Is below average looks enough to keep a guy from ever getting a date?

[Anonymous]

Yes it is

No it’s not

[lgutierrez0813]

Eh... i would always consider myself average and never thought id pull in two older women who were in their early 30s. Its about how you make them feel most of the time. Thats why i would like older women, they knew what they wanted and were not with jokes.

[exitseven]

I am not a very attractive person, average at best. I workout and lost weight and fixed the things I could fix. I still do not look very handsome.
I tried to be the best version of myself and try to be friendly and funny and real. I never really hit it out of the park but I had gone out with a few girls and I managed to marry somebody that is pretty special.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[orangecherry]

No not really. Looks isn't the most important thing. I don't want to be with a guy who looks like a gargoyle tho

[iboobs]

Not necessarily. Being ugly and having unrealistic standards will keep him from getting a date.

[coachTanthony]

Lack of effort and confidence will keep a guy from getting a date more often then not.

[Dude_777]

Work on your looks & style, manners, self development, sense of humor, communication skills, personality, career etc. They matter a lot more.

Looks might help to get a date, but it's the factors i mentioned above gets you going on the long term.

[Asker]

I always get friend zoned.

[Dude_777]

It's probably because you are too nice to them, and try to seek their validations & approvals and you spend too much time texting them and talking to them online, rather than simply asking out for date.

Join some activities & hobbies and you will meet like minded girls and keep that attitude that you have many options to choose from, rather than acting like a loser.

Keep an attitude, take me or leave me and have a nice sense of humor and make them laugh a lot. Be hard to get.

Ask them what kind of guy they are looking for, and then reply "that doesn't sound anything like me", so we can stop dating if you wish.

Tell them you are looking for a specific type of girl and not in a hurry to settle down with just anyone.

This shows that you have standards, and not just hitting on every girl.

[Dude_777]

And be fun, be popular around girls and make every girl laugh, whether she is 14 or even 44. It's practice

[TheBigGuy9]

The best thing for anyone to do is exercise. It is a game changer and you benefit from a plethora of aspects. Not to mention it makes you feel good overall. That will raise anyone up 3 points at the bare minimum for a 1-10 hotness.


You need to find yourself a nice old fashioned woman who appreciates you for you and your strong work ethic. Non-judgemental, kind. Doesn’t spend all their free time on social media.
Good luck!

[MrNameless]

You're fine. . Be in shape, dress well and have good hygiene and that's more than enough to increase your attractiveness. But Confidence is important as well

[Anonymous]

A guy can be judged more by his occupation then a female can. I dont give two fucks about what a girl does or how much she makes. I would just as happily date a waitress or store clerk than a female lawyer

[Chthou95]

It can depending on the person. a lot of people won't admit it but some people really are ugly and were dealt a bad hand at birth.

[Siren777]

Any guy can get a date if he is confident enough.

[Asker]

Unless he has very below average looks?

[Siren777]

Even if he feels he is below average. Fake it until you make it. Work on your self esteem and confidence and dress well and you can get a date.

[LetmeHelpyou12]

No it is not enough to keep him from getting dates form women, it is a confidence thing.

[slatyb]

Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett.

[Psychosocial]

You know the answer. Cmon