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He actually sounds like me. I'm going to be honest, and I know this is going to sound like a dick move... but it's true.
In my past, when I constantly texted a woman, she always knew what I was doing, always knew what I was up to... there was no mystery and it made her lose attraction for me.
Now that I am in my 30s and have side businesses and a full-time job, I am really busy and I rarely text or call women, even when I am interested. When I am interested in a woman, I'll set the dates and make her feel like she is the best thing in the world. After the date is over, I'll go back into my world and do what I need to do to keep my life propelling forward. I'll text here and there, but I don't do it every 10 seconds. I'll text twice per day... then when you see me in person, we will catch up.
I have learned that women like a little mystery. Because, let's be honest, if he was all up under you, constantly texting you quickly and doing that kind of stuff, you would get sick of it. You might say you won't, but you will.
No I don't think this indicates 'low interest' at all. This guy definitely sounds interested. My guess is that he's just not as comfortable texting as he is in person. It IS a bit more odd if he was texting you more at first. But still, to me, the effort he's putting into planning dates shows his interest. The way he's talking to you here also strikes me as someone who is clearly interested.
The dude tried to invite you for Thanksgiving. That's... pretty intense for "date 5". That's definitely not a guy with 'low-interest'.
Obviously I don't know the context. But from this conversation, I would say you have NO reason to be doubting he's interested.🙂
He’s probably trying to form a face to face connection since that’s the best and most meaningful way to do so. He’s probably not that into texting and enjoys interacting in person way more. Also, he may be concerned about not having anything to talk about on dates if y’all text too much and run out of things to talk about. I’m only saying this because this is how I am and why I am that way. Ik im not a guy😆, but he could have the same reasoning for his behavior. Good luck with him and have fun on your next date!
Seems to me that he’s trying to play it cool with you & that he does really like you but doesn’t want to come on too strong. Or he’s just busy with work family etc. From what I can see he does like you otherwise he wouldn’t be going on dates with you.
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Doesn't mean much. I've learned that certain people are just not big into texting. I have friends like that. Some will blow up my phone, others not so much.
Equally good friends though.
It gives you the oportunity to remain mysterious and things are Kept seductive. When you guys get married ull text everyday about mails , keys , grocery shopping…
No, that's not low interest. That is called texting to actually plan something. We really don't like texting in general. We really only tolerate it because of women.
he likes u!!! it's better for him to plan than text all day about your hopes and dreams tbh. in person u could do all that and more.
Some people like texting and some don't it's no big deal do u like and trust him if u do it's fine and if u have any doubts about him just ask him:)!! I hope it all works out for you both 🥰!
Shakespeare wrote "Men of few words are the best men." He planned the date he has nothing to add to that.
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Maybe he's not a phone guy. That's not unusual. It doesn't make things easy on you but some people just aren't tied to their phone as much as others.
I wouldn’t worry about too much, it seems like he’s really into you and probably just wants to a face to face connection too. I think some guys aren’t that big into texting either, I don’t think it’s low interest at all :)
People communicate differently. If you would like more communication then talk to him
That's normal. Many of us just don't trust online interactions as much as irl ones. Personally I even avoid inviting over a social media and just go to see her in person for this.
He sounds like he just hates texting. A lot of guys do, including me.
Typically guys are not big texters, don't assume lack of interest is because he doesn't text a lot.
Why does it even matter? Isn't the point whether he shows up for the date?
If his interest is low, he wouldn't be dating you.
Have you had sex?
Nothing serious sounds fine
i dont know
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