How picky are you to avoid dating a person because their past is a dealbreaker? (Page 3)
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I don't just look at their past, I also look at what they are currently doing to separate themselves from said past. the sum of the two says a lot.
I wouldn't call that picky, it's just having standards. Someone who has no standards or expectations for their partner just screams that they have no self-esteem, and doesn't think they deserve any better.
Let's agree to disagree. It may not be that they have low self-esteem bit more so that they see something in this person and may think they can change them hence love. When you truly love someone not just say it or date but, actually love them you can overlook quite a lot because you believe in them or see things others may not.
Your past matters, because it was your present when you did it.
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I don't think the past is a big factor for me. As long as they're clean, I don't have an issue.
i don't like tatoos either so that can be a dealbreaker but # of sexual partners is a tough thing to justify dumping someone over... i mean it would have to be really high and even then only because it highlights other potential problems
No, I get your point. Past behaviour doesn't always prove a perfect indicator of future behaviour, but it is often pretty accurate.
Frankly as long as she has stop being something negative in her past, then her present is all that matters
I'm kinda lost you didn't like his tattoos or his attitude or whatever
I guess I'll never know lop
Lol serious. Tattoos and had sex with five? Having had sex with five isn’t a lot. Dating for you i gonna be very difficult.
Nah, you’d be surprised at some of the great guys I meet. I don’t have a problem with dating. I’m just picky and he’s not one who would have been involved in my dating life.
I’m very picky if they have a shady past and have been with a lot of man I’m not gonna waste a minute on her
Yes, but I have a lot of mercy if they have changed, healed from the past, and dealt with the ramifications.
It is still important though
Falsely accusing me? Yeah, especially if I felt like we had a higher level of trust already. It would make me distrust her more as well.
Also, regarding the body count, I actually prefer a virgin. I don't insist on it, but it's my preference
I totally agree with you, there are certain things which can't be ignored from a person's past and there is no gurantee that they won't turn to it in future, so best thing is to dont date them
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I get your point. I never faced such situations, but it's alright to be picky when selecting a life partner. So I don't think you should change your view
Well you just have to find someone who matches you... That's all... I personally think it's silly to judge someones past... But to each their own
I think your reasoning was fine but i do wonder how was your past
Quite very. We shouldn't judge others but someones past can say a lot about that person. Let's be honest most people are bound to repeat their same mistakes.
I don't really care to be honest. Unless she has a past of cheating etc
I'm the same. I wouldn't want a girlfriend that slept around then suddenly settling with me. Pretty emasculating on my part lmao
Awe id expect that from ya being so sweet n innocent a lady.
I like honest stuff if I feel like there is too much lies