Hmmm. It is flattering to say what's past is past. But the past is also the foundation of today. Sorry but I've got enough of my owb problems. So, I'm out.
I wouldn't. I don't need someone with mental health issues. Non-self-harming girls have enough.
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Not everyone with scars have mental health issues... I don’t. I had a rough few years but im 100% fine now > just embarrassed about the scar that’s stuck in my arm for life now. But I get what you’re saying
@joeldalton you should read up about mental health because I don’t think you understand how it works > mental health can change over time depending on circumstances , just because someone had depression once doesn’t mean they will be depressed forever.
Of course I would, I used to cut as well and it developed into me carving writing on myself
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Do you still cut? Or have you stopped now? Lots of people seem to have this misconception that people that cut or mentally unstable and will be for life. They don’t understand that cutting doesn’t mean you’re mentally unstable at all > it means you’re struggling and if you have scars it means your struggled
Not nearly as bad as my surgery scars. If I may ask, what was the reason for your self harm?
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Verbal and psychological abuse from my mom. I’ve been called things I wouldn’t even call my dog , I’ve been told I’m pathetic and that I won’t succeed in life. I’ve been told I’m a nothing and that she’s cutting herself out of my picture ~ she doesn’t want to be associated with me all because I took one of her shirts once (which all girls do apparently) . It was just a very toxic environment and I started believing the things she was saying , that I’m pathetic and ugly. But when I turned 18 I left and from there worked on building myself up as a person again.
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Hmmm. It is flattering to say what's past is past. But the past is also the foundation of today. Sorry but I've got enough of my owb problems. So, I'm out.
Yes. Girlies are and have been into cutting since before my aging ass was born.
I wouldn't. I don't need someone with mental health issues. Non-self-harming girls have enough.
Not everyone with scars have mental health issues... I don’t. I had a rough few years but im 100% fine now > just embarrassed about the scar that’s stuck in my arm for life now. But I get what you’re saying
No one who is mentally stable cuts themselves. Sorry.
Wow you are quite stupid @joeldalton , you don't know anything about psychology.
@lanadelrey25 lmao.
yeah bc it's so funny. Are you 5?
@joeldalton you should read up about mental health because I don’t think you understand how it works > mental health can change over time depending on circumstances , just because someone had depression once doesn’t mean they will be depressed forever.
exactly
Of course I would, I used to cut as well and it developed into me carving writing on myself
Do you still cut? Or have you stopped now? Lots of people seem to have this misconception that people that cut or mentally unstable and will be for life. They don’t understand that cutting doesn’t mean you’re mentally unstable at all > it means you’re struggling and if you have scars it means your struggled
I stopped years ago
That's good 🤗I'm glad that you're in a better space
I did, bitch ruined my psyche for a really long time. Avoid psychopaths my dudes, no matter how good they look, just walk the other way.
Not nearly as bad as my surgery scars. If I may ask, what was the reason for your self harm?
Verbal and psychological abuse from my mom. I’ve been called things I wouldn’t even call my dog , I’ve been told I’m pathetic and that I won’t succeed in life. I’ve been told I’m a nothing and that she’s cutting herself out of my picture ~ she doesn’t want to be associated with me all because I took one of her shirts once (which all girls do apparently) . It was just a very toxic environment and I started believing the things she was saying , that I’m pathetic and ugly. But when I turned 18 I left and from there worked on building myself up as a person again.
I have toxic parents too. Prob not as bad. But I’m glad you’re feeling better. “Living well is the best revenge.”
I agree x sucks about your parents, I feel like some parents shouldn't be parents
Past is past. What I should do is making her to not to do those again.
Can i follow you?
I'd give her a chance but be very weary.
I just wanted to see votes their was no other
Yes, it is in the past.
So no razor blades for her birthday
Yes we can talk about are struggles
Of course I would.
Yeah
Why would you?
What @tae_ie said
No I think not
Why not?
Been there and done that before with a leg cutter all the highs and lows for years. But I’m soft knowing me I always give everybody a chance
Everyone deserves a chance x
Yes course and you
will get that chance and you deserve it 😊
nope
No thanks
Damaged goods.
Not for me
Noooooope.