Why do guys insult you after you reject them?

[Anonymous]

honestly this guy I was talking to pursued me hard even though I barely relied to his texts, he finally asked me out and I said “I’m not really thinking we’d get along well in person, I seen this texting stuff as more of a friendship” and he asked me why... I said it’s just how it is he then calls me a racist bc he’s black and I rejected him
i then ask him to stop texting me as I’m just not looking to date. then he said “You ugly bitch remember what colour you are you racist and then also fix your makeup and lose weight “
coming for my weight was a shocker I’m literally 5’6.5 and 126lbs he’s acting like I’m a whale

[apollo3000]

(Some) women do just the same - god forbid she starts to like you and you don't make a move - phew

The thing is, if the feeling was there, and you decide against it, it invalidates their core being - not looking to date is a disaster for someone who likes you - it could mean you won't get a child, and none of us, in the end, want to lose a person from this earth before they left a little one behind them (hopefully fully grown and educated and having its/their own child as well - we are just wired that way)

In boomer youth dating left/right/centre was encouraged, then they kind of monopolised it, so now for the younger folk all of a sudden there's no incentive to give birth, and those 'young' are not that young any longer so it's getting critical

[OlderAndWiser]

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. . . except possibly for a man scorned!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Because some people can't handle rejection the "ego" thing... So you bruised, hurt their "ego", so they'll take a jab at your Self-esteem... But that only works if you let it? Are you any of those things, he said? No, then who gives af, that only shows you a person like that wouldn't even make a good friend much less someone you'd want to be in a relationship with.

[Anonymous]

This happened once to me too. He told me “you don’t have any boobs anyway”. Men or women like that should be avoided. They are taking out their anger and insecurity on you.

[AliceTheNguyener]

Lol lol he thinks you are cute, asks you out, gets rejected, and then suddenly calls you a racist whale 🥱 smh he is irrelevant. He feels miserable because he got rejected and is trying to make himself feel better by degrading you. Best to avoid men with undeserved pride and inflated ego.

[Bhavin2184]

The guy was insecure and stupid..
Good decision..

[Nephilim000]

Well they are weak. They lash out because you are threatening their delusion of now awesome they are.

[COMMODOREII]

He was insecure and didn't like the rejection that is for sure. Damn lol

[AlwaysBelieving]

Because they need to grow up and realize that not every gal they ask will be attracted to them.

[4eyes2mouths]

Lol boys don't take rejection easily. You hurt his feelings lmao. Don't worry about it.

[Chris2769]

Don’t take it serious! He is insecure! Move on you deserve better✌🏻

[Jakeofalltrades93]

if it was him genuinely wanting a relationship with you it might be out of hurt. but if not than he could be trying to lower your self esteem so you would say yes

[Anonymous]

it’s quite literally for the same reason that girls attack a dude who rejects them, and go after his dick size or calling him pathetic or some other negative takedown.

[JSmith925]

Insecurity.
~JSmith

[Dchrls78104]

Because the rejection bruised their ego.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That's just being selfish, nothing more

[Gedaria]

It's a way of making themselves feel better...

[Gripper1970]

They have low self esteem.

[OddBeMe]

Immaturity.

[asshole_]

why do you think

[Anonymous]

Loser atitude.