Am I shallow for thinking that I am out of his league? (Page 3)
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Become friends.
This is what most girls do when they accidentally meet nice guys but don't want relationship.
His heart won't break.
He will just stop wasting his time on u.
A. k. a. You just aren't attracted to him.
That doesn't make you better than him at all.
I say you're shallow and hope the guy dodges you like Neo from the matrix. 🤣
When it comes down to it you're both wasting your time.
Farther it goes , the more difficult it will become. You should tell him this is friends only situation. So he knows that early on.
I would prefer it if the girl simply told me that. Though not every man is going to be comfortable with rejection.
Don't be that girl who in fear of hurting his feelings strings him along , cuz in the end it will be worse and you both will be hurt much more. Be straight and real. Tell him you enjoy his personality and like talking but your not attracted to him. Trust me that's the best thing to do.
Just tell him sorry you're not interested. He'd be grateful for your honesty before he invest more into this venture.
Do what he said madam
You could have left it at the part where it said you aren't attracted to him. Thats reason enough for not pursuing a relationship. I can't really say what Im thinking, despite it being a neutral comment, without sounding snide Im afraid.
You should forget about this nice guy and just find a pretty boy who will abandon you the first chance he gets, the same way you would do to him.
Just live that best life and wind up 35 and single with no kids, or a couple of kids and no Daddy, lol.
Lame.
I'm serious, people who choose their partners based on looks always get blindsided by the fact that a pretty face can hide an evil nature.
I don't think so, but why not make an effort and find out? You are selling yourself short if you don't try.
Maybe you are out of his league. But it also could be possible that he is more attractive than you think. Why don't you just meet him and find out?
No. You can't force attraction. But you are wrong for continuing to talk to him for this long. Let him down easy.
Just tell him you met someone else. It is just impersonal text to this point anyway.
If your out of his league why bother talking to him in the first place? Maybe your not after all. There's something in him that is attracted to you after all.
Not your not shallow. But i do wonder, how come you dont want to be with a guy who is like that? I thought women want to best man they can get? If he's in a higher league, shouldn't you be attracted to him?
No she thinks she's the higher league.
Oh i read it wrong
Why would you swipe right on a guy that you're not attracted to in the first place? There must've been something that made you start talking to him.
His profile pic was really funny and I was curious about how he edited it
And at what point did you know you didn't want anything to do with him?
Well that statement simply isn’t true. I like him as a person. I don’t want to “get rid of him” that would be savage and definitely “shallow”. Once we started talking more and more, he mentioned that he started catching feelings for me... that is when I kind of got a turn off because he haven’t met in person yet..
So you got turned off because he professed feelings before you had them for him? That honestly sounds like a "you" problem and might point to self-image problems or a desire for guys who are less emotionally availble. Perhaps you should meet in person then to see if anything is actually there before making a decision about him.
Just leave him now, don't let him get attached to you any further
Here we go again.
Not any of my business, but that is not what she is saying. She didn't talk about money at all. In fact she said he liked him. She wants to be sexually attracted to him. But that is something no one can control.
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I know right?
When there's no attraction, there's not gonna be any long term purpose.
True. It's sad but that's how it works.
You are anonymous and ask this question
Man people on GaG are a bunch of fucking idiots for giving this question waaayyy too much attention
Frankly yes
My exes were far out of my league... why they chose me shall remain a mystery that I could ask about but won't
If you are not attracted then bail, don't drag him on. He will catch feelings if you keep on. Then it becomes cruel. Just be honest with him clean cut and all will be good.