What do you think about the trap questions girls are asking their boyfriends that are in trend now? Would you have passed the test?

[emmily2396]

I mean this question:

Would you have passed it. What should the girl do if he didn't pass the question?

[loveslongnails]

First thing I read into it was "wait, am I paying $200 / $700, or am I getting that for my kiss? LOL

Ok, option 1) I would say "you don't need to pay me to kiss you. Why don't you tell me who YOU think is the hottest girl YOU know, and YOU kiss her and get us $700 to spend"

Option 2) My girl "knows" she' not "THE HOTTEST girl out there that I know", so she'd never ask that because she doesn't care. LOL. But if I could make $700 by kissing that girl, she'd say "Go for it, we could use the money". And I'd say the same in reverse !!

[emmily2396]

Beauty is subjective and being in love with someone makes them more beautiful in your eyes. I don't find most people that attractive when I meet them unless they truly are like out of the ordinary beautiful, but most become way better looking if i get to enjoy their personality. So the trap wasn't if you would believe she was the hottest if you met her yesterday, but if you love her. So any other answer would either imply you don't love her that much or she is so ugly to. you that not even love can blind you into thinking she is hot

[loveslongnails]

Obviously it's a trap, but my point is you don't have to take the bait, because it's a dumb and manipulative test ! The other thing I might do is intentionally "fail" it and say " I'll take the $700" and then watch what happens. LOL

[emmily2396]

I don't recommend. persnally if the person i am dating doesn't think i am one of the most beautiful then he doesn't deserve to be the one i am dating.

[loveslongnails]

Taking the $700 doesn't mean I don't think my girlfriend isn't "ONE OF the most beautiful" to me. "Hot" and "beautiful" are not the same thing, but rather than get into semantics, we haven't mentioned how sad it is to use that trap in anything but a completely playful way. If a girl NEEDS to fish for compliments and reassurance in that manner, something's not right, either with her, him or their relationship. That trap is just a new version of saying "mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?" I have a much different relationship with my girlfriend. If she tried to tell me I'm the hottest guy around, I'd laugh, and vice versa. But if she said "I think you're handsome, and you're the guy for me", which she does, that's all I need. If I tried telling her SHE was the hottest thing around, she'd laugh too. But when I tell her "I think you're beautiful, inside and out, and you're the girl for me", that's all she needs.

[emmily2396]

I thnk you didn't pay attention to what i said earlier. I said if you love someone they atuomatically become more attractive. She doesn't have to be the hottest girl for you to think she is.

[loveslongnails]

I read that, and its understandably true. But as I explained, not wanting to get into semantics, "hot" and "beautiful... because you love someone", are two different things, at least to me, and to my girlfriend as well. And this whole trap thing just sort of typifies what I see a lot on here, especially from teens and young girls. The idea that if your boyfriend can dare to even "think" another girl is hot means he's betraying you, or he love you "less". It's nothing but insecurity. Seems like too often I'm explaining to girls that just because he's your boyfriend, and does indeed love you and want ONLY you, means he goes blind. Guys don't stop thinking a girl is hot just because he loves YOU, he just (hopefully) stops doing anything about it ! Even if your guy give you the "right" answer in this trap, it doesn't mean he thinks no other hot girls exist in the world anymore. Women who believe their guy does that are living in a bubble.

[loveslongnails]

* pardon the typos in "loves" and "gives"

[emmily2396]

This wasn't about liking other girls, but about liking you more than anyone else because he loves you...

[Phoenix98]

I think it's pointless and immature to go out of your way to test your partner. And no I'm not saying trust them blindly but doing that isn't the answer.

[pizzalovershouse]

That the guy should know better to not lie a just say it's about how much I card for you an wouldn't kiss the girl

[Anonymous]

I do not date girls who are that insecure, so this question does not apply to me anyway.

[emmily2396]

Testing people now and then isn't insecure, but the opposite. You should appreciate yourself enough not to give your trust blindly to anyone.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not testing... it's asking for reassurance and it's driven purely by insecurity.

[emmily2396]

It is testing if you understand the meaning of it. If you are in love with someone then to you they become more attractive than at first. So if in this test you didn't say she is the most beautiful, then you didn't find her that attractive to begin with or you don't love her that much. This isn't like those girls thinking they are fat and asking you if they look fa. there you can't answer right because if you say no she will say you are lying to make her feel better, if you say yes she will feel insulted.

[Liam_Hayden]

I think that this type of sh*t test is for a teen, not me, and I'd dump her.

[TheHonestBlock]

I think some people have trust issues.

[emmily2396]

I wouldn't call them trust issues unless they did it constantly. Trust shouldn't be granted for no reason, you should test people from time to time to see if they are still worthy of your trust.

[TheHonestBlock]

I wouldn't call it "testing", it's actual what most people would refer to as bonding. It's a really cheap way to know if somebody still has feelings for you, that is my answer.

[hellacray]

This is really dumb...

[scooogy]

Why should he even answer this?

[potatoiswhoiam]

Cringe and pointless

[itsmyownname]

It's stupid.

[COMMODOREII]

I'd want my money.