Is it screwed up that my boyfriend says I do nothing for him, when I've been trying my best to treat him while taking care of my child?

[Anonymous]

by the way, My child is not his blood child

My boyfriend says, I have done nothing for him for as long as we have been dating. Totally not true.. I take him out when I can, spend time with him when I can, cook for him when I can and I even gave him money. Its hard enough being a young single mom. I am juggling a full time job, a boyfriend, and my child who I love so much and already give my everything too. For my boyfriend I feel like i will never be enough. I feel constant pressure all the time. I am grateful when he cooks for me on occasion. I ask to help and he says no, I give back by cleaning the kitchen. Now, I hate it when he does things for me.. when he offers he seems so happy too and I say no but then he insists..

[jennifer_bloom]

You are doing a little bit for your boyfriend and that is all he can expect from you if your busy with work and kids - your not doing a lot

[G3tAClue]

I don’t know the whole story but I think he just doesn’t know what it’s like to be a parent. Try explaining to him that your kid is your priority. If he can’t understand that you have a lot on your plate, maybe he isn’t the right guy for you.

[Myk13]

in my opinion, it sounds more like you’re juggling a full time job and two children at home.