Fast forward three years and I’ve just finished up my first year of grad school. I work very hard trying to balance work and school and I’m supporting myself 100%. Meanwhile, since graduating three years ago, my boyfriend moved in with his friend where he lives rent free and has worked the same part time job for the past three years. While he did take the law school entrance exam after graduating and scored well, he just didn’t see it through. He’s still being partially supported by his parents and appears to have no clue what he plans on doing. He spends the rest of his days playing video games, watching movies, etc.
This is starting to become off putting for me because I am working so hard pursuing my dreams and he’s sitting around complaining about how life is so hard for young people right now, while he enjoys not having to pay any bills at 26 and not even having to work half the time (just chilling, making very little income). It’s also hard because he is still so smart and talented and I want him to be happy and just do something he cares about, and it’s like his talents are going to waste and he doesn’t care. I need to bring this up to him to try to give him a push in the right direction, but I’m afraid of either hurting his feelings or overstepping by telling him he needs to be doing something with his life. I’ve always thought so highly of him and his aspirations so it’s difficult confronting him about being the exact opposite of what I always believed him to be.
Advice?