Guys, what are some signs on a date, that a guy finds me attractive?

[Anonymous]

I had 2 dates with a guy I met from Tinder. What are some signs, that he found me pretty or attractive in real life too? Since you never know, if a person still finds you attractive irl after seeing your photos.

[ChrisMaster69]

That he kept looking at you and your body during the date.

eye contact and conversation can reveal a lot.

post date, how much he chats to you, what compliments he gives you, such as you look so much better in flesh, your photos don’t do you justice, lovely outfit.

all the usual nice things.

if it’s sex type stuff, it’s hard to tell if he is being honest or just wants to fuck.

a couple of dates usually show how someone thinks

[Asker]

He didn’t compliment me, so I guess he didn’t find me better looking in real life

[ChrisMaster69]

Did he say anything positive during or after each date?

[Asker]

We only had two dates. But I didn’t reach out to him after the first one on purpose, because I thought, if he’s interested, he’s gonna do that. And he called me directly after the first date, we talked for over an hour or so. He seemed quite happy on the phone. The next day, I visited him at his place and he seemed quite eager too. Asking „are you already on your way?“ or „hit me up when you’re on your way“, etc. I thought that would be positive signs. Of course, as I visited him at his place and we were watching movies, he got touchy and horny all the time. I felt a bit uncomfortable, but since I found him attractive I didn’t say anything. But we didn’t have sex, I told him before it couldn’t happen and he was fine with it. Even after the second date, he still texted me every day. A few days later I asked him, whether I was as he expected, maybe it was dumb asking such a thing, because it just screams „I’m so insecure.“ I told me it differed a bit, but that he just had really high expectations. I don't know what these „expectations“ were, but since we texted for 5 weeks before meeting up, I guess it’s no surprise. Then everything went downstairs and I got really insecure. A few days later he broke off contact, saying he can’t imagine a relationship whatsoever, although he was really sure of me while texting. I guess I just wasn’t as pretty irl as he thought or sth

[StunningANDbrave]

If this guy took you out twice your answer should be obvious. If he didn't find you attractive there wouldn't be a 2nd date

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Shouldn't be going on dates, during a FUCKING VIRUS

Also, don't use dating apps. They're not quality, trust me