My partner always makes comments about women on TV. When he does this he looks over, and continues to go on about their appearance and speculate things about them.
I find it uncomfortable, ok a few innocent comments is fine. But he takes it a step further when he spends 15 minutes going on about the person and making judgmental comments or sexual comments about them.
I've told him I find it awkward and even asked him why.
He said he's joking and that he likes how jealous I get.
But, the thing is. I'm never insecure about myself but since he began doing that, I kinda sit there listening to his comments and think wow, I wonder how you look at me.
He literally says things about their teeth, body image etc etc. Some good an others bad. But the negative comments make him sound like a di**.
It's so off putting that I think he's shallow and superficial. It genuinely makes me feel unattracted to him and want to pull away emotionally.
Like when it comes to thinking about having sex with him, I'm then there thinking, I wonder what things he's thinking in his head.
He's very open and blurts his honest thoughts an opinions out to me when we chat about things. But the flip side to this, is that I genuinely worry he doesn't find me attractive or he lies about it to me
Also bringing up stories of his ex, ones I've already heard and repeating them anyway. It's annoying
What do I do?
I find it uncomfortable, ok a few innocent comments is fine. But he takes it a step further when he spends 15 minutes going on about the person and making judgmental comments or sexual comments about them.
I've told him I find it awkward and even asked him why.
He said he's joking and that he likes how jealous I get.
But, the thing is. I'm never insecure about myself but since he began doing that, I kinda sit there listening to his comments and think wow, I wonder how you look at me.
He literally says things about their teeth, body image etc etc. Some good an others bad. But the negative comments make him sound like a di**.
It's so off putting that I think he's shallow and superficial. It genuinely makes me feel unattracted to him and want to pull away emotionally.
Like when it comes to thinking about having sex with him, I'm then there thinking, I wonder what things he's thinking in his head.
He's very open and blurts his honest thoughts an opinions out to me when we chat about things. But the flip side to this, is that I genuinely worry he doesn't find me attractive or he lies about it to me
Also bringing up stories of his ex, ones I've already heard and repeating them anyway. It's annoying
What do I do?
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Tell him that "what you are interpreting as jealousy is disgust for the way you disregard my feelings and your general disrespect or women... especially this one."
yeah I would have a serious talk with him about it and really stress the impact of it and if he doesn’t at least try to understand my feelings I’d probably break up with him