How to get over being rejected by someone you were infatuated with after texting them for weeks?

[Anonymous]

The realization that someone has seen your soul, and has still decided that they don’t want to be with you. They have spent time talking to you, and consciously and subconsciously, have formed a clear opinion of you.

This someone didn’t adore looking into your soul, want to go on adventures and create long-lasting memories with you.

The rejection is hurting my self-esteem and spiraling me down into a black hole of depression.

[FlowerSeed]

Hello I'm FlowerSeed... well the best way for me right now is to lay in bed and listen to a dating coach on YouTube, his name is called the toxic dating coach so please check him out. Oh and I try to make my coffee extra sweet now or at least have a cup of coffee to get through each day.

[Anonymous]

In your case, i would think start writing a novel. Those are some deep words. Shape your
depression into something productive

[Jamie05rhs]

I've been there. (Though in my case, I probably never even had a chance. I was probably rejected right from the get-go and just didn't know it.)

[Asker]

Yes that is what happened. The delusion/denial was strong with me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Dang. I'm sorry. 😕

[Anonymous]

Welcome to reality. There is really nothing you can do, just existing with that pain is extremely hard.