I'm far from perfect, but assuming anyone is willing to date me, I offer a plethora of benefits that make me special.
In no particular order:- I'm loyal and devoted. Once I'm in a relationship with a guy, he's stuck with me unless he does something really stupid (such as cheat), or asks we end things. I try to pick partners based on long term relationships, so I'm not jumping from one relationship to another
- I'm fairly independent and like doing my own thing. Meaning I'm not the clingy, needy type. You want a night out, or hang with the guys? Have fun! I'll be doing my own thing as well! I'm big on "me time" and not smothering people
- I'm fit and active. So I'm going to motivate you to exercise and stay in shape
- I'm honest. Bluntly so.
- I'm a good listener and-
- I know how to keep my mouth shut.
- It doesn't take a lot to make me happy. Seriously: keep it simple with me
- I'm a geek. So if you're into video games, anime, or technology? I'm your woman. We can talk about that for hours.
- I'm frugal with money and an introvert. No, that's not a bad thing... it means I'm happier staying in than going out most of the time. And I'm resourceful with money and my spending habits.
And MUCH more. All of which I'm offering to the right person.
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POSITIVES:
1. I'm loyal and supportive.
2. Seek to bring out the best in people I care about.
3. I'm open-minded when it comes to *many* things (not *all* things, though).
4. I'm intelligent.
5. I have a good, witty of humor.
6. I have a strong work ethic *most* of the time (not 100% of the time).
7. I'm fairly patient.
8. I'm VERY interesting to talk to (I have to be, considering my looks)
9. I'm monogamous AF.
10. If you're a nerd, you'll like that I'm nerdy and into video games or superheroes.
11. I'm creative and artistic, if that's a thing you like.
12. I'm very much into self-improvement and not being the same person I was before.
13. I'm romantic, when I have the right person who deserves that.
14. I'm appreciative and grateful of good things, the few times in my life I get them.
15. I'm a strong communicator and would like to talk through issues, rather than letting them boil over.
NEGATIVES:
11. My height is a big one; I'm only 181 cm (A "F" grade; a little manlet of a male)
12. I'm not attractive looking in the face; dare I say, I'm "ugly."
13. I'm overweight (and I've tried my whole life to lose it, but Hypothyroidism makes it that much harder).
14. I'm dark skinned.
15. I have a small penis (6.5).
A good S. O loves themselves first.
A good S. O stays attuned to their partner’s needs.
A good S. O is a good listener.
A good S. O is a good communicator.
A good S. O is forgiving and doesn't hold grudges.
A good S. O is honest and lives with integrity.
I could go on but you get the picture.
"A true relationship is two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other."
~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG
Straight up true
Faithful
Hilarious
Work hard play hard
Independent
Multitasker
Good cook/baker
Great listener
Sex all the time if you're up too it even after a hard day at work (let me shower first lol 😆)
Love to laugh
Don't snuff the small stuff
Keep a clean house (OCD)
Very hygienic
Try to maintain my health
Good at conversating (communation is key)
Love animals
Compassionate/understanding
Educated (smarter than the average bear)
Down to earth (Ok most of the time)
Lover not a fighter
Compromise/Sacrifice
No I'm not a model I got my imperfections but I've earned them good, bad or other wise. I'm a survivor through & through, but I'll do my best to see it till end, I'd say I'm a pretty damn good friend.
Unconditional non-superficial that's just me✌️
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I am loyal until death us do part.
I mean I could not really answer that because not every relationship is the same. Some change you for better some for worse. Others bring you out of your comfort zone. What I can say is if you love yourself and truly find out who you are as a person they you will more than likely be a great SO to the other person. Take time being single to work on yourself and you will be amazed at how effortless everything will be in a relationship because you will know exactly what you want and not settle for less
When two people touch there's an energy between you both so for me I can only be as good did you allow me to that's why I try to make it all about the girl the more turned on I can get her that turns me on and the more I get turned on the more turned on I can get her and when you can become one in slow deep motion or in a pounding non-stop motion it gets intense the more intense it gets the hotter it is like I said it's all of it to cycle it is beautiful what you allow each other to fill each other and become one together that's when I know it is good very good
I am dependable, trustworthy, open, I listen actively and believe in clear open communication.
Very open emotionally
sense of humour.
strong and confident to protect them and family.
financially secure
loyalty
also love to give and receive snuggles.I'm great with openess and communication.
They have full access to my phone at any given time. They just need to say the word. Any time I go out, I let them know where I'm going and who I'm with. If I change locations, I let them know. If I talk to anyone of the opposite sex during the day, I let them know and what we talked about. I'll show messages maybe if I feel it will help put their mind at ease.
I'm very vocal about everything that goes on in my mind. If I don't like something I'll let them know. If I do like something I'll let them know. When I feel sad, happy, uncomfortable, angry, anxious, etc... I'll let thrm know. We don't read minds. We can only guess and assume as humans so the best way to let your partner know what's up is to tell them. If they're mature, they'll be able to handle all your shit and support you.I'm a nurturer. I enjoy taking care of my man.
I'm honest and trustworthy, loyal to a fault.
I have a good heart. I would never do something deceptive or immoral or purposely hurtful.
I'm responsible with money.
I know quite a bit about sports.
I'm perfectly happy with the simple pleasures in life. I'm low key, and I'm just fine staying in, watching movies and drinking hot chocolate in our pj's.
But I also have an adventurous side. Want to climb a mountain? I'm down. Want to drive on a racetrack? I'll give it a shot. Rappel down a waterfall? Sure, you only live once lol.During the dating process it's more so patience, humor, kindness and understanding.
But when we establish ourselves as a couple you get my dedication, undying support, my trust, we can share amazing moments that your friends will be envious of.
And as a father I would break my back backwards to make sure the kids have all the memories I wish I had with a father.
And I also know quite a bit about... that, too. But that comes after compatibility and not beforeI love to listen, especially if it's something that I can tell is important to you. I'm very cuddly and love nothing more than being held. I have a naturally low body temp and am always cold so if you get over heated you can hold me to cool down. I try to always answer honestly even if it's something I know you don't want to hear but I'm also kind about it. When I want attention I just ask for it and understand if you're busy or don't feel like giving me any.
I'm willing to make compromises and sacrifices in the relationship. I have so much love to give, and making my SO feel happy, secure, wanted and loved in the relationship is paramount to me. I consider how my actions or behavior will affect him.
Probably that I'm a decent hard working self sufficient guy, who is domestically independent (Own my house, Do my own laundry, cleaning and cooking), emotionally mature and intelligent. Not a drug or drink addict either, and not a wife beater type.
I do have my flaws (My cooking isn't great), but generally I'm not as bad as some.I am a strong open communicater. I say things from my point of view and I ask questions in an open ended fashion most times and I can give answers to direct questions in a direct manner.
I'm considered, wiser than average, not fat, quite strong for my weight, very affectionate, independent, social, a bit smart and quite industrious, above average dick size, above average height for where I live, I like sucking pussy, not demanding in sex.
I am I take care if myself first so I can be there for my partner, I am supportive, I'm a good listener, when i have a disagreement with my partner I talk it through with him, but I'm not perfect I do my best.
I always wanna touch the d. I like mini vacations. I like to push my other half to be better and I'm behind him on his decisions. I like to talk about life and work and mentally how they are doing. I try to be a good partner.
Supportive, open, honest, loyal and I will not let anyone hurt my family
Smart, good looking, rich as hell, a lion in the sack, creative, funny, and I take care of my SO.
At least my wife of thirty years thinks so. :)
You? I'll bet you've never even considered it. Do you have any idea how to keep a man?I always make people's day.
I'm loyal and faithful
Willing to share emotions
Always ready to learn
I know boundaries
Tolerant of many things
Always ready to make friendsI'm not afraid to be vulnerable. I'm not too proud to apologize when in the wrong. I listen and want to understand someone's side. I'm very accepting, loving and forgiving. I'm reliable. I'm independent but I love partnership. I'm someone you can be weird and silly with.
I try to listen and think of my so as an equal not my property or slave.
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