I don't date coworkers bc work would get complicated. As for your brother you may want to talk to him on what he wants in a wife if he even wants to get married. From the people it seems like he picks maybe he wants a housewife.
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A lot of people (men and women) won't date co-workers. Mixing business and personal life, doesn't often work out for many. They like to keep them separate. And guys especially have to be careful with sexual harassment claims.
Think about what could happen if you had a bad breakup they got promoted and stab you in the back metaphorically or if it was a very bad break up maybe not metaphorically
It is just risky. I would not risk my job for a date or more
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Being “educated” and what not doesn’t make them high value. They’re still the same as the “jobless women” and waitresses.
Additionally, dating coworkers is asking for drama, complications, or even HR to get up your ass. In this dating landscape, anything could be viewed as an infraction and society will come down on a guy who gets accused of anything.
Imagine there is a woman you are 100% compatible with her but she is your co worker , and another woman you are 60% compatible with. I would take my coworker in that case because i want a higher chance for our relationship/marriage to continue
Depends where you work, if its just mcd job who cares, easily to change. If its high investment job where you invested years to get, thet its stupid to ruin it for one women.
Because he is a senior level, If he was to date someone lower than him he could possibly get in trouble. Also, men don't really care about a woman's status, where she works, or how much money she has.
To much drama. It's like dating the whole company. God forbid it don't work out and, it won't. And now the whole company knows your business. That's why. Sure there are plenty of co workers we like to bang but even that it trouble in its self..
As some women want to call men simple and stupid, they aren't going to risk their jobs and have the sense to keep their relationships between folks professional.
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I don't date coworkers bc work would get complicated. As for your brother you may want to talk to him on what he wants in a wife if he even wants to get married. From the people it seems like he picks maybe he wants a housewife.
A lot of people (men and women) won't date co-workers. Mixing business and personal life, doesn't often work out for many. They like to keep them separate. And guys especially have to be careful with sexual harassment claims.
Usually because he doesn't want to jeopardise his job and he wants to remain good at his job and does not really want to get distracted.
Think about what could happen if you had a bad breakup they got promoted and stab you in the back metaphorically or if it was a very bad break up maybe not metaphorically
Because if the relationship goes sour it can make for a bad work environment at your job.
It's risky both for the workplace and legal reasons, especially if one is the upper one.
Where I work, it's not wise to do so; there's always some ex (or some child) into the mix, and people generally talk too much.
It is just risky. I would not risk my job for a date or more
Being “educated” and what not doesn’t make them high value. They’re still the same as the “jobless women” and waitresses.
Additionally, dating coworkers is asking for drama, complications, or even HR to get up your ass. In this dating landscape, anything could be viewed as an infraction and society will come down on a guy who gets accused of anything.
I don't avoid, i would never miss a chance to be with someone i believe they might be the one just for this reason.
Sounds like lack of boundaries to me with little taste of soulmatesis (sickness of believing in "the one")
Please explain the one Theory
Co working is a stupid reason to reject a high quality woman especially when there are few of them these days.
Imagine there is a woman you are 100% compatible with her but she is your co worker , and another woman you are 60% compatible with. I would take my coworker in that case because i want a higher chance for our relationship/marriage to continue
Depends where you work, if its just mcd job who cares, easily to change. If its high investment job where you invested years to get, thet its stupid to ruin it for one women.
@yofuknutz some people believe in soulmate
Let us know how the false rape allegation works out for you.
Because he is a senior level, If he was to date someone lower than him he could possibly get in trouble. Also, men don't really care about a woman's status, where she works, or how much money she has.
Some companies have rules against dating co-workers. Especially if one has a higher position.
Don't put your pen in the company ink well.
I wouldn't want to see someone I was with everyday if we went out separate ways.
I dont wanna work with anyone I used to date its awkward
this is another good reason
I don't. I actually prefer to see what someone's work ethic is so I am 100% not against meeting people at work.
To much drama. It's like dating the whole company. God forbid it don't work out and, it won't. And now the whole company knows your business. That's why. Sure there are plenty of co workers we like to bang but even that it trouble in its self..
We have a saying in England: "Don't s*** where you eat."
Nice saying
shouldn't mix business with pleasure. one bit goes wrong, then a lot of the job can too.
Because the very instant something goes wrong in the relationship, you take the problem into work. You never get a break from the person.
As some women want to call men simple and stupid, they aren't going to risk their jobs and have the sense to keep their relationships between folks professional.