Dating a girl that moved away for 4 months temporarily?

[red324]

I went on like 3 dates with a girl and she told me after the first date she was moving to a different state for work for a few months, but would be moving back and they were saving her job for her. I guess she doesn't like the heat or something, but I'm pretty sure it ended up being just as hot up where she's at because they're having a drought/heat wave the whole time she's been there. lol We never really talked about being exclusive, so i've pretty much have continued to date other women. I wouldn't be surprised if their was a guy up their she didn't tell me about, I'm not clueless. Moving because of the summer heat seems a bit ridiculous in my opinion. Honestly we only dated for a month before she moved and wasn't long enough to really get anything started if that makes sense. This girl is a bit older than me and while not nearly as attractive than the early 20s girls I date at least she's straight forward with me which is a complaint i've had for a long time. These younger girls go back and forth and have no idea what they want and it drives me insane. Do you think we could pick up where things left off? We still text and keep in touch. she's coming back the first week of October.

[iseekpinetrees]

I could understand moving for weather it's too hot here in the summer. I'd definitely leave for a few months if I could. It's possible you can get back into things but you might wanna be honest and disclose about seeing other women during that time.

[kyleelyn199723]

I think you can, BUT you need to decide if attraction is going to be an issue here for you. Any guy that has other options and one he’s picking isn’t the most attractive sounds like a disaster.

[red324]

I think I need to learn to just have fun with it honestly and quit trying to make a relationship out of every girl I date. That's what the girls do, they don't care.

[kyleelyn199723]

Well I disagree with that one. You obviously want a relationship, but you should also be going for someone you are attracted to and are on the same page with. I don't know I think attraction is important and if there’s other girls that you can have that in your eyes are more attractive, that can be a problem later in a relationship

[red324]

A lot of these attractive girls are complete basket cases though.

[kyleelyn199723]

Many are, many aren’t. Have to pick and choose. Although I think attraction does matter

[red324]

I've gotten pretty good at recognizing them early on now. As far as attraction goes they don't necessarily have to be a 10. Sometimes a nice ass and nice boobs and a quirky personality is enough for me.

[kyleelyn199723]

Well a 10 can be subjective. Just you know someone that you like to look at when you are having sex is good lol

[red324]

Very true it doesn't hurt. lol I do get tired of girls telling me i'm sexy, handsome bla bla then do a complete 360 and leave me after only a month. Guess they just wanted sex and I didn't pick up on it or something.

[kyleelyn199723]

Some girls are bizarrely like that, especially in their 20s

[red324]

Yup. That's why I want to give it a shot with this 40 year old. Had one girl was 23 send me a pic of herself in the bathtub saying wish you could join me, then reschedules our 3rd date only to cancel it the next day saying i'm not interested. All this 5 days after the bathtub pic.

[red324]

I didn't join her, but I assure you I gave her some naughty thoughts and a couple good orgasms through text ;)

[FamilyGuy2020]

Why does that bother you if you're an IT Contractor? I worked in Florida specifically Jacksonville area for everybody from Bank of America to the United States Army. I then moved to Kingsbay Ga to work on US Naval Subpen project