I was in a on and off relationship with my abusive boyfriend. He hasn’t hit me in awhile but he still has his abusive ways. Still controlling, obsessive etc. I have been working a nice, comfortable, good paying job and it’s overnight so most mornings I would get off and go to his house just to spend time with him and he would drop me off and I could tell it was frustrating him that I was working so often and he didn’t get time with me like he wanted but I never thought he would result to doing what he did a few days ago. After going over his house again after getting off early morning, he promised to take me to work later that night etc as the time got closer for me to head out for work again he started to pout, say things under his breath etc then started to vent to me about how I make him happy and he loves being around me, he wants to be able to go to sleep with me and wake up to me and hates how he doesn’t get time with me anymore because The job is taking all my time and making me tired. He said he wasn’t saying I should quit but wanted me to come up with a solution to change those things, as if I could and then when the time came for us to have to leave out for me to make it on time he starts to pull my underwear down and started to give me oral and talked to me while doing it saying “Let me take care of you.” “You’re not going to work. You don’t have to work anymore.” “If you want to, you have 30 days to find a new job.” But I liked/like the job I have. He didn’t hit me but only because I didn’t fight him on it , for my safety, and went along with it. I missed two days of work, no call no shows and I had to sneak a text to my supervisor opening up about my situation in order to keep my job and then I had to sneak a Uber home, when he left out to the store, the next morning in order to not miss another day. I’m in the Uber now and he hasn’t made it back to the house to know I left but I’m afraid of what his reaction is gonna be when he does.
Should I be worried about my safety?
