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I have a tinder date tomorrow, any safety tips? (Page 2)
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be smart and know not to get your self in the wrong place with someone you don't know
if he doesn't acts weird or have any strange hobbies it should be fine.
Always let a trusted friend know where your going and an estimation of your return time. Then call her and let her know that you are okay
Meet in a public place, arrive separately, leave separately, tell people who you are meeting, when, and when you plan on returning, don't get in his car, don't let him in yours, don't have him come back to your place, and don't go to his. Stay safe.
Bring pepper spray, a taser, a knife, a concealed gun... maybe even some nunchucks if that’s your thing.
You don’t want to be murdered or something…. meet in a public place. Simple
Wow, just proving my theory, girls these days are sluts. Werent you the girl that broke up with your now ex boyfriend bc ''porn gave you bad expectations'' ?
So, summary: girls allways say - '' i want a guy that will respect me '', dumps a guy for, ost likely, ''not measuring up'' goes on tinder, gets a hook up on an heartbeat, all this at the age of 18.
Yup, girls aren't slutty these days, and relationships failing aren't mainly their fault ( sarcasm )
.. What is wrong with you I just wanted to meet new people who said I was fucking him. Someone must have hurt your fragile heart. And no that isn't why I had to end my relationship. Please fix yourself before calling random girls sluts...
all i said was true
@AFellowWeeb She removed my comment telling her to stop wasting each other's time if she isn't willing to hook up or be open to having a relationship. Gotta love how they can't stand to hear the truth. She knows damn well she is wasting his time
@TruthBringer nw dude, i saw it xd
@AFellowWeeb Gotta love these ingenuine snowflakes. Either she is gonna hook up with him orshe is using him for free dinner lmfao
@TruthBringer Ok hun why don't you do something better with your life instead of being angry at me for going on a date LOL. You two must have a lot of childhood issues. I won't hate you for your traumas.
@just_a_potato Oh sweetheart, I have had a wonderful childhood and I am living a life of enjoyment in both career and relationship. You're not so special to think we actually care about you. We're just calling you out on your ingenuine intends. And the fact you chose to remove my comment goes to show I was accurate lmfao
@TruthBringer you care enough to start a debate with me and click on a question for ADVICE on a date to tell me that I'm basically a slut who is trying to hurt people. Not everyone has ill intentions online. The reason I removed your opinion instead of all the rest is because you told me I was ingenuine. You don't know the guy I'm talking about nor do you me. If you want to throw insults at me do it when I'm in the wrong. I'm not a proud person i would admit that.. But I have done nothing wrong. And you are annoyed that I know I'm haven't.
@just_a_potato I wasn't the one who directly called you a slut. I simply recognized a selfish intention from your end. Just me calling it out doesn’t mean I’m a bitter person who had a bitter past. It sounds like you’re projecting your own insecurities on others now. If you’re going to ask a question publically while also giving information away such as not interested in hooking up or a relationship, then you’re only asking for criticism and sceptism coming your way.
True, I don’t know you personally, nor the guy (I never criticized him), at the same time, judging from the information you’ve given, it shouldn’t strike you as a surprise that people will assume and perhaps even believe that you’re out there to have a free (dinner) date. Because this is a VERY common thing nowadays. Maybe you don’t have ill intentions. At the same time, you didn’t engage my comment and prove me otherwise. Which goes to show you’ve only validated my words even more. The reason why it annoyed you so much is because it seems like I was right.
I would actually be pleased to be wrong on what I said. It would spare the other party much pain and will also lessen the bitterness out there about women using men. But since you've chosen to remove my comment, without debunking, I'll stick to my initial thought.
@TruthBringer look I can see where you interpreted me wrong. I just wanted to know how I could stay safe on a date. That was all I asked I just gave background info. I made my intentions clear to him about what I wanted and what I didn't want. I'm not the type to string someone along and he knows what he's getting into. I'm not projecting either this is usually the reason why people confront me, I usually don't say or post things like this because I know people will make me out to be a terrible person no matter what. We are on the internet so I don't know if you are doing this just to get to me, if you're bored, or something else. But if your intentions weren't malicious, no I'm not going on dates for free dinner. I have that at home. I've never been on a date before until now. This is me learning how this shit works without the pressure of being afraid he wants sex or a relationship. I guess in a way I am being selfish, luckily for me, he is doing the same thing.
@just_a_potato You have a better head on your shoulders than many girls and women out there. Kuddos to you. Next time, it is best for you to make things clear from the start before people start assuming things. The thing is, Tinder is usually used for hooks up. And many women use it to exploit dudes for free dinners. Those who often say they aren't looking for a relationship are either trying to hook up or trying to score foodiecalls. On another note, often those who try to "get to know people" (aka make "friends") through dating apps such as Tinder are trying to have an army of simps they are leading on for their own ego boost.
But if you say that both of you know what you're getting yourselves into and agreed about the context of your date, then there is nothing wrong with your actions. Your only concern would be your safety.
My point is, rather than throwing a temper tantrum and attacking at those who "misinterpreted" you, it is best to fill in the blanks as much as you can, otherwise people are going to fill it for you. The biggest reason why I thought my initial assumptions were correct is because you immediately went on the defensive without an explanation like you have done here. All in all, I sure would be glad to be wrong.
@TruthBringer ok fine that is fair. I can see where I didn't make things clear enough, I do have an issue with being vague enough to leave room for assumptions to bleed in. But I only became defensive because I felt you were trying to gauge a reaction out of me, which I guess you did but I'm not usually on the recieving end of accusations like that so I didn't want to deal with it. I really shouldn't have to either. And yes I'm looking for friends, I won't lie that I'm not interested in romantic prospects but I got out of a relationship not long ago and I have to work on myself before I even think about getting into another. I don't like the way you approached me, but I do appreciate that you have the integrity to actually try and have a conversation instead of hurling insults at me until I didn't answer the thread anymore. I respect you for this. Still if you want to be like a blunt sword you have to also keep in mind you are talking to a living person.
did you split the bill? if not, he was right all along @just_a_potato
Shut up weeb im not having a convo with someone who can't keep a conversation like an adult.
''Shut up weeb''
Like you?
just give him what he wants... if he says he wants head give him head... a man will never get violent if you obey him.
Lmaooo wtf
@Aphrodite801 if you don't he'll get violent with you your choice
What a shit troll you are. You’re either a guy or some scary ass girl. Betting on you being that “violent” guy.
@Aphrodite801 i'm a woman!!! just trying to help you because what your getting into could be violent if you don't comply with him
Meet in public place.. keep ur mobile location on and let a friend keep a eye on u.. avoid going to a secluded place alone
Carry protection and tell your friends where you will be.
Use codoms. I had sex with my tinder date last Friday and now my pussy feels funny
Cause he scrambled your eggs?
What's that supposed to mean
... how do you like your eggs in the morning... unfertilized...
Sex without emotional context = Less exciting than masturbation.
Tinder is a hookup app. If that's what you are looking for, then all good. Just know that that will be his expectation, and plan/behave accordingly.
Who cares about his expectations? She’s not there to please the guy cause he “thinks” it’s a hook up app lol by the way I don’t do tinder and I already got my boyfriend.
@Giselleselfish It was a warning to her, dumbass. I told her that so she wouldn't be caught off guard when she discovers the guy is only interested in her for sex.
Why are you, in all of your many user accounts here at GAG, always one of the most butthurt females on GAG ever?
Sure as fuck didn’t sound right.
I don’t have many accounts, dumbass.
@Giselleselfish Spare me. You have had at least a half dozen accounts in the last year alone and you have been the same bitter, butt hurt bitch in all of them, which I'm sure is why your accounts keep getting banned.
We had a long convo, I'm not looking for sex, he's not looking for sex. It's fine. I just want to see what the world has to offer for me.
Great, I'm happy to hear that. Good luck to you.
Meet in public, arrange for a friend to pick you up, dont let him drive you home.
People shouldn't be dating at all, DURING A FUCKING VIRUS
Uh what's wrong with dating?
what do you think
I'm assuming you don't want me to be swapping my potato grease. My grease my spread.
Meet him in a public place... how hard is this? Are you planning on banging the guy?
No...
@just_a_potato. Than take your own transportation, meet in a public place, and hopefully have a nice time.
Just meet in a public place like a restaurant or cafe. Have you date there and leave separately. Pretty simple, no?
Public place, in the day, never go in a car, plan where you'll go.
That's what I do.
Just stay in a public setting at all times
I agree. I like the way you think.
Meet new people in a public place.
keep your eyes on your drink
Always
I keep my eye son my drink unless I am 100% sure you are safe no matter who you are. I never take my eyes off my drink. I don't care if this is seen as paranoia. I once refused to drink a drink someone bought me and they took it as rudeness. I didn't see it being served.
My friend had his drink spiked with XTC poor man
Yeah, don’t be paranoid because 99.9% of males are not crazy asshole rapists.
Is that sarcasm?
No it’s truth.
I must be old, what is a tinder date?
Tinder is an online dating site. Famous for fuck hook ups. though it can be used traditional dates also .
Tinder. com it's an online dating site which can be used for traditional dating and also for hooking up fucking. its famous it's even a genre of porn in the likes of pornhub and xvideos etc.
If you don’t know how to keep yourself safe don’t go on the date and learn
Hide a gun and a police whissle.
Why not mace or bear spray?
@Guardian45 because I didn't think of it,
I dont know i would never have dates with complete strangers 🙄
Uh, ok?
Lol women still think they're going to get murdered on tinder dates?
I think you have a better chance dying in a car crash than a tinder date.
Well I mean I never been on a real date before let alone with someone I've never met, I just wanted advice damn...
Well what did you do when you met your friends? Cause everybody start off as strangers.
My advice don't assume every guy on tinder is a murderer.
I'm going to assume EVEEYONE is a murderer, why do you assume I assume every guy on tinder is a murderer? Your words not mine.
Ugh.. you're the one asking for safety tips and saying you don't want to be murdered. Why else would you ask this?
Or do you just assume all strangers are murderers?
Yes I do assume all strangers are murderers, why do you think I'm on tinder instead of meeting people in person?
Ah this actually explains a lot why you're on tinder.
You're one of those crazy people.
At this rate I'm more concerned for the guy than you.
It doesn't matter what I would say, you were gonna respond in a negative remark either way lol.
Negative?
Look up how many people died from car accidents versus people being murdered from dates.
Now if you narrow it down to dates only from tinder all of a sudden it doesn't seem so bad.
Is it bad that I want to be safe? The world is a terrible place especially in my area, why is it a big deal?
Cause you're over reacting...
It's like seeing a bus crash. And then assuming all buses aren't safe to ride on.
Then let me overreact in peace, I'm not hurting you sir.
Ok... Well it's been a couple of days after the tinder date. And you're still alive.
Yes it seems I am. That takes one person off my murderer list.
Meet in a public well lit place
I mean. It's Tinder. He's going to turn up expecting sex.
So long as you meet in a public place and make your intentions clear and blunt. You should be fine.
We already talked about that he knows very well this isn't for sex
Uuuuu. Good luck 😊🙏🏻🙏🏻
So
how did it go?
It went really well I enjoyed myself and he wasn't weird like I was afriad he would be, so the hours flied by!
Good
Public place with lots of people present.
Don't know. Be careful. Good luck..
Meet him anywhere next to a police station!
Pepper spray?
Meet in a public place always.
You can still get preggers during a pandemic.
I uh alright thanks
Hey, just make sure he pays for dinner.
It was just icecream.. And he did pay...
Remember to turn off your gas
Take a pocket-sized flashlight
Stop using tinder.
where can i find friend or future husband. this is a new city to me job and hobby dont supply me with such people...
@improve First off you said you weren't looking for serious, I believe. Secondly, online dating sites are the last place to go looking for a husband. If you want a traditional guy, read my MyTakes. He'll find you if you're the kind of woman he wants.
I actually don't have tinder anymore I just wanted to meet a handful of people to add on snap and see if they'd like to see me sometime... Why would it matter?
Because 99% of people don't go on tinder looking for serious. It's like swimming in the sewer & saying you're looking for spring water.
I never said I was either
Go somewhere public. You'll be safe there
Give him a blow job
Meet in public
Meet in public
Wear a condom.