Dating apps are full of men, women pick the best out of those men, they're technically unfair and extremely shallow, that's why you feel something is off, just know that each female gets at least 10 matches a day while you might get 0 matches in a week
Depends on gender. For women, often, it's a funnel of interest & attention by default. For men it's being put in a pile with hundreds of other men fighting for attention.
I use dating apps, but I don't enjoy it. It's more like a chore. I only check in every once in a while. It's a depressing experience. It's not something at the top of my list when I wake up every morning. It's not fun.
Yes it is, and only people that lack self confident use dating apps. A person that is confident goes outside and finds partner in the real world. And lastly people that use dating apps are introverts.
I tried tinder, but most people I matched with were only looking for validation. Hence I would not recommend it if you looking to build something real with someone.
If you’re average or ugly yes. It says hey, nobody will touch me in real life. Attractive people just get bombarded with sexual requests regardless of the social environment, just people are more free spoken over the apps
in my opinion no not all all its helpful for the people who want to cut the bullshit of wasting time on dates when we both know what that's really for. Like I'm on there to get some head and the dude is probably too so why not get right to it.
No, it's not. We're at a transitional phase. Finding people the traditional way will still be a thing, but online dating apps will soon be very common and normal, if they aren't already.
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Dating apps are full of men, women pick the best out of those men, they're technically unfair and extremely shallow, that's why you feel something is off, just know that each female gets at least 10 matches a day while you might get 0 matches in a week
Depends on gender. For women, often, it's a funnel of interest & attention by default. For men it's being put in a pile with hundreds of other men fighting for attention.
Biggest waste of time honestly, there is no communication and its more of people trying to scam you than actually people looking for a relationship
I use dating apps, but I don't enjoy it. It's more like a chore. I only check in every once in a while. It's a depressing experience. It's not something at the top of my list when I wake up every morning. It's not fun.
Yes it is, and only people that lack self confident use dating apps.
A person that is confident goes outside and finds partner in the real world.
And lastly people that use dating apps are introverts.
Dating apps heavily shifts the balance of power (BOP) in the sexual market place towards women. So for the vast majority of men, it's a waste of time.
No. Even people in relationships use dating sites. So it's probably a time pass for non singles
There's nothing wrong with using dating apps but it can be slightly deflating at times so I wouldn't recommend them for anyone with low self esteem.
Even with high self esteem it can be a downer on them
Or for those who have a Y chromosome.
@Gman5345 Agreed, I've lost count of how many times I've deactivated my accounts because I've reached my limit.
I used to think so, but I changed my opinion on that after a while. Really, it's just another means of meeting someone.
I tried tinder, but most people I matched with were only looking for validation.
Hence I would not recommend it if you looking to build something real with someone.
Not really, though your chances of finding a meaningful relationship are pretty slim especially on the larger apps and sites.
If you’re average or ugly yes. It says hey, nobody will touch me in real life. Attractive people just get bombarded with sexual requests regardless of the social environment, just people are more free spoken over the apps
No it isn't desperate. It is basically the same as picking someone up from a bar, club, or blind date and you would know what everyone is there for
Met my one only serious relationship on tinder. It works, you just got to know what you want and not just look for the “fun” person.
look at some of the attention whore women on dating apps and then tell me they're desperate.
in my opinion no not all all its helpful for the people who want to cut the bullshit of wasting time on dates when we both know what that's really for. Like I'm on there to get some head and the dude is probably too so why not get right to it.
At the very least it’s a sign of impatience or lack of time.
i think its not being desperate its just wanting love but like it depends
No, it's not. We're at a transitional phase. Finding people the traditional way will still be a thing, but online dating apps will soon be very common and normal, if they aren't already.
At your age, it’s still easy to meet people in person, so you don’t need to use them