i can't tell you total numbers, cause frankly: i don't remember all of the rejections. but it's definitely above 90% of the times. but the under 10% that ended up not rejecting me weren't what i want.
Never did. Until 2019-2020 I was able to get over a 2017 breakup, so, no. I am fine with it.
Not sure about my ex. Little after we breakup she started dating a guy, a year after she told me personally, but that's because her dad run his ass from his house (she still live with parents), so she wanted to use me as her blanket. Long story, the thing is accordingly, it was gonna be serious. If it was the case, and knowing her well, I believe the pandemic devastated her relationship.
I’m not sure tbh. Unless you consider being ghosted a form of rejection, then 2-3 times
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On mild rejections (guy stop texting back for example, also online dating) it is a couple of hundreds. After a couple of dates it has been maybe 20-30 and like a handful I dated for a longer time.
Only ever been rejected, I never counted rejections as that would be too depressing but if I had to estimate, I say over 1000 for sure,(I used to be confident and asked out lots of girls everyday)
Only 1 time, I can't even find girls that can go that far w me, having a unique personality is already a big cut in chances of finding someone I'll like.
Well the funny thing is, dating seems to be the only place where I'm like this. Every other part of my life is going pretty good, but here I've got no motivation to do anything, don't feel like I need it But thanks for the advice nonetheless.
I'm reluctant to answer this question because I just know that people will say I'm lying, and I'll get a lot of 'thumbs down', but... I've never been rejected.
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Do dating apps count? If not, I'd say in real life I've been rejected 3 times.
got rejected by guy from high school and give him a letter to and he did rejected me. Other times it just been some one guy that Also rejected since one then called me ugly. Also rejected some guys online dating as well.
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Zero times, its only because i never put myself in the risk of being rejected.
I lost count. But I’ve been rejected all my life... by my parents, family, friends, even women I liked.. but the trick is to be like Elsa from frozen and let it go
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I think once or twice. I don't usually put myself in a situation to be rejected.
i can't tell you total numbers, cause frankly: i don't remember all of the rejections. but it's definitely above 90% of the times. but the under 10% that ended up not rejecting me weren't what i want.
Never did. Until 2019-2020 I was able to get over a 2017 breakup, so, no. I am fine with it.
Not sure about my ex. Little after we breakup she started dating a guy, a year after she told me personally, but that's because her dad run his ass from his house (she still live with parents), so she wanted to use me as her blanket. Long story, the thing is accordingly, it was gonna be serious. If it was the case, and knowing her well, I believe the pandemic devastated her relationship.
And her mental health, which was already fragil.
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125 or so claim bad timing... But later on 50 of those wish they had not pretended to date that other guy the eventually landed...
He is a jerk, never cared about her needs or goals, abused or cheated on her.
1 in the bed next to her while she watched in disbelief.
3. if you include a guy who I had a relationship with for 3 mos who dumped me, 4.
I’m not sure tbh. Unless you consider being ghosted a form of rejection, then 2-3 times
On mild rejections (guy stop texting back for example, also online dating) it is a couple of hundreds. After a couple of dates it has been maybe 20-30 and like a handful I dated for a longer time.
Only ever been rejected, I never counted rejections as that would be too depressing but if I had to estimate, I say over 1000 for sure,(I used to be confident and asked out lots of girls everyday)
Only 1 time, I can't even find girls that can go that far w me, having a unique personality is already a big cut in chances of finding someone I'll like.
I never get rejected because I only use dating sims.
I don't remember being rejected but I also never had to approach a guy.
I've asked out one girl till now, got rejected once.
Haven't felt like trying again.
Weak.
So what?
Change. There's nothing good that comes from being weak.
Who says I wanna date?
Irrelevant. There's a sort of defeatism in what you say, or that you haven't gained a resilience of spirit yet. Focus on it and be better, Anon.
Well the funny thing is, dating seems to be the only place where I'm like this. Every other part of my life is going pretty good, but here I've got no motivation to do anything, don't feel like I need it
But thanks for the advice nonetheless.
I'm reluctant to answer this question because I just know that people will say I'm lying, and I'll get a lot of 'thumbs down', but... I've never been rejected.
Do dating apps count? If not, I'd say in real life I've been rejected 3 times.
got rejected by guy from high school and give him a letter to and he did rejected me. Other times it just been some one guy that Also rejected since one then called me ugly. Also rejected some guys online dating as well.
Zero times, its only because i never put myself in the risk of being rejected.
In all honesty I don't remember because it is in the past and being rejected allowed me to date another lady and it was her loss.
I lost count. But I’ve been rejected all my life... by my parents, family, friends, even women I liked.. but the trick is to be like Elsa from frozen and let it go
If I had a $1.00 every time. I could pay every mother fuckers debt. Even those who didn't deserve it
I don't get rejected too often because usually I don't ask guys out.