Nobody is independent we are living on eachother's services. I'm dependent on grocery stores, on manufacturers of all sort of products, on my hairdresser, on my mobile phone network supplier. On the guys who make electricity running. I'm scared of someone who is ignorant enough to call herself independent in such an interdependent society.
Afraid... And new? ... My whole dating career consisted of showing girls like that they will die old and alone unless you count the 9 cats Nothing like breaking in a new colt but it will break eventually. Unscrew that strap on some time and allow yourself to be swept off your feet. You might even like it😘
There is a fine line between the person who can handle themselves but lets other people help when they need to and the ones (like me) who have a very hard time trusting anyone enough so the "I can handle myself" is a coping and defensive mechanism because for a large part of their lives they haven't had the luxury of being able to rely on other people
Scared? No. But I imagine some guys just aren't attracted to that type of woman. Not being attracted doesn't equal scared or intimidated, despite the shaming tactics of a lot of people.
There is no such thing as a strong/independent woman... just entitled spoiled narcissistic children that society has coddled and removed any and all responsibility, accountability, and obstacles for to allow them the false belief that they are strong and independent.
The only reason they believe they can do everything themselves is because men build, maintain, and advance society, do all the shit jobs, and die for their safety and comfort.
Fear isn't the reason. The reason is they don't want every day in the relationship to be a power struggle. The "I can do everything myself" sounds like those stories we hear every now and then about people being yelled at by so called strong independent women just for holding the door open for them and that kind of person doesn't even sound like a good roommate.
If by that you mean self-centered women who think they're better than everyone else because they "rose to greatness in a male-biased society" so they aim to have their revenge by being basic karen bitches and showing the whole world and literally everyone how "great, brave, and hard-working" they are
No we're scared of women who ACT independent and strong willed and then the moment things go south they pull the "I'm a woman" and victim hood card. Cause deep down they know society is bias towards them and God forbid they don't abuse that fact to high heaven.
No, not at all. It's more on the lines of why date a girl who's going to always remind you that you're completely expendable and replaceable because she's independent and doesn't need you. Why would any guy date a female like that?
Every "independent female" I personally know, has that exact mentality and they love to show off that side of themselves and then blame men for them being single and here's the kicker, every single one of them I know, is single.
No. It's because relationships simply don't work now days. Usually men have a lot more to lose at the end of a relationship so it's not worth the risk to me. Picture it like this, now this is just a guess but I'd say only about 20% relationships actually last. Now if you were about to go skydiving and there was a 80% chance that your parachute won't open, would you jump out of the plane?
Scared? No. Just annoyed by the current state of mind of women considering men as inferior and replaceable. Women who will date you while reminding you constantly that they can and will throw you away anytime, or cheat on you because they're "free" to do whatever they want and you don't have a say on it.
No. These are just self proclaimed strong women, not much different than self proclaimed nice guys that believe their niceness (and not their narcissism and entitlement) is what drives women away.
Strong women dont feel the need to let everyone know they're strong.
I wouldn’t say scared at all some women are disrespectful in the essence of how they come off initially with being “ independent “ but then again a man is still a human being and he has to feel needed just as if the roles were reversed.
the problem is that nowadays an ''independent woman'' is a condescending brat, thats not even that much independent tbh, often latches on to other people treating them like slaves, till this day i only met one girl that was the so called ''real independent woman'', cause she was not condescending, but had that vibe of '' im here'' even without saying any word, everyone would allways listen to what she had to say without her even asking them to, and in return, she was polite with everyone
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Nobody is independent we are living on eachother's services. I'm dependent on grocery stores, on manufacturers of all sort of products, on my hairdresser, on my mobile phone network supplier. On the guys who make electricity running. I'm scared of someone who is ignorant enough to call herself independent in such an interdependent society.
dude... that's exactly the description of my dream woman xD
You know I thought of you when I posted it.
hehe :D yeah cause you know i'm not a fan of women that expect men to pay for their date. those are notthe women that are like this.
Afraid... And new? ... My whole dating career consisted of showing girls like that they will die old and alone unless you count the 9 cats
Nothing like breaking in a new colt but it will break eventually. Unscrew that strap on some time and allow yourself to be swept off your feet. You might even like it😘
There is a fine line between the person who can handle themselves but lets other people help when they need to and the ones (like me) who have a very hard time trusting anyone enough so the "I can handle myself" is a coping and defensive mechanism because for a large part of their lives they haven't had the luxury of being able to rely on other people
Why would a man want a woman with an attitude like that? Sounds like feminism. Yuck.
Scared? No. But I imagine some guys just aren't attracted to that type of woman. Not being attracted doesn't equal scared or intimidated, despite the shaming tactics of a lot of people.
There is no such thing as a strong/independent woman... just entitled spoiled narcissistic children that society has coddled and removed any and all responsibility, accountability, and obstacles for to allow them the false belief that they are strong and independent.
The only reason they believe they can do everything themselves is because men build, maintain, and advance society, do all the shit jobs, and die for their safety and comfort.
Fear isn't the reason. The reason is they don't want every day in the relationship to be a power struggle. The "I can do everything myself" sounds like those stories we hear every now and then about people being yelled at by so called strong independent women just for holding the door open for them and that kind of person doesn't even sound like a good roommate.
If by that you mean self-centered women who think they're better than everyone else because they "rose to greatness in a male-biased society" so they aim to have their revenge by being basic karen bitches and showing the whole world and literally everyone how "great, brave, and hard-working" they are
Yeah they can fuck right off lmao
And i wouldn't say scared, just repulsed, ew
No we're scared of women who ACT independent and strong willed and then the moment things go south they pull the "I'm a woman" and victim hood card. Cause deep down they know society is bias towards them and God forbid they don't abuse that fact to high heaven.
I think men want women that are capable of being nurturing and of love.
Independence is obviously a good thing. Being harsh, domineering, trying to proclaim all the time and prove a point is not.
I bet they're only avoiding women that got an attitude. We can be independent and capable and not be super pretentious about it.
No, not at all. It's more on the lines of why date a girl who's going to always remind you that you're completely expendable and replaceable because she's independent and doesn't need you. Why would any guy date a female like that?
Every "independent female" I personally know, has that exact mentality and they love to show off that side of themselves and then blame men for them being single and here's the kicker, every single one of them I know, is single.
No. It's because relationships simply don't work now days. Usually men have a lot more to lose at the end of a relationship so it's not worth the risk to me. Picture it like this, now this is just a guess but I'd say only about 20% relationships actually last. Now if you were about to go skydiving and there was a 80% chance that your parachute won't open, would you jump out of the plane?
Scared? No. Just annoyed by the current state of mind of women considering men as inferior and replaceable. Women who will date you while reminding you constantly that they can and will throw you away anytime, or cheat on you because they're "free" to do whatever they want and you don't have a say on it.
No. These are just self proclaimed strong women, not much different than self proclaimed nice guys that believe their niceness (and not their narcissism and entitlement) is what drives women away.
Strong women dont feel the need to let everyone know they're strong.
I wouldn’t say scared at all some women are disrespectful in the essence of how they come off initially with being “ independent “ but then again a man is still a human being and he has to feel needed just as if the roles were reversed.
the problem is that nowadays an ''independent woman'' is a condescending brat, thats not even that much independent tbh, often latches on to other people treating them like slaves, till this day i only met one girl that was the so called ''real independent woman'', cause she was not condescending, but had that vibe of '' im here'' even without saying any word, everyone would allways listen to what she had to say without her even asking them to, and in return, she was polite with everyone
Any woman that inspires me is always worth it, really... Those among them who keep their head and heart in a good place even more so, really.
There is something alarming about a grown adult having to proclaim how they can ''do everything by themself!''
Yeah like... no shit? You're expected to...