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Does sex on the first date ruin the chances of having a relationship? Why or why not? (Page 2)
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Yeah, that's pretty much pump-n-dump material since she could have sex with 100s of men before me on the first date too.
Unless of course we have known each other for a longer period of time but that is rather unlikely the case.
Sex on a first date will ruin the relationship if you dont have an emotional connection. Honestly, the best way to start a relationship is just go into it with no intent on sex and just be friends. That's how I met my wife.
Make them wait. If you give it up too soon, he has no reason to stick around and get to know you as a person. Im 21 but I've had a lot of experience. No matter what guys say on here. The chase is more fun
Depends on the specific alignment of insecurities between the two. For me, personally, sex on the first date is likely to make me much more open to the possibility of dating.
I'd rather know from the start if we're sexually compatible or not. Odds are high that I won't get on with the sexually conservative types who think you should avoid sex on a first date, anyway.
What if she's a virgin? How can she be great at sex since she's unexperienced?
They don't need to be great in bed, just open minded.
And I wouldn't sleep with a virgin.
If someone genuinely wants to be in a relationship with you, having sex or no sex on a first date would deter them.
I don't expect it or anything, but if it happens on the first date it doesn't really mean anything to me. I certainly don't lose interest in seeing her further or having a relationship or anything.
In my experience it does but that also may just have been the guys I choose to be around. I dunno, anything's possible.
I don't have sex on the first date, but if she tries to have sex on the first date I just assume that is how she always behaves. I outgrew the "screw every girl in sight" phase about four years ago and want something that is far more than physical.
Girls who have sex that fast are hos.
Hos are not for serious relationships.
Then y'all wonder why he doesn't call you back, dumps you after a few weeks, or just accepts you for a dead end relationship he doesn't really give a fuck about.
What about guys that have sex that fast?
@annabananna you're a girl. You tell me. Men get to set the standards for women and women get to set the standards for men. And surprise they aren't the same!
Most women seem to prefer men who are sexually experienced and/or not penalize them much for being promiscuous providing they check all her other boxes for what she's looking for.
It seems to have a greater impact on how the woman feels than how the man feels. I could be wrong about that, but I haven't ever heard of a guy who was emotionally interested in a woman, losing interest in her after having sex.
no it does not ruin your chances relationship I had sex with this girl on the first date and we went up for a year and 3 months I lost her to an auto accident she was beautiful and I fell in love with her so no it doesn't hurt your chances
It depends. Honestly it can if the guy's only looking to get physical with you.
Yeah
usually guys who want sex that soon
you are a booty call to them
It doesn't it all depends on the vibe between you two, how long you know eachother
I am an old fashioned guy that thinks sex isn't like scratching an itch.
I don't think it does as a strict rule, no. But I'm also fairly certain that it doesn't help.
For me it would just shows me how insecure you are about your body and how easy you are being a slut. How many other men did you jump in bed with on the first date?
I think that’s what it comes down to. You would question how many others have been with her.
@Giselleasset that's why I would not touch her.
Agreed. If a woman offers it or says yes the first time she meets someone new, she has nothing else to connect but her body.
It can depend on how the date went, there may be other dates and a relationship may begin as well as they may never talk to each other again (and everything in between like becoming sex friends or just friends etc)
personality and attitude effect how long as relationship will last.