Guys, Would you wait a few months to sleep with a girl?

[Anonymous]

Would you wait a few months to sleep with a girl if you found out she slept with another guy on the first date and regrets it? Would you be willing to be exclusive during this? Or is that too much to ask?

[VanillaSalt]

A few months? Not in a committed situation. As long as I get intimacy from somewhere then I’m good but if she’s going to decline my advances that long. It used to be admirable but these days the cutie around the corner will put out first date. Understand I’m spending my precious time and money here so expecting me to sit around with nothing to shows unfair: I could forgo sex for other forms of intimacy myself but most guys arnt willing or interested in that.

[TheBootyChest]

I would totally wait for her in this example.

I would have a harder time if she said no sex before marriage and that meant no touching private parts or see naked bodies till marriage.

And I wouldn't ever make any woman think that I want sex on the first date.

[KrakenAttackin]

Here's the thing. Many women want to pretend to be virtuous and make a guy wait for sex, but she has regularly put out sex on the first date, or in random hookups, and she is likely still having sex with random Chads while making Mr. Simp wait. Mr. SIMP has to beg for sex and appease her with dinners, flowers, gifts, etc, all the while she is falling over backwards with her legs in the air whenever Chad Thundercock texts "Hey".

Now if the woman is honestly virtuous a man would and should wait for sex. The problem is most modern women have spent their virtue like drunken sailers.

[Fireguy17]

sure, some relationships move quickly and you are undressing each other with your teeth on the first date, others take a while for that comfort level to build up where it can lead to sex.
Everyone is different.
If you are looking just to score, that is not hard to do at all.

[FireFox001]

So basically make me pay for something another person did? That sounds a bit unfair.

[Asker]

I guess I see your point

[FireFox001]

I am willing to wait ofc, but this would piss me off as in it could make me feel I'm not as good as that last one, since I am not even worth the risk xf

[Asker]

Thanks for your perspective. I guess the best thing to do is not say how soon I slept with the other person and don’t wait any longer than I had dated that person so I avoid that

[FireFox001]

Well, it is your choice. But not tellong anyone what you did before might be a good idea. I usually don't sleep with a girl on the first date, but there were exceptions.

[ItsTheNephilim]

That's not too much to ask for. You just have to find the suitable guy.

[SunnySensei]

Yes, I would Miss, I will wait until she is not ready for it too.

[ChiPaPa]

How many times has she done that. Once, I'll wait. A whole lot, no.

[Renegade_Sailor]

No, you either have passionate burning desire for me, or you're not an option.

This isn't midevil Europe.

[Drzen]

Most guys will wait actually you will keep them wait because they don't make you wet down there as the bad boy. Girls have no rules for bad boy they get down hit it raw.

[YHL6965]

Yes, but I would feel it's kind of hypocritical if I did not know she regretted it

[legalboxers]

if it was mutually agreed upon.. I dont pressure like that