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Yeah, I don't care who she was with before me.
Date her for sex, yes. Have a serious future with her, no.
So u like using people 🤡
@Asker "using" in a sense of giving false hope perhaps. But "using" for sex is not him using them, because there is conscent. But since you didn't like the sound of Kraken's comment, well that's what a lot of men have to deal with. Getting used. And not even for sex that is.
@TruthBringer it’s still using them for sex. That’s fucked up. Using anyone no matter what for is wrong. And those people will either pay for the evil they do in this world or the next
@Asker as I said, if he is giving false hope, then you can see that as using on a moral sense, not a physical (because otherwise that would be rape).
Asker. I like sex. The fact that she has a high body count was a choice she made.
Asker. You seem upset about the idea of using people for sex BUT does not a "high body count" woman regularly use men for sex?
Also, why do you think your pussy is so golden and magical? If you are "high body count" you have knowingly depreciated your pussy's market value. Don't hate the messenger.
@KrakenAttackin Nailed it!
Not necessarily. Women w high body counts sometimes were just in relationships w a lot of men. They don’t talk or pretend to wanna date guys sleep w them and dip
@TruthBringer using people does not = rape. Rape is non consensual sex. Using someone is to act like you care about someone just to get what you want from someone.
@TruthBringer using someone means to deceive or manipulate sex from someone. That’s not rape but is using someone
@TruthBringer & etc. anyways I go to bed fine as I know people who use people will pay for their actions in this life or the next 🥳 Bye
@Asker you've pretty much pointed out what I said. However, the dynamics for a woman with a high body count do differ as women with a high body count OFTEN stack up on bodies through casual sex. Also, these are often women who get into relationships with men only to let them down sooner or later (often sooner). I don't condone fuckboy behavior, at the same time, I doubt it's "using" someone who allows herself to get used anyway. I'd find it far more worse for a virgin women or a woman with a low-body count to get deceived.
@TruthBringer it’s wrong. Period. Anyways that’s why I’m celibate haha. Men ain’t shit. “It’s ok if to deceive someone to have sex w them, that’s not using them” 🤡
@TruthBringer what do u consider a high body count anyways?
@Asker "Men ain't shit". Yeah, pretty much sums up your mentality and misandrism. Not sure who you've just quoted, but those are definitely not my words since I've perfectly stated to be against selling someone a fantasy just so you can have sex with them and then let them down. To me, a girl who had any casual sex is already an X on my list. For me anything over the number 2 or 3 is what I personally consider high. Although those numbers pale in comparison to the majority of western women's numbers.
@TruthBringer actually if u google it it’s rape by deception
@Asker rape is having sex with someone against their will (without conscent). Having sex while deceiving someone is still them giving you conscent. So I can't call that "rape". Nice twisting work you did there. But you can't twist a definition.
@TruthBringer google it it’s actually a thing I did not know about til recently. U can be improsened for it
@TruthBringer well is it considered casual sex if u thought u were in a relationship (because they made it seem like it and made u exclusive and then they told u after u weren’t lol
@TruthBringer nvm lmao why am I bothering to ask random dudes online that I’m never going to date these questions I’m such a 🤡
@Asker so if we speak of rape, we refer to the awful act of using force or drugging someone to have sex against their will. And when it comes to being deceived, this points back to poor judgment skills and poor judgment of character. So love, if you (and by "you" I mean people in general) have sex with a man you thought he was telling you the truth, then you got yourself to blame, not the world. Nobody forced your legs open, you did it on your own. This is why conservative communities or at least families where the parents (dads in particular) are very strict and educate their children in this regard so that they DON'T fall for such traps. So you got your own naivety to blame.
I Googled it and usually people who are commiting even bigger frauds are being punished for it. Not when a dude tells you sweet words that you want to hear, gets with you in bed and then leaves you hanging. It's your fault for believing him.
@TruthBringer nah it wasn’t poor judgement I was manipulated.
@TruthBringer lmao I meant does that count as casual sex?
@Asker I wouldn't call that casual since it was not meant to be casual, I will call sold a fantasy and falling for it due to poor judgment skills and poor skills of handling a situation. I know girls who thought by giving sex, they will get a relationship with the guy. They were dead wrong. Manipulation is questionable since more context is needed. Often, you weren't being "manipulated". You were simply naive. Certain people are easier to deceive than others. And that has a lot to do with lack of experience and/or lack of guidance. So learn to take accountability. You allowed yourself to get deceived because you lacked the means to smell the bullshit. Not everyone is going to fall for sweet talks from a fuckboy. And no one forced your legs open. Only the latter will get you far with the police and not the former. This is why I tell women not to sleep before having commitment and WAIT some time before proceeding to have sex within the relationship. That way you'll minimize the odds of dealing with a fuckboy. The rest depends on your own judgment skills to with whom you're getting into bed with. The "rape by deception" is far more nuanced than you make it out to be. And thus should not be tossed around so easily. There is a reason why religious communities forbid pre-marital sex. To make sure this bullshit doesn't occur.
@TruthBringer well actually nah so basically he made us exclusive told me I couldn’t even talk to other guys. The list rlly goes on. Anyways he did tell me he only was seeking a relationship in the beginning before making us exclusive no friends with benefits or hookups. The list goes on. Anyways no I don’t think it’s rape at all. I was just wondering if u considered that a casual fling. And yea people have bad judgement all the time but I don’t anymore lol
@Asker in the end it all depends on the situation. What I say is from a general perspective. Specific experiences can always vary and need to be assessed accordingly. Not everything is out of naivety and not everything is because of "rape by deception". From what I've seen it's mostly the former.
@TruthBringer just because someone was naive doesn’t mean they’re still naive. But yea it doesn’t count as casual sex
@TruthBringer anyways Gucci. I only date Christians and most Christians (I’ve met at least) will still date me cuz they know not to judge someone based of their past. As long as A) ur sorry for it b) repented c) changed ur ways & d) apologize for not waiting till marriage to ur husband since that’s a decision which effects them. But yeah I check all those boxes. It’s amazing how good of a god we have (not everyone believes in god but) who died for our sins and already paid the price of it. So I’m happy w my Christians boys and my future Christian husband over those other dudes any day. Thanks for answering my questions I was curious about. Have a good one! :)
Asker "Were in a relationship with a lot of men"... right, "in a relationship* an hour after meeting them, in a stall in the men's restroom.
Are you a killer? What body count lol😂
I’m only interested in successful serial killers.
No, not unless I had 1 too
Yes, don't care what she has done before.
Definitely I'd prefer a girl with high body count
Ur 13 lol
Lol wtf gotta change that
Nope
Fair enough, What’s considered a high body count to u?
More than 5-6
Yes. I do have a high body count also
Sure but I wouldn't marry her