I always speak what’s on my mind. I was quick to say “that’s white people shit” Or “black folk don’t do that” I really don’t care if I offend you or not. He always understood and agreed with me.
But it helps that y'all are both black. Cause i def say “thats white people stuff” when around all black people. But i slipped up and said it around white people before and felt bad
My boyfriend is white, I’m black, and we were open on our first date. It was funny. We are still like that 5 months later. It depends on the person you’re with and the vibe they give off.
I didn't read past the N word subject but I'll say this: If you can say the N word then everyone else should be able to say it. That means you're a hypocrite. If you have to be careful about what you would normally say, don't get involved with someone that has a problem with it. Everyone needs to chill with the getting offended about everything and grow up.
No if i can say something from my culture than people not APART OF THAT culture should make sure we’re comfortable with them trying to make themself apart of our culture. And yes im referring to the black cultures word of N I G G A not the white cultures version of N I G G E R
Well, the N word is not nigga. The N word everyone refers to is n**. And that word was thrown onto your people by the white man so we have more of a right to say it then you. Especially if it bothers you to hear it, dont say it. Learn to use logic, not cultural biases.
In case you didn't read above... i clearly said the ER came from white culture and has a rude meaning. Black culture ends the word with an A. Different words have different meaning. Learn to Use logic and read above
I'm basically telling you if you don't like to hear a specific word from someone not in your culture, don't say it yourself. Stop being a damn hypocrite. That just shows how ignorant you and your culture are.
No if you're not from my culture then dont say the word.. that just shows how dumb they are and are likely to get beat tf up by someone whos not as nice as me to warn them
I'm just me when entering any relationship. I can't be anyone but me. I certainly don't discriminate when it comes to women. I'm just real with it in any case.
I wouldn't filter myself. My step dad is black and I don't filter myself around him, his favorite type of jokes are racist jokes even about black people.
I have dated a number of non-white girls and always have a great time. I don’t watch what I say because I do not say anything that would offend another race or color.
I am white and my wife is a Latina and we've been together for five years. A relationship couldn't work if we weren't comfortable with using slurs around each other. A healthy relationship doesn't exist if you're walking on eggshells all the time.
Okay, personal preference then. :-) I don't like those "white supremacy" people, they are racists, also when people say, that interracial kids look like a white-dotted chocolate or so. Very racism to say such things (which I don't).
@roland77 yeah you're the 1st one to actually say personal preference instead of racism. i once told a feminist the same thing on this site and she started pounding me with the so called fact that i was a racist.
I know of them and they sleep in my block list for a reason. ;-) And yes, love what you like. My girlfriend is black and I'm white and she only wants a man who is open with his emotions towards her. Most black men, according to her, are not like that. So she is no racist of not wanting a black man, but a white man in me.
Seems to me the problems u stated are only in your head and due to you bring sensitive or taking offense where its not due.. for ex. If u can say N word casually without meaning it... a nonblack can say too if he doesn't mean it.. and its you who has to trust him that he doesn't mean it. If you can't trust that. Im sorry that relationship isn't for u.
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Choice of wording is important in all relationships, especially in romantic relationships. Of course I filter for the company.
I agree
I don't really filter myself because nothing really comes to mind that I think would need filtering.
And same, I don't like being called chocolate either.
I dont think i ever knew you were black lol
I know. But I made a post about it not too long ago.
I always speak what’s on my mind. I was quick to say “that’s white people shit” Or “black folk don’t do that” I really don’t care if I offend you or not. He always understood and agreed with me.
But it helps that y'all are both black. Cause i def say “thats white people stuff” when around all black people. But i slipped up and said it around white people before and felt bad
My ex was white. I said that to him. He agreed and understood.
MIne looked at me crazy so yea i need to just date someone at least half black lmao
What is " white people shit "
Oh let me guess school shootings , sex with family members , and serial killings
Right?
I'm not offended just curious
@Gaming_dragon just go watch Scary Movie 1 and 2. They explain
How? I already saw them both
@Gaming_dragon
Letting your dog lick you on the mouth
Letting your dog or cat eat after you
Taking a bath with your pet
Having sex with your pet
Etc
Lmao 😂
I heard all of it except for the sex part
My boyfriend is white, I’m black, and we were open on our first date. It was funny. We are still like that 5 months later. It depends on the person you’re with and the vibe they give off.
Thats true
Hey, all love and luck to you both! I'm into a similar relationship, being white and she black.
I didn't read past the N word subject but I'll say this: If you can say the N word then everyone else should be able to say it. That means you're a hypocrite. If you have to be careful about what you would normally say, don't get involved with someone that has a problem with it. Everyone needs to chill with the getting offended about everything and grow up.
No if i can say something from my culture than people not APART OF THAT culture should make sure we’re comfortable with them trying to make themself apart of our culture. And yes im referring to the black cultures word of N I G G A not the white cultures version of N I G G E R
Well, the N word is not nigga. The N word everyone refers to is n**. And that word was thrown onto your people by the white man so we have more of a right to say it then you. Especially if it bothers you to hear it, dont say it. Learn to use logic, not cultural biases.
In case you didn't read above... i clearly said the ER came from white culture and has a rude meaning. Black culture ends the word with an A. Different words have different meaning. Learn to Use logic and read above
I'm basically telling you if you don't like to hear a specific word from someone not in your culture, don't say it yourself. Stop being a damn hypocrite. That just shows how ignorant you and your culture are.
No if you're not from my culture then dont say the word.. that just shows how dumb they are and are likely to get beat tf up by someone whos not as nice as me to warn them
How about snigglet? Not sure if y'all came up with that one or not.
Say it to the wrong one and they’ll let u know
With that answer you must not be the wrong one.
Like i said, im one of the ones who try to help people out before they approach someone who won't take to it so kindly
Snowflakes versus #MarrriedWithChildren for example?
@DizzyDesii I use words what black people are: black, African, Asian, ebony, Indian...
@roland77 black is enough for me. I ain't tryna hear all that other stuff
@DizzyDesii Thats okay. :-)
Voted B. I wouldn't need a filter coz to me she's just a woman, same as any woman of my own race; er race wouldn't be the defining feature.
I get it
boyfriend knows I’m black and I know he’s white. We wouldn’t walk on eggshells but if something inconsiderate came up we’d talk about it
That makes sense
All luck and love with your interracial relationship. :-)
I'm just me when entering any relationship. I can't be anyone but me. I certainly don't discriminate when it comes to women. I'm just real with it in any case.
Ahh i see
Be authentic. :-)
Indifference to someones race is the very opposite of racism though.
I wouldn't filter myself. My step dad is black and I don't filter myself around him, his favorite type of jokes are racist jokes even about black people.
Wow thats weird
I have dated a number of non-white girls and always have a great time. I don’t watch what I say because I do not say anything that would offend another race or color.
Thats smart
So I'm interracial, and I censor myself if I dont know you.
Yea thats how i do
I am what I am, not racists but not to conscientious about what I say just because I have never spoke ill of people
I am white and my wife is a Latina and we've been together for five years. A relationship couldn't work if we weren't comfortable with using slurs around each other. A healthy relationship doesn't exist if you're walking on eggshells all the time.
I wouldn't use slurs if in a interracial but thats me
no i would not get into an interracial relationships and i definitely would not filter my choice of words.
Baaed on which reasons, if I may ask?
@roland77 i'm just not attracted to black/asian girls, and on the filtering topic i never filter my words.
Okay, personal preference then. :-) I don't like those "white supremacy" people, they are racists, also when people say, that interracial kids look like a white-dotted chocolate or so. Very racism to say such things (which I don't).
@roland77 yeah you're the 1st one to actually say personal preference instead of racism.
i once told a feminist the same thing on this site and she started pounding me with the so called fact that i was a racist.
I know of them and they sleep in my block list for a reason. ;-) And yes, love what you like. My girlfriend is black and I'm white and she only wants a man who is open with his emotions towards her. Most black men, according to her, are not like that. So she is no racist of not wanting a black man, but a white man in me.
And you might got hit by a #feminazi the extreme men-hating lesbians here.
@roland77 they exist yeah, and yes love who you love as long as you're happy with them it ain't my problem y'know.
Thanks and welcome. :-)
Probably A: I'm not afraid of it but careful due to potential cultural or religious differences.
I date without regards to melanin-content and am not careful because I simply do not use racial questionable terminology.
I'm all for interracial dating. I wouldn't edit what I say but I don't really say anything for anyone to look at me sideways.
At most I do say fuck and motherfucker a lot 😂
Seems to me the problems u stated are only in your head and due to you bring sensitive or taking offense where its not due.. for ex. If u can say N word casually without meaning it... a nonblack can say too if he doesn't mean it.. and its you who has to trust him that he doesn't mean it. If you can't trust that. Im sorry that relationship isn't for u.
Its not for me and he shouldn't say it if he isn't black. Yea we shouldn't say it but he should know better than to even consider
I’ve already had interracial relationships but never had to watch how I talk because I never talked like that anyway
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