I still live with mine. Are you girls more forgiving now with how terrible the housing prices and rent has gotten these days? Especially here where i live in los angeles. And how low wages are generally?
Its a deal breaker to me if he's still living with his parents
Its not a big deal to me if he's still living with his parents
Depends on his age
Depends on if he's working and/or at least helping his parents with chores and/or bills and such
Depends on something else
I still live with my parents
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On a side note this nice woman gave me FREE fried chicken lol!
My reasons are complicated but i have wanted my own small place at the minimum a 500 square footer with a bedroom living room bathroom and a small kitchen. But los angeles is just astronomical with the prices. I've struggled to find a job with a livable wage and so far grubhub is my best earning I've ever had. Im psying off my debts including my terrible student loan debt slowly and once all thats done maybe ill just bite the bullet and move out. But i do do chores, help the parents out
Girls, how important to you is it that a man lives apart from his parents now?
I’m an Indian, and in India, it’s common for people to live with their parents. We call it living in “joint families” It’s not a good option lol. My mum’s parents lived with us.. well, we lived with them until I was 13 and damn, things got a little out of hand. Even though I live in a big house, everyone needed privacy, so lol. Now I live with my grandparents. Well, I don’t necessarily live with them, but I spend most of my time with them and I’m gonna move into their house soon (just me)
and I’ll move out of their house once I turn 21(when I graduate college) bc I’ll be moving to some other country then. Preferably England or Germany. And yes, it is a dealbreaker if the guy still lived with his parents. I want a responsible guy who has his shit together. I want privacy. I know for a fact that things would get bitchy if he still lived with his parents bc I’ve experienced that. There were some really huge fights in my family, fights that could’ve been avoided. Thank god we moved to another house. I didn’t want my grandparents hurt, emotionally. Although I’m glad I’m moving in with them. Our houses are closer, so it’s not a problem. I can visit my parents whenever I want to.
So yeah, well, I’d be open to date him, but he has to move out once things get serious. Everyone needs privacy. Things would get bitchy, I’m sure. In my country, it’s rare for things to get out of hand because I been the norm for centuries, but in America and other country, things would defo not work out between us of he's not willing to move out as and when we get serious. I do not want fights to break our family
@Aphrodite801 lmaooo says the girl who has "aphrodite" in her username. thanks for making me laugh. And also, I'd love to bring it to your attention that there are horny mfs exist all over the world. Indian men just come off as more creepy because they're huge in number. After all, India is the 2nd most populous country in the world. Anyway, ik that im not weak-minded bc if i am, I wouldn't be arguing with you. Guess you're just an insecure troll being a bitch to mask her own weak-minded ass. Either way, idgaf about you, have an awesome fucking day. peace
California is stupid expensive to live in. I do not blame you one bit. 😭 That's why I'm going to school so I can make the money to buy a house. Seems the only way to make enough to maintain a household and bills and everything. Unless you get really lucky and become a manager or supervisor at some place or something. Minimum wage really ain't shit though. I definitely would not care if my boyfriend still lived with his family if he couldn't afford it. It's just so HARD these days. 😭 Back in our parents youth you could get a job right out of highschool and live on your own fairly comfortably. Me and my parents were actually just having this conversation the other day.
Well, my friends in Cali tell me that it would be a dealbreaker for most women if a guy your age still lives with his parents and has student loan debt.
I know. Every place I've lived has been expensive too. I know people want to save up enough to buy property and pay off debt and whatnot, but my opinion is people don't truly grow until they leave their parents' roof. Struggle builds character.
That chicken looks good😋 Wouldn't be a deal breaker unless it's because they don't want to work at all or think their parents should totally support them their whole lives... Everyone needs help sometimes.. Times are hard for everyone
It's not a deal breaker, when me and my boyfriend started dating, we where both 24 years old, and we both still lived with our parents due to the problem of high pricing ( we live close to venice so living on your own is impossible) also because we never wanted our parents to help us, so we decided to collaborate and get an appartment together, and it works just as fine since both of us work, we pay the rent together bills and so on. So according to me, you absolutely deserve a chance, and once you're serious about a relationship you move out and in with her. WHICH IS AN AMAZING FEELING I'm TELLING YA * walks around naked *
It depends on other factors. Living with family is a plus when they all respectfully get along well and work together to better each. it’s a part of my couture. my brother continues to live with my mom with all his kids and wife. Pays the mortgage, holds a decent job. when I met my ex husband at 27, him 26, he was living at home with a good paying job. We are just close to the family.
if the man/woman is not working, refuse to work (I heard from my mom... about her friend)... and leaching off the family... it’s a big red flag.
It doesn’t matter to me but I reckon age could have an impact. I would not expect for the guy to move out before I do and it’s ok if he’s living with his parents even if I have my own place. It’s only if he’s 30+ and doesn’t have a job and is problematic that it’s a red flag for me.
I think so. It depends for why he’s living at home. If he is one of those kids that blows 10k every month from bank of mum & dad then I would feel like me and him could never see eye to eye but if he is frugal enough and is not taking the piss, I am ok with that. Like once I dated this guy who is 34 now and he didn’t have a job and lived off his parents but he was super frugal and spent all his time reading. Found him a very interesting person to hang with and we hit it off quite well.
It doesn't bother me but id hope if we get serious we can take those steps together because i want independence and privacy and living with parents can make that difficult. Having a place of your own just gives you that sense of peace and solitude for yourself
Personally I think it depends on why he is there. If he were a man child and had a mommy dependency then hell no.
If because of issues surrounding the pandemic or if they are sick or whatever then I'd say it is fine if I were even trying to date guys for some reason.
If you're living with them to be there in their lives, help them out, or because you're still working towards buying a house, I think that's fine. I think it's weird when a 30 or 40 y/o man is living with his parents and not working. Just sort of squatting. Seems like a less productive or overly reliant person.
It depends on his situation, to be honest I have been lucky havinta career that's allowed me to be able to afford to get on the property ladder most my age are still stuck renting or at their parents.
If life just hit them and they have to be at home for a while till things get better then thats fine but if they never left the nest and don't plan to then no im good. I be dammed if I deal with another man boy
Lmao why are u comparing yourself to the guys I've dated. All I need to see is that you're trying , the guys im referring to have no plans what so ever to leave the nest and that is what I'm not going to accept
im not lol. im just saying the housing market has gotten wayy out of hand and so my original question is asking if women now take this into consideration if a guy still lives with his parents knowing this?
I still live with my mother and no, it's not only because the housing prices are high. It's much more complicated than that... I would say it would depend on his age and also if he was working or not. I would expect him to have a job at least.
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