with White women from their own race.

[Tommie21]

Oh definitely! I know a lot of Caucasian guys, including myself, that think Asian women are hot. Asian women have a wealth of attributes. For the most part, they are respectful, attentive to their mate, very loyal to their friends, and are extremely family oriented.

[markscott]

Why not? Except blond hair, and blue eyes, are in the minority, and harder to find someone with those characteristics, who is compatible with you.

[SueAnon84]

I almost married one actually... It's more common in European nations and Middle Eastern nations... I think it's because they are recessive traits in comparison to black hair, brown hair and brown eyes... Believe it or not, even green eyes are more dominant than blue eyes! Hazel/yellow eyes are also more dominant.

Source: The science of genetics. :- )

[ImagineSketchy]

Caucasian guys have a thing or rather a fetish for Eastern Asian women. It would be a shock if you were incapable of finding some guy with what you are interested in.

[bklynbadboy1]

You can definitely date one but just a word of advice if you want something long term base it on some more than just looks. What type of personality are you attracted to I'd he intelligent how he treats you not just the superficial

[SueAnon84]

Thanks! Deep down that is correct 🙂!

[MackToday]

Sure most are civic nationalists. They swallow their natural instinct and force themselves to act as if race isn't real.

[SueAnon84]

Excuse me? ! That's pretty racist! ... I think opposites attract! Why do you think men are attracted to women! They compliment each other! ... Also, yes I know I have a lot of competition so yes it's not about race really! ... It's actually natural to be attracted to those different than you... Science can even back this up! ... The result is stronger, healthier children!

[MackToday]

"That's racist" Hahahahahaha ya you go comrade got that little red book memorized from top to bottom don't you. Race is real it's normal to be attracted to your own race , being part of a race is a survival mechanism. Your own race evolved to work with you hand in hand to survive. Nature put measures in place to protect the genetic integrity of any given race. Call me raciest all you want I'm I'm not any of those soy boys you're thinking of.

[RealityCheck4Youu]

Grow up. Opposites don't attract. Humans are biologically hardwired to prefer their own race and those who look similar to them. You look NOTHING like a White woman and you will NEVER be White. It's clear you're just a White worshipper. We don't want you. You're clueless about "science" because the science states we prefer those who look like us. Nice try though. Self-hating White worshipper.

[RealityCheck4Ya]

Blond haired guys with blue eyes want White women of the same race as them. Not non-Whites like you. Find an Asian guy from your own race and leave blond men with blue eyes to be with their White women of the same race as them.

[RealityCheck4Youu]

No, you wouldn't. Blond blue eyed men like White women of the same race as them. The way nature intended. Go marry an Asian guy and leave Blond blue-eyed men alone.

[Vaahab]

Guys can just take one look at you and if they like you they will show it.. You'll understand when the moment comes. Ofcourse you have a chance. Best of luck

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah you can have a chance with guy that looks like me. 😂

[Phoenix98]

sure I don't see why not.

[Avicenna]

I'd imagine your chances are excellent

[SueAnon84]

Actually I feel like it USED to be that way... now it seems as if white people are going now for what is poopular! Latina girls!

[SueAnon84]

Popular*

[Avicenna]

Rest assured that white guys like Asian women very much

[SueAnon84]

Thanks. I would have picked you for MHO but damn computer automatic generating MHOs lol! Ugh!

[RealityCheck4Youu]

No we don't. Speak for yourself. We prefer and want White women.

[vintagegirl90]

It’s possible I’ve dated a guy like that

[james2018dean]

Only if you create that situation.

[Tommie21]

I don't follow you. What does "create that situation" mean?

[james2018dean]

It means she should try to meet the type of guy she's attracted to.
Its simple!

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Many women likes that combination so no shock.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Probaby 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Are you from Thailand

[SueAnon84]

No and I would appreciate if you stopped stereotyping me!

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry you said Asia

[7771999]

I hope you don't

[SueAnon84]

Why?

[SueAnon84]

I came close to marrying one actually... but he had baggage in the form of a divorce and a child so that was hard for me!

[7771999]

Stay with your race. It's nothing personal. I'm sure you're a great girl. But it's not a matter of that...

White people are under constant pressure from their own, and every other group, to mix out. Don't make it harder for white guys with no loyalty to their heritage.

[SueAnon84]

Okay but what if you are mixed? ... I don't know if I am but I look more Oriental (Japanese) than I do my own "race" which is Filipina. ... I thought opposites attracted! ... At least in the looks department! ... And also, you cannot currently control what other's do or think so!..

[7771999]

"Okay but what if you are mixed?"

If you're talking about me specifically. I'm not mixed. Mixed ethnicities within the same race is totally fine.

"I don't know if I am but I look more Oriental (Japanese) than I do my own "race" which is Filipina."

You're still south East Asian. Same race. Although mixed with different ethnicities.

"I thought opposites attracted!"

They do. But only to a certain extent. Take my girlfriend for example. She's Latina (aka different ethnicity, still same race). She is extroverted, I am introverted. She likes medicine, I like history.
But if she was a black woman who plays soccer, I would not be attracted to her at all...

"And also, you cannot currently control what other's do or think so!"

I know. I'm trying to make you think of what you're doing. Obviously I can't stop you. If you truly want to be a degenerate race mixer...

I'm just saying that there is a better way. A way that will make you way more happy in the long run...

[SueAnon84]

Since your girlfriend is Latina she is not white. I thought you were white (you say in your profile that you are from Norway). I have seen some people mix... And no I was not referring to you, I was referring to me. That'a a pretty derogatory term that you are calling people that are marrying other races!

"I'm just saying that there is a better way. A way that will make you way more happy in the long run..." Okay? ! Since when do you determine or know what will make others happy in the long run? ! ... And I have seen a lot of half Asian babies that are mixed with white growing up. They weren't bad looking at all!

[7771999]

You can say all that. Still won't make it true.

Homogeneity is always better.

Derogatory? Degenerate race mixer? Well... It's not supposed to mean anything nice or wonderful. Because what they do isn't neither of those things.

Absolute horror what they're doing to the once beautiful West.

I'm sorry. But just because some mixed people don't look like Orcs. And just because I can't always know for sure what you'll want for your happiness. I'm damn sure I am in the right about this.

Being the natural and stable way of protecting society.

[7771999]

And don't worry. I don't hate mixed people. I have three mixed friends

[Razal]

You can always try.

[SueAnon84]

I came close to marrying one actually... but he had baggage in the form of a divorce and a child so that was hard for me!

[Razal]

Anyways good luck.

[SueAnon84]

He was ten years older than me so what could I have expected anyway. Thank you for your kind thoughts.